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TakeABreak2 · 10/07/2018 14:04

irish traveller amaGrin

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TakeABreak2 · 15/07/2018 09:20

evilmorty
again as mentioned - they arent travellers as in gypsys there travellers as in they travel

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TakeABreak2 · 15/07/2018 09:22

tangleasvine
well im glad you know any because ive never in my life heard that

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TakeABreak2 · 15/07/2018 09:23

tiltedtowers
that is just a benefit
i cant remember why we came over her granny did tell me

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TakeABreak2 · 15/07/2018 09:24

sorry maddisonmongomery
i missed your question
i dont know i can just tell the way they look/dress/wall ??

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TakeABreak2 · 15/07/2018 09:24

*walk

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TangelasVine · 15/07/2018 09:49

I think the bargees (boat people) might be regional. There used to be lots of work on the canals round where I grew up.
I think a lot of people know about them from Peaky Blinders Grin

Windbeneathmybingowings · 15/07/2018 09:59

CAB do recognise the other groups as G&T

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AhhhhThatsBass · 15/07/2018 10:10

I find it very strange that Irish travellers in the UK have Irish accents especially those that have been in there for generations. I suppose it’s because it’s quite an insular society.
I worked with Irish travellers as a teen in Ireland and the social worker told me that incest was rife. Would you agree with that?

Do you think settled Irish peoples’ attitudes have changed towards travellers? I cringe now at the liberal use of the word knacker among settled people to describe travellers. I hope things are better now..

confuddledconfuddle · 15/07/2018 14:35

Hi OP thanks for the thread. Very interesting. Growing up in NI in a townwith a massive traveller population I know a little about your heritage.
Do you feel that living in England has changed the way some travellers live in comparison to Ireland?
I have also lived in England and have notice that prejudice against travellers is much more rife in Ireland. However I feel that the bad eggs of the community make their presence much more felt in Ireland and then everyone is tarred with the same brush. One particular family whose surname has been mentioned above is very well known in my town (coronation street link). However purcells is also close by and they are an amazing family (I'm sure the guy from prison break is a relative of theirs).
When I was at school the travellers were all based on a site in caravans although I feel sadly now the council moved them into homes within the community. However when the traveller site existed, we knew when a senior traveller had died as they set the caravan on fire. I think to release the soul (I may have made this up in my teenage head lol) Is this still a common practice?

The travellers I went to school with (all girl school) would turn up for lunch and then when teachers got them into school would keep them for the afternoon. We always had displays by these kids on their heritage which I enjoyed. However the girls all disappeared, to be married I assume, by 14. This may well have changed as I've left school coming up 20 years now. When settled in housing estates the mammys all walked their kids (teenagers) to the bus stop which I thought was lovely, although sadly this particular clan are not known for their cleanliness. I actually didn't realise most travellers were so clean until the tv shows and the ones in my town were an abnormality.

BlueAnchor · 15/07/2018 15:35

I haven't read all of the thread but in the early questions there was some concern about traveller children not attending school and some inference that it isn't fair that traveller families are allowed to opt out. I wanted to clarify as I work in education.

As with all families we would want children to grow up valuing education and being offered equal opportunities. Many travelling families do not value education and we work to try and change this view.
But like all of us travellers can 'home educate' their child. It is a very simple process to complete the form and inform the head teacher. Current home education guidance, rightly or wrongly, isn't onerous with little checks on the quality of education provided ( think form filled and possibly one visit per year to ask about the 'education' of the child). None of us need to be 'educated' to be 'allowed' to home Ed our own child. We can all opt for this who ever we are, this isn't an option limited to travellers.

Often schools are critisised for sanctioning time off for traveller children too. Again this is not strictly the case. Traveller children can have absences authorized whilst travelling - whilst moving to the next place - but once there need to declare Home Ed or put their children back into school. If this doesn't happen then absences are unauthorized just the same as any family.

Some of the perceived unfairness is actually our lack of understanding!

stopfuckingshoutingatme · 15/07/2018 17:48

Are you happy
What are your aspirations for your children
What would you change if you
Could ?

Hello and thanks Grin

TiltedTowers · 15/07/2018 19:10

@ahhhhthatsbass, well, I definitely hear the local ''english'' in the accent of Irish travellers. The English probably only hear the traveller which they cannot tell from settled Irish accents but it is very distinctive imo.

I haven't heard the word 'knacker' for a long time, but then the people I mix with are fairly well educated and well-behaved in public at least

TacoLover · 15/07/2018 20:20

Tbh I can't really get past the girls having such different rules to the boys. You don't even know why you follow them - according to you it's "just how it is". If a Muslim woman was on here saying the same thing she'd no doubt be flamed to the high heavensConfused

SuddenBeetE · 15/07/2018 20:37

Hey OP.

Really interesting thread thank you.

A quick question, will your children be attending the local primary school and will you encourage or allow play dates with non traveller families?

Thanks

KnitFastDieWarm · 15/07/2018 22:13

What a fascinating thread, thanks for sharing!
I have a question - there’s been a bit of talk of ‘dodgy’ traveller families who have a bad rep or are aggressive, would you as a fellow traveller feel threatened by them or avoid pulling in on a site if you knew they were there?
Also, what was your favourite thing about growing up with your lifestyle and being outside a lot? I travelled around Europe a lot as a kid staying in tents and camper vans etc (not a traveller but my parents were hippies Grin) and I still miss that fresh smell the air has first thing in the morning and the freedom of running about outdoors with the other kids on the site all day.

holdtightnow · 15/07/2018 22:17

Great thread, thank you. Do you know any vegetarian travellers?

TakeABreak2 · 15/07/2018 23:07

hi all
sorry for not replying today - today is church/family day and having two toddlers - i am exhausted!!
i will answer all your questions tommorow Grin

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IamPickleRick · 16/07/2018 00:13

I’ve got one. Have you or anyone you know had the ancestry DNA test done? What were the results? Which countries/regions came up?

TEDx · 16/07/2018 09:19

What is your monthly income?

Just wondering if you struggle to get by. Does your husband earn enough during the winter months when I assume painting jobs aren't as in demand?

Limpopobongo · 16/07/2018 10:16

There are some settled travelers on a housing estate a couple of miles from me and they have turned the area into a complete ghetto and a shit hole.

TakeABreak2 · 16/07/2018 11:42

ahhhhthatsbass
we still have accents because we are brought up around only irish people sometimes a few english so we keep the accent
we dont see it as insest - we would marry second/third cousins but never first cousins/brothers/uncles evt- thats insest! but mostly we would marry someone not related
settled dont have differant opinions of travelling travellers

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TakeABreak2 · 16/07/2018 11:46

confuddledconfuddle
in ireland there a bit differant there more old fashioned
my mil is purcell so glad u approve lol
some travellers burn the trailer of the dead but most dont
older generations got married at 14 but now its more 17-20ish

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TakeABreak2 · 16/07/2018 11:47

stopshouting at me
i am happy and have mentioned allready as long as my children are happy then so am i

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TakeABreak2 · 16/07/2018 11:48

suddenbeete
they will be i am looking to put my dd 3&half in the local nursery after the holidays

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TakeABreak2 · 16/07/2018 11:49

knitfastdiewarm
i wouldnt feel threatened them i would move on a site with them but id try avoid it if i could i wouldnt like my children reared up around these people

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