Escorting

[yohobo]

AMA. I think it'll be therapeutic for me as I'm totally baffled as to why I'm doing it

[thingymaboob]

Do you have sex with your clients?

[Metabigot]

You might need therapy after.

[YouWereGr8InLittleMenstruators]

OP, I hope you are OK. It's late and the tone of your post makes me worry that you may not be.
Would you recommended this line of work to a female family member such as a little sister or your mother? If not, I hope you find a way to exit and that the circumstances which led you to explore escorting as an income stream change to make your life easier.
And Big, less of the "just", please. How rude and unnecessary.

[nicesausages]

Have you ever felt in danger?

[rwalker]

Did you do it out of choice as was it a last resort

[yohobo]

I'm a night owl, there isn't anything weird about the time I post stuff.
No I've never felt like I'm in danger. And no I'd never recommend it to anyone I know

[yohobo]

@rwalker

Did you do it out of choice as was it a last resort

Yes it's out of choice.

[yohobo]

@Bigballer

Are you an actual escort or just a prostitute?

Explain the difference? I think escort is just a nicer way of saying prostitute. I get paid a lot. I don't feel proud of what I do. But the way I started doing it doesn't sit right with me

[yohobo]

@thingymaboob

Do you have sex with your clients?

Yes, If that's what they want out of the meeting

[HirplesWithHaggis]

What do you mean by, "the way I started doing it doesn't sit right"? Were you coerced in any way? I see you also say you chose it, so I'm a little confused.

If you're unhappy with what you're doing, stop doing it. I know that's not easy when the money is good, but your mental health is more important.

[yohobo]

@YouWereGr8InLittleMenstruators

OP, I hope you are OK. It's late and the tone of your post makes me worry that you may not be.
Would you recommended this line of work to a female family member such as a little sister or your mother? If not, I hope you find a way to exit and that the circumstances which led you to explore escorting as an income stream change to make your life easier.
And Big, less of the "just", please. How rude and unnecessary.

I sounded curt in my reply to you. Sorry. I'm kind of not ok which is why I posted this. Thank you for being nice and yes when I sort out another income I won't do it

[yohobo]

@HirplesWithHaggis

What do you mean by, "the way I started doing it doesn't sit right"? Were you coerced in any way? I see you also say you chose it, so I'm a little confused.

If you're unhappy with what you're doing, stop doing it. I know that's not easy when the money is good, but your mental health is more important.

I don't want to go into details as it's too outing. But basically met a lovely new man, thought I was having a 'fun time' which I was happy with and it's morphed into escorting. Which makes me sound really dim.

[HirplesWithHaggis]

You're not dim.

Are drugs involved? Are you being pimped in any way - do you keep all your money?

[yohobo]

@HirplesWithHaggis

You're not dim.

Are drugs involved? Are you being pimped in any way - do you keep all your money?

The party line is that we enjoy it and it's a hobby. I shouldn't have posted anything as it's very outing. Thank you to anyone who has contributed. I definitely need to get out of this situation

[OpheliaThrupps]

Explain the difference? I think escort is just a nicer way of saying prostitute.

Some people not unreasonably take the euphemism at face value, and think that escorts are paid to escort their clients to cocktail bars, to accompany them to the ballet and to pose as their tall, slender, glamorous, intellectual date at dinner parties, and then to go home to their own bed with £1k in their handbag.

(I don't actually think that job exists. I think it's more straightforward just to say prostitute to avoid misunderstanding.)

[HirplesWithHaggis]

Talk to Women's Aid, or Scot-PEP if you're in Scotland, similar projects may exist elsewhere. Ask on SAAFE.

saafe.info/main/index.php

You're obviously unhappy and need something to change - ditch the "lovely new man" for starters.

[yohobo]

@OpheliaThrupps

Explain the difference? I think escort is just a nicer way of saying prostitute.

Some people not unreasonably take the euphemism at face value, and think that escorts are paid to escort their clients to cocktail bars, to accompany them to the ballet and to pose as their tall, slender, glamorous, intellectual date at dinner parties, and then to go home to their own bed with £1k in their handbag.

(I don't actually think that job exists. I think it's more straightforward just to say prostitute to avoid misunderstanding.)

Thanks. If I didn't feel shit before!

[yohobo]

@HirplesWithHaggis

Talk to Women's Aid, or Scot-PEP if you're in Scotland, similar projects may exist elsewhere. Ask on SAAFE.

saafe.info/main/index.php

You're obviously unhappy and need something to change - ditch the "lovely new man" for starters.

Thank you

[HirplesWithHaggis]

PM me if you want.

[yohobo]

@HirplesWithHaggis

PM me if you want.

Thanks, I have

[HirplesWithHaggis]

Just seen it. :)

[Gunpowder]

I agree you aren’t dim. It sounds like this guy has taken advantage of you. It’s not ok.

I hope you can get out if this situation soon.

[glittereyelash]

Do you have any family or friends who can help you get out of the situation your in?