What skills is a 2-year-old developing?
Children learn the following skills throughout childhood, and at age two these skills are mostly developed through play:
Communication and language (listening, speaking, reading and writing)
Physical (fine motor skills like eating, writing, getting dressed, and manipulating objects and gross motor skills like standing, walking, running, and jumping)
Personal, social and emotional skills (regulating emotions, taking care of themselves and building healthy relationships)
Literacy (reading, writing, speaking)
Mathematics
Cognitive skills (critical thinking and problem solving)
What should 2-year-olds be learning to do?
Now, we'd like to preface this section by saying children develop at different speeds, and this should not be used as a definitive measure but as a guide. Your child may be learning these, racing ahead or be in the process of working up to them. That's normal. Some children learn to walk quicker than they can talk, others find problem-solving easy, whilst some are more independent socially. Children aren't robots; they're each completely individual. That said, if you do have any concerns about your child's development, contact your GP.
By the age of two, your child is probably...
repeating and copying speech
growing in independence
beginning to play alongside other children with an interest
composing short sentences of two-four words that make sense
naming objects around them, including body parts
recognising familiar people
following two-step instructions
sorting objects based on basic 2D shapes and colours
finishing sentences from familiar books
playing pretend
building
showing signs of left or right-handed preference
running, kicking and throwing a ball overhead
jumping and landing with two feet
climbing up or down furniture independently
stringing small items
holding a pencil (not necessarily correctly)
drawing lines and circles
uses utensils with increasing independence
drinking from a cup without a lid
This list is incomplete, so here are several resources we’ve used and other useful websites: Speech and Language UK, CAMBs and UNICEF.
How can play help your child develop?
Child-led play is how your child learns about the world. Through play, they explore, discover, decide their interests, and learn new skills. Your role in their play is to watch, interact when invited, model good play behaviours and speech, and guide children to challenge themselves by trying new things with help. Children are constantly learning and absorbing everything going on around them. If you'd like to understand the value of play further and discover some easy and free ways to aid your child's development check out the NHS's advice on baby development and learning through play.
What do 2-year-olds like to play with?
Well, it depends on the child and their individually developing interests. It's a very long game of trial and error. However, children at age two may be showing interest in the following:
Imaginative play through dolls, stuffed toys or figurines.
Problem-solving using puzzles, memory games and shape sorting.
Talking whilst sharing a book, singing songs or manipulating finger puppets.
Building using blocks, Play-Doh and construction toys.
Creative play like drawing and stringing beads.
What's the best gift for a 2-year-old?
The best gifts for a two-year-old are within your budget, based on the child's interests and are age-appropriate. We think any of the toys on this round-up would make a brilliant gift for a 2-year-old. If you're looking for more inspiration, check out our guides to the best dolls, best train sets and best toddler toys.
What are the best toys for 2-year-olds?
The best toy to buy for a two-year-old, as recommended by parents, is the DUPLO Classic Brick Box. An open-ended, creative toy with limitless play potential, toddlers will love building all sorts of things with the chunky blocks. Plus, extra sets make brilliant birthday and Christmas gifts.
How do I know if a toy is safe for my two-year-old?
When choosing toys for two-year-olds, check the manufacturer’s recommended age range and look for the UKCA or CE marking, which indicates that a toy meets relevant safety requirements. Many toys are labelled 3+ because they contain small parts that could pose a choking risk to younger children. As two-year-olds are still exploring the world with their hands and mouths, it’s particularly important to avoid toys with small, detachable pieces, loose magnets or accessible button batteries. Every child develops differently, so use your own judgement about whether a toy is suitable for your toddler, while always following the age guidance and safety warnings. Check toys regularly for damage and supervise play, especially with toys that have moving parts or require assembly.
What should I buy for a two-year-old who has everything?
Buying for a two-year-old whose toy box is already overflowing can feel like an impossible task, especially for birthdays or at Christmas time. The good news is that you don’t need to spend a fortune or find the latest must-have toy. Often, the simplest gifts are the ones that get played with most and a few fresh supplies for a favourite activity can be just as welcome as a brand-new toy.
Play-Doh is great for encouraging creative and sensory play, but it’s also the sort of thing that inevitably gets left out and dries up, or ends up with all the colours mixed into one unidentifiable lump. A fresh set of tubs is always useful, which makes the Play-Doh Super Colour 20-pack a practical, good-value gift for a toddler who already has plenty of toys.
Other easy wins include sticker books, chunky crayons, bubbles, bath bombs and books — little treats that don’t take up much room and can be enjoyed again and again.