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britindubai · 20/10/2026 06:34

Ask away, I’ll give you my honest thoughts and opinions

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Summerlovingtheraspberries · 20/10/2026 07:58

Can you wear whatever clothes you like when in public. Or do you consciously have to think more about it.
For example would you think nothing of wearing shorts and a vest, or a sleeveless dress.
If course I am exporting you to reply that you wouldn’t go out wearing a bikini, but are you more conscious if not wearing ‘western style clothing?’

RedToothBrush · 20/10/2026 07:59

Lemonfrost · 20/10/2026 07:52

Well, @RedToothBrush, I am interested in OP's thread and her answers. I have been to Dubai multiple times and its quite clear to me she IS being honest in her responses.

You are interested in a thread where it's going to say the same as the brochure and every other puff piece about how wonderful Dubai is? And just repeats everything you already think.

That's not being 'interested'. That's reinforcing the echo chamber.

redboxer321 · 20/10/2026 08:02

britindubai · 20/10/2026 07:35

The UAE is a Muslim country, why on earth would they support something that goes against their religion?

Oh dear.

TallSturdyGirls · 20/10/2026 08:04

Lemonfrost · 20/10/2026 07:54

Do you ever think about these very similar problems occurring in the UK?

I do. Part of my work is supporting people that have escaped modern slavery and I have reported several businesses to the authorities. Everyone should be on the look out. It is though at least 10 times worse in Dubai. Also, in the UK, generally speaking, the police will act upon it.Whereas in
Dubai they are often complicit.

britindubai · 20/10/2026 08:04

TallSturdyGirls · 20/10/2026 07:51

Approximately 1.3% of people are living as slaves in the UAE and Dubai. Slightly higher with women and the many are forced into being raped daily in often in very violent ways.

The life expectancy of migrant labours from Asia is nearly half that of those from Europe due to dangerous working conditions and violence.

Mental health issues are very high due to workers frequently face illegal recruitment fees, debt bondage, passport confiscation, restricted movement, withheld or delayed wages, and threats of being reported for "absconding" if they try to leave poor conditions.
Do you ever think about how, by being there, you are supporting this?
Do you walk past people who have been slaves and think about their lives?
Would you help someone if they asked for help (say a friends "maid")?

Hate to say it but it doesn’t sound much different to the UK

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PinkWaffleMaker · 20/10/2026 08:05

britindubai · 20/10/2026 06:58

Great question.

Right now it feels no different to before it happened. The UAE are not directly in conflict with either country and have only acted in defence which gives me some level of confidence however it obviously plays on my mind and it’s still very volatile around us.

Safety measures are in place which has allowed businesses, schools, retail etc to continue as normal.

What kind of safety measures? Do they impact day to day life? Do you have to know where you’d go if there’s a bomb strike etc?

TallSturdyGirls · 20/10/2026 08:06

britindubai · 20/10/2026 08:04

Hate to say it but it doesn’t sound much different to the UK

As I said up thread i support people escaping modern slavery in the UK. It is terrible that it happens here.

But it is at least ten times worse in Dubai and there is very little escape, as the authorities are complicit. As are people like yourself who chose to ignore it.

Lemonfrost · 20/10/2026 08:07

RedToothBrush · 20/10/2026 07:59

You are interested in a thread where it's going to say the same as the brochure and every other puff piece about how wonderful Dubai is? And just repeats everything you already think.

That's not being 'interested'. That's reinforcing the echo chamber.

That's not what's happening here, but I suspect you won't accept that answer.

britindubai · 20/10/2026 08:08

Lemonfrost · 20/10/2026 07:52

Well, @RedToothBrush, I am interested in OP's thread and her answers. I have been to Dubai multiple times and its quite clear to me she IS being honest in her responses.

Thanks, it’s so interesting to hear peoples thoughts on the situation out here. Especially when it was heavily twisted in the UK media.

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moonraker0 · 20/10/2026 08:08

NormasArse · 20/10/2026 07:58

Why don’t you want to pay tax?

For context, I consider it a privilege to be part of a society that cares for everyone within it, and am proud to contribute to that.

Let’s be honest, most people begrudge paying tax because what do we actually get back for it? Long NHS waiting lists, schools underfunded, social care non existent, more chance of meeting a leprechaun riding a unicorn than getting a NHS dentist etc. Our society doesn’t care for everyone and you can believe it does if it makes you feel better but if I was a higher rate tax payer and had the chance to work somewhere with no tax I’d do it.

Waitingfordoggo · 20/10/2026 08:09

britindubai · 20/10/2026 07:35

The UAE is a Muslim country, why on earth would they support something that goes against their religion?

There are several Muslim countries (and Muslim majority countries) where homosexuality is not illegal.

britindubai · 20/10/2026 08:09

Tel12 · 20/10/2026 07:55

Have you got a plan if it all kicks off?

It did all kick off, and nothing happened

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shellyleppard · 20/10/2026 08:09

@britindubai it was funny to a nine year old lol. The creek had flooded hence the " dancing cars"

MyKindHiker · 20/10/2026 08:09

TallSturdyGirls · 20/10/2026 07:51

Approximately 1.3% of people are living as slaves in the UAE and Dubai. Slightly higher with women and the many are forced into being raped daily in often in very violent ways.

The life expectancy of migrant labours from Asia is nearly half that of those from Europe due to dangerous working conditions and violence.

Mental health issues are very high due to workers frequently face illegal recruitment fees, debt bondage, passport confiscation, restricted movement, withheld or delayed wages, and threats of being reported for "absconding" if they try to leave poor conditions.
Do you ever think about how, by being there, you are supporting this?
Do you walk past people who have been slaves and think about their lives?
Would you help someone if they asked for help (say a friends "maid")?

This. I couldn’t imagine living in a country where slavery is actually allowed and encouraged.

People need to realise that’s why they pay no taxes - because when labor is free by slaves, there’s nothing for taxes to pay for.

My ancestors fought and died to end slavery and now we have living in a country built on slavery as some kind of an aspirational flex 🤮

I’m alright living in a democracy and paying taxes thanks. Bit dull and I don’t get to drive one of those ugly sports cars around but at least I can live with myself.

ExpressCheckout · 20/10/2026 08:10

Do you have any gay couple friends, and would you welcome them to visit and 'be themselves' in Dubai?

Lemonfrost · 20/10/2026 08:10

TallSturdyGirls · 20/10/2026 08:04

I do. Part of my work is supporting people that have escaped modern slavery and I have reported several businesses to the authorities. Everyone should be on the look out. It is though at least 10 times worse in Dubai. Also, in the UK, generally speaking, the police will act upon it.Whereas in
Dubai they are often complicit.

I have also dipped into this area and I think an awful lot of it is ignored here as it suits people, despite it being right there on the High Street for all to see.

Missey85 · 20/10/2026 08:11

NormasArse · 20/10/2026 07:58

Why don’t you want to pay tax?

For context, I consider it a privilege to be part of a society that cares for everyone within it, and am proud to contribute to that.

She doesn't want to pay tax but I bet you any money if shit hits the fan she'll be the first in line begging your government to help her 😂😂😂

Obeseandashamed · 20/10/2026 08:11

britindubai · 20/10/2026 07:14

Ok so I struggle with this one a little, lots of conflict around construction workers and modern slavery being what Dubai is built on but these workers wouldn’t have this opportunity in their home country so they are better off so to speak. They are not shackled at the ankle and made to work all hours either, they have decent working conditions, with no work during intense heat during peak hours across the summer etc and make a good living versus what they could possibly only dream to make in their home country.

Domestic help such as nannies/housemaids - I personally don’t have any home help and from what I hear and have witnessed I would never want one. Again they are here for similar reasons as above however they are not qualified or trained to look after children, do house chores etc. But they serve a huge community of people out here, and it is very common to have help in countries out this way. What does make me laugh though is how many brits have them living in their homes (I get it because they work and have no village around them for help) but a complete stranger living in your home raising your children? Yet you have to spend hours/days/months training them how to do it all, most put cameras up in their homes to keep an eye on them because they are not trustworthy, a bit laughable really!

the one thing I wish I could have at home from dubai is the maid. I can’t understand the nanny’s raising your children but would love to have a live-in housekeeper/maid.

PinkWaffleMaker · 20/10/2026 08:12

britindubai · 20/10/2026 07:35

The UAE is a Muslim country, why on earth would they support something that goes against their religion?

Because gay people exist everywhere. There’s a difference between supporting something and putting people in jail.

They are very far from perfect but for example in Jordan and Bahrain homosexuality is decriminalised unlike in UAE.

britindubai · 20/10/2026 08:13

NormasArse · 20/10/2026 07:58

Why don’t you want to pay tax?

For context, I consider it a privilege to be part of a society that cares for everyone within it, and am proud to contribute to that.

As a top rate tax payer and not seeing much back for what is put into the system I can hand on heart say I have no issue keeping 100% of it.

You are talking about the UK right? A society with a failing health system, immigration problems, cost of living crisis and lack of defence system - honestly tired of paying into that for now!

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MyKindHiker · 20/10/2026 08:13

Lemonfrost · 20/10/2026 08:10

I have also dipped into this area and I think an awful lot of it is ignored here as it suits people, despite it being right there on the High Street for all to see.

There is absolutely modern slavery in the uk - particularly in the sex industry. But that is categorically not the same as a place where the entire economy is based on the premise that a huge portion of the workforce will be working from close to nothing, thereby allowing very low taxes and a wonderful lifestyle for the non-slaves.

It’s literally the same as the US south in slavery. Incredibly, the non-slaves rather liked the set up! They wrote books about how lovely it was and invited people to see how well looked after the slaves were. It’s exactly. The. Same.

MyKindHiker · 20/10/2026 08:18

britindubai · 20/10/2026 08:13

As a top rate tax payer and not seeing much back for what is put into the system I can hand on heart say I have no issue keeping 100% of it.

You are talking about the UK right? A society with a failing health system, immigration problems, cost of living crisis and lack of defence system - honestly tired of paying into that for now!

Immigration problems?

You realise you are living in a place with one of the highest immigration rates in the world?

So given we have less immigration what are we doing wrong? I think the subtext here is the preferential model would be if we followed Dubai’s lead and kept our white immigrants in gated communities and non-white immigrants in out of town slums to be used for indentured labour where people wouldn’t have to mix with them maybe?

The cognitive dissonance of those who move to the Middle East to get away from immigration is just jaw dropping

britindubai · 20/10/2026 08:18

PinkWaffleMaker · 20/10/2026 08:05

What kind of safety measures? Do they impact day to day life? Do you have to know where you’d go if there’s a bomb strike etc?

They don’t impact day to day at all. Everyone is going about their business as usual.

If we were to receive an official alert from the government to seek shelter that is what we do. For example schools take children away from windows and gather in a safe area within the building.

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Waitingfordoggo · 20/10/2026 08:18

Nothing to stop you employing a housekeeper in the UK @Obeseandashamed . They do have to be paid a decent salary though, unlike in Dubai where you can pay them half of fuck-all squared because they’re brown and come from a poor country.

Yetanotherone12 · 20/10/2026 08:19

britindubai · 20/10/2026 07:14

Ok so I struggle with this one a little, lots of conflict around construction workers and modern slavery being what Dubai is built on but these workers wouldn’t have this opportunity in their home country so they are better off so to speak. They are not shackled at the ankle and made to work all hours either, they have decent working conditions, with no work during intense heat during peak hours across the summer etc and make a good living versus what they could possibly only dream to make in their home country.

Domestic help such as nannies/housemaids - I personally don’t have any home help and from what I hear and have witnessed I would never want one. Again they are here for similar reasons as above however they are not qualified or trained to look after children, do house chores etc. But they serve a huge community of people out here, and it is very common to have help in countries out this way. What does make me laugh though is how many brits have them living in their homes (I get it because they work and have no village around them for help) but a complete stranger living in your home raising your children? Yet you have to spend hours/days/months training them how to do it all, most put cameras up in their homes to keep an eye on them because they are not trustworthy, a bit laughable really!

You realise you sound exactly the same as the white South African immigrants in the 80’s?

oh but they wouldn’t have jobs if it weren’t for is. They have it good, they get paid, what would they do if whites weren’t here providing jobs…

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