I waited until I was married to lose my virginity

[topspeed]

...ask me anything

Hi - firstly why?- secondly was it all you hoped for and do you regret waiting?

How far did you go with your previous partners with regards to kidding/sexual contact etc?

Was it difficult to find a partner to agree with waiting?

*kissing

Was it a disappointment?

How old were you when you got married?

Do you worry that you might be unknowingly having really crap sex because you've got nothing to compare it to?

When did you get married and how old you then?

How old are you now?

Did your partner wait too?

If you had never married, would you have intended to die a virgin?

I think it's great that you made a deliberate choice about it and followed through.

Was it for religious reasons?

Just why?

Do you think it was worth waiting?
Did you have religious reasons?
Did it socially exclude you at all?
Did you ever question your worth or your attractiveness?

Always interested to hear this kind of thing. I might have done it too, had I had the self esteem and self restraint

Why?

How long were you together before getting married?

Oh! Just thought of some more.

Did you do it because it was expected of you by friends / family?
Did you feel pressured to get married younger?
Are / were you sexually educated and informed by school on the practicalities or health effects of sex?
What's your thoughts on other sex acts or masturbation (particularly if you're religious)?
Did you have any points of doubt or second guessing yourself?

Was the wedding night awkward?

Do you ever wish you hadn’t?

Intrigued

Hi op, thanks for the interesting thread.
I'm also wondering, if it's not too personal, about masturbation. Was it something you engaged in before marriage/ sex?
If so I imagine sex is very different.

Did you have other relationships before you met the person you married? If so, how did the lack of sex affect your partners?

I was also a virgin when I got married in 1979. Still married to the same man.
Very active sex life. Maybe I was just lucky in meeting the right man at the right time.

Did you ever nearly have sex before you married, and if so how did you stop yourself?

And were you married recently or years ago?