In summary your thoughts are;
"Note the weasel words of the thread don't actually apologise for allowing terrible people to decide the victim wasn't female because she wasn't sufficiently meeting a stereotypical view of how women should look in their bigoted opinions. The fault for behaving in a bigoted fashion is only that of the bigots and no-one else."
About a situation on X, which was corrected and apologised for.
You then claim that because there was a thread on MN, the family suffered harassment.
When it is pointed out that MN have nothing to do with that behaviour, you switch to saying MN should be more responsible.
You say you have engaged and haven't seen a response.
It turns out that the thread on MN had very little engagement and was also removed.
So what is your reason for starting this thread?