Ex full service prostitute AMA

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I did it for around 5 years

Do you think shutting down the 'review' sites such as UK Punting would reduce the use (or abuse to be more accurate) by men of women in this way?

Thanks you for posting your experiences. Im glad that life is better for you now.

I hope you don't mind me asking...
Did any man bring you to orgasm

Well done, you should be so proud of yourself! It must of been so difficult to turn your life around. But you did it. 🌸

I'm glad you're out of that life and doing better now. Well done OP none of this could have been easy 😞 take care of yourself lovely 💐

I hope you find peace and happiness. April is the month when we celebrate the great Egyptian saint

I did find them to be pathetic but I didn’t think about it too much at the time. I absolutely resent them now though and generally don’t trust men at all

Thank you. No, I don’t. Every single woman I have known or known of has been doing it to survive

Thank you so much. I did it by self. To be fair, I have no doubt that there would’ve been support should I have seemed it out though

I think the majority won’t have a lived in experience but maybe I’m wrong. I’d say every single women I knew was also vulnerable in some way and also doing it just to survive

Sometimes I despair with mumsnet then I read a kind supportive generous thread like this and remember why I’m on it.

OP thank you so much for your posts. This sort of thread is the best of mn. Women sharing with women! Being vulnerable so we can all learn how these power structures work. Have you thought about writing a book?! You are articulate, honest and insightful. I think you would write a fantastic book on this issue. I would read it!

And thank you again. Reading this has inspired me in some ways. I’m really proud of being a woman sometimes. Proud of the strength we can show even when the world seeks to put its boot on our throat. You are an exceptional example of this kind of strength.

You said it better than me! Women are capable of so much power and compassion. I think the OP is incredible.

Do you have to be super fit/attractive to be in the game or do 'normal women' do it too?

He’s genuine and supportive and he always thinks of me/my needs. He makes me feel good about myself and treats me with kindness and respect. He wouldn’t harm me or encourage anything that was to my detriment. He’s a really good man. Very lucky to have found him!

Thank you so much. Yes, I ran away. Basically completely reinvented myself in a new area

Thanks for this AMA and, I'd like to echo what many others have said, I'm so glad that you're safe and well now.

I do have a question, if you'd care to answer it: often, when I've read interviews with prostituted women, they've said that half the time their clients only want company and they don't do anything sexual, just listen to them. I've always been a bit suspicious of this and wondered if, in your experience, there was any truth to it.

Thank you so much

Thank you so much

Unfortunately my parents had passed away but had they been alive I would’ve done everything possible to keep it from them. Thank you so much x

Thank you so much

Incredible AMA, OP. I'm in awe of you. Thanks for starting it and for being so honest.

I recently read a book about women doing sex work at the same time as having a normal job. Did you come across many women doing this? If so, what kinds of jobs did they have?

Thank you.

Thank you so much. I have never had any kind of therapy but I am considering it at the minute

Thank you so much

No, I don’t think they’d see it that way but I think I agree with you, it’s scarily similar. Not that there’s any judgment from me providing all parties are consenting and happy

Thank you so much. It isn’t something I have ever really spoke about and I’m someone that benefits from talking things through so I thought it might be a nice, engaging way to get it off my chest a little bit. It’s been a really positive experience, I’m glad I did it