3 children by 3 different dads in 5 1/2 years. AMA

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I'm about to have my third baby to the third father . My eldest will be 6 a few months later . AMA

How old are you? Were you married to any of their fathers?

@NotSuchASmugMarriedNow1 I'm 28 and no not married.

F 2 & 3 both proposed. I set a date to wed F2 and called it off cancelling plans.

F3 proposed about 18 months ago. I have no plans to marry soon though, there are other priorities first so that can wait.

How do you support your family financially?

Do you think that each child having different fathers will mean they’re less close in the future? For example because during holidays etc they’ll all be in different places seeing their fathers and therefore It isn’t a cohesive family unit on Christmas etc?

What are your other priorities?

Did you feel guilty when splitting, moving on etc?

Is this the life you wanted?

How did it happen? Were all or any planned?

How many children do you think you'd like in total? Or are you done after this one?

Do you feel embarrassed that they all have different fathers? What made you continue to have children with each man before being married etc?

Do you feel judged by others that you have 3 by 3?

We're your children planned?

@Heratnumber7 I guess the same as everybody else - I work full time, I have a relatively good job.

I have an incomplete SCI so I do get some pip
Some child maintenance off f1&f2 also

How did you find three men that you thought would be good fathers in such a short space of time?

Do you feel you have always acted in your children's best interests when it comes to new relationships?

So do/will all five members of your house have different surnames?
Did you live with any of the df's?

Do you think you rush into having children with men you have relationships with?

Do you think that people view you negatively for your situation, and do they also view the fathers negatively?

Do you feel like you've failed in life?

How old are the kids?

@ReggieKrayDoYouKnowMyName I hope not.
My children are very close. They adore each other but I'm sure that's normal for young children. We always have a cohesive family unit at Christmas, my son sees his dad on Boxing Day and then the weekend after usually. My daughter is with us full time so she knows no different other than our family unit.
My son doesn't have siblings on dads side but having said that he has been raised to know love doesn't have limits so I'm sure he would be able to have close relationships with both sides

@NotSuchASmugMarriedNow1 My other priorities for the moment are making sure this baby has everything it needs, and graduating in July.

I've spent the last four years doing a part time business management & hr degree on top of working ft.

My priorities at the moment are the children and graduating to gain a better job & improve career prospects.

Even after that, I'd love to get married but I'd rather focus on getting a foot on the property ladder first.

If you were working full time and doing a degree and looking after children, where have you found the time to have sex???

where did you meet dc 2 and 3 daddies and who babysat while you were out dating? You must have some energy!!!

Do you plan on having more babies more daddies.

What nasty repugnant answers. Bloody hell, you have sex you have a kids. Same behaviour doesnt matter who its with if the kids are well looked after. Loads of smug people on this thread