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other woman AMA

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jennyOW · 26/09/2022 14:55

Have NC for this as obviously there will be backlash.

I am the 'other woman' - I have been sleeping with a married man for around 6 months. We do not date or go out anywhere, just sex and we text all day/night.

Thought people may have questions about this so go for it - Ask Me Anything!

OP posts:
Madamecastafiore · 26/09/2022 17:27

She replied to me he has kids.

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jennyOW · 26/09/2022 17:36

Yeiscray · 26/09/2022 17:04

Honestly, by your replies and complete lack of empathy I would say you’re exhibiting sociopathic traits and if I was you i’d seek counselling.

A person that helps a burglar get in and out of a house, sells and makes profit from the goods is also a burglar - You are still a cheater. The fact you have zero empathy is seriously worrying, especially as you say you have such a poorly child, would you really want that drama beating at your door with everything else going on?

Get yourself on bondara for no strings, not on a married man.

A sociopath?? Bit extreme, no?
A sociopath because I'm able to have sex without the feelings...? That seems a bit OTTA

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feellikeanalien · 26/09/2022 17:54

I hope this happens to you one day OP. You obviously don't care about his wife and that is your choice. I totally agree that he is the one breaking his vows but you are complicit.

You say his wife might be doing this too. Maybe she is but more like likely not.

If you had even the smallest idea of the pain caused by an affair then if you were in any way decent you wouldn't get involved. You'll probably just shrug your shoulders about this comment but until it happens to you, you have no idea of the damage that can be caused to his wife children and other family members.

And yes it did happen to me. That is not the sort of agony I ever want to feel again. You are selfish and you can call me bitter all you like but I couldn't deliberately be involved with causing such pain to another person. However if you are happy to be OW I suppose that tells me all I need to know about you.

Yeiscray · 26/09/2022 18:09

Not at all, I’m not saying you’re a psychopath, that would be extreme, look up sociopath, it’s very common but also something that can be helped with therapy.

To answer pp; yes, cheating married people (especially those with children) are very well known sociopaths, they lack empathy and don’t necessarily care what the circumstances as long as they get to fulfil their needs.

Two most common personality traits to cheat; Sociopath and Narcissists.

All you need to do is a quick google search to see this. I’m a trained therapist and worked with narcissistic personalities for my PHD.

Ability to compartmentalise sex- maybe, but for this person it isn’t just sex, it’s an affair if they’re communicating as often as OP says, what’s worse, it’s emotionless communication for OP, so absolutely sociopathic traits.

Nofreshstarthere22 · 01/10/2022 18:23

Who made the first move? I don’t buy the its him who is attached not me, you know he's married.

HairyMothballs · 01/10/2022 18:29

as you're no better than a prostitute - you only have sex, not dates etc., why don't you go professional and charge for it?

SavingsThreads · 01/10/2022 18:42

HairyMothballs · 01/10/2022 18:29

as you're no better than a prostitute - you only have sex, not dates etc., why don't you go professional and charge for it?

Dont do that. Plenty of women prefer no strings sex a doesn't make them prostitutes. Your comment is offensive and sexist

procrastinatingloser · 01/10/2022 18:48

Yeah don't be a prick

HairyMothballs · 02/10/2022 12:51

That's my opinion, whether you think it sexist or offensive isn't of any interest to me

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