Firstly - well done!!
Secondly, do you think that allowing a chunk of your daily calories to go on chocolate or other junk food helped you stick with the diet for longer, ultimately contributing to your success?
I find that whenever I try to completely cut out low nutrition, calorie-dense foods I love, or even just save them for a 'cheat day', I crave them more, and think about eating them more, and one moment of weakness can lead to bingeing on them. And breaking that boundary feels like such a set back that I get discouraged and feel that the diet has failed completely and I have to start over again. Very all or nothing thinking.
I definitely think calorie counting helps me because I have a great knack for deluding myself about how much I really eat. Think I'm going to start this properly next week (for practical reasons). And exercising a little every day - also seems more realistic for me to keep up, rather than trying to a big session every other day. Thank you for reminding me that it can be done!