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TakeABreak2 · 10/07/2018 14:04

irish traveller amaGrin

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meringue33 · 18/07/2018 14:34

Really enjoyed the thread, thank you very much for taking the time to inform and explode stereotypes. I think Coyoaca upthread said it best regarding the annoying racism on this thread.

I could be wrong, but I believe that historically all peoples on the British Isles were nomadic hunter-gatherers. So it is us, the settled people, who have chosen something different, travellers are following a tradition that is thousands of years old.

I assume it must have been easier for travellers a hundred or two hundred years ago when there was still plenty of common land and common forest across Britain, people would not have needed to camp in car parks or make “illegal” entries onto private land. Is there much bitterness in travelling communities about the rights they have lost?

Do you feel free from the shackles of a “9-5” job and is that part of the reason travellers might be ambivalent towards education - they don’t want that sort of lifestyle any way?

TakeABreak2 · 18/07/2018 14:35

everyone is different
while some still want big familys of 7/8/9 not very many do lol most say they want 2/3 but by the time their finished they end up probably having 4/5 i have 2 now when ds was born i wanted another after about 6 months i was planning on trying now ds is 2 my mind has changed, i do want more just not yet.. maybe when hes 5ish im thinking

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Weedsnseeds1 · 18/07/2018 14:37

There is a settled traveller family ( several family units, but all related) near me. They still travel for fairs etc.
They all attended my Dad's funeral, they were patients of his.
Would it be quite common for traveller families to attend non- traveller funerals, or did they just like my Dad?!
They are a lovely family and used to give us a Christmas tree and holly wreath every year when I was little, as well as the odd rabbit for the pot!

TakeABreak2 · 18/07/2018 14:38

every year it gets harder for us to travel.. there is less places to go and i know people out travelling now in leeds they pulled on a field no houses surrounding or parks ect they pulled on monday evening and bailiffs were there tuesday morning they had to go by 6 or there trailers were getting towed into the compoud!! also 97% travellers will follow there lifestyle regarding work thats why there is probably a lack in education

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TakeABreak2 · 18/07/2018 14:40

if a travelle knew some one well enough they will go to there funeral traveller or non traveller it doesnt depend on the miles!! its a matter of respect for that person you once knew

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whataboutbob · 18/07/2018 15:27

I watched a program in France about French travellers, they were also finding it harder and harder. Insurance companies would not give insurance to traveller drivers. Of course they didn’t say so directly, they just imposed so many conditions that travellers were effectively excluded.

Melliegrantfirstlady · 18/07/2018 15:31

Interesting thread!

Do you have a council house or is it bought?

Does the council still charge you if you are away travelling?

Why is it expensive to use the toilet in your caravan?

What model do you have?

Does the community claim benefits or only get what they make from work?

Are you rich?

picklemepopcorn · 18/07/2018 15:57

Sorry, I'm reading as fast as I can to see what's already been asked, and don't want to lose the thread. I've got lots of questions!

TakeABreak2 · 18/07/2018 16:03

mellie im on a site not a house
council still charge regaurdless
i dont think its expensive just dirty
i have a american caravan
some claimm benefits if there entitled some dont
im not rich i wish i was

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TakeABreak2 · 18/07/2018 16:04

ok pickle:)

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meringue33 · 18/07/2018 16:32

I read the autobiography of Sheila Stewart, it was amazing. Do Irish travellers have a folk music tradition and if so do you have on-site entertainment?! Also, do you have WiFi?

Mymycherrypie · 18/07/2018 16:37

Is the work from door knocking cash in hand though? How do you declare your earnings/do invoices/etc do you do the admin for your DH or does he do it?

TakeABreak2 · 18/07/2018 17:05

meringue alot of irish travellers listen to irish music? not on sote entertainement more blast the music in your car/van haha and i dont no i use my phone some people have wifi but it can be harder alot of thetimes when they sky man sees its a site he drives straight past

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TakeABreak2 · 18/07/2018 17:06

mymycherrypieit is mostly door knocking cash in hand, someomes jobs ring in via leaflets ect and as far as i know they give invoices ect and it all goes into a tax registered bank account and i dont do the admin for him he hires a non traveller to do all that

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Melliegrantfirstlady · 18/07/2018 17:20

I thought you said you go to your house in winter?

Or do you just stay in your caravan

TakeABreak2 · 18/07/2018 18:03

no i was talking abot travellers in general.. they either go back to houses or sites in the winter.. im on a site all year round with just pulling out for a week here and there

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meringue33 · 18/07/2018 20:07

Thanks... more questions... do you shop in supermarkets or do you have good connections with local farmers and get meat & veg straight from the farm...

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ColdCottage · 18/07/2018 22:41

This might be a sensitive one so please feel free to ignore...

I read once that their is a higher infant mortality rate amongst the travelling community (stats from Ireland show its 4 times higher).

Why do you think this is? I wondered if it's because the community is on the move more so no regular midwife/health visitor?

I also noticed on some of the tv shows that the babies cribs were very highly decorated with fabric and gem stone (if a girl). I remember waking in the night myself and taking the cot bumpers off my son's cot only a few years ago after reading something online that evening and not being able to sleep.

Do you feel as a traveling community you get or want the extra support from the NHS?

pallisers · 18/07/2018 23:18

I read once that their is a higher infant mortality rate amongst the travelling community (stats from Ireland show its 4 times higher).

I think one factor is that there are a lot of cousin marriages continuing down generations in the traveller community and so recessive genes are expressed more often.

TakeABreak2 · 19/07/2018 18:17

meringue i usually go to asda but i do love to go to a farm now and then for meat

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TakeABreak2 · 19/07/2018 18:19

coldcottage i dont know why this is? we do usually have blankets evt in cribs but diamontes do be on the outside i dont personally know anyoneqhat has lost their baby through cot death ect

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meringue33 · 19/07/2018 20:46

Coldcottage minority groups often experience health inequalities, can be a combination of factors such as poverty, disadvantage, discrimination or that services are just not designed for them

notacooldad · 19/07/2018 21:26

I've found out yesterday that the team I worked for a few years ago disbands tomorrow due to budget cuts and most of the team are now redundant. The team includes traveller liaison officers who spent years trying to form links with the travelling community to offer support and advice. They supported mainly the women and children. Another local authority service gone.

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