I had an affair and I want my affair partner to be discovered

OP where are you ? Any news ? I hope she hasn't given in and went for another physical again ... and it sounded like any old crap from this man would get her back in physical situation....

It’s him who writes the essays, not me!!

It’s him who writes the essays, not me!!

This is where we are at.

I haven’t told anyone, nor do I intend to, because at this point it would be acting out of spite and bitterness.

He is very clear that he doesn’t want us to cross the line physically ever again, because he can’t live with the guilt that it causes him.

He does want to keep hanging out and suggested meeting up next week. I said it doesn’t need to be a secret anymore if we are just meeting up as friends and not doing anything wrong. I said I’d like to be open with people about the fact we are friends, rather than continuing to hide it.

He is very against this and wants our meetings to remain ‘private and confidential.’ His reasoning is that doing otherwise will make people ask questions and it isn’t worth the hassle that will cause.

I’m trying to think of the best way to respond.

This is where we are at.

I haven’t told anyone, nor do I intend to, because at this point it would be acting out of spite and bitterness.

He is very clear that he doesn’t want us to cross the line physically ever again, because he can’t live with the guilt that it causes him.

He does want to keep hanging out and suggested meeting up next week. I said it doesn’t need to be a secret anymore if we are just meeting up as friends and not doing anything wrong. I said I’d like to be open with people about the fact we are friends, rather than continuing to hide it.

He is very against this and wants our meetings to remain ‘private and confidential.’ His reasoning is that doing otherwise will make people ask questions and it isn’t worth the hassle that will cause.

I’m trying to think of the best way to respond.

This is where we are at.

I haven’t told anyone, nor do I intend to, because at this point it would be acting out of spite and bitterness.

He is very clear that he doesn’t want us to cross the line physically ever again, because he can’t live with the guilt that it causes him.

He does want to keep hanging out and suggested meeting up next week. I said it doesn’t need to be a secret anymore if we are just meeting up as friends and not doing anything wrong. I said I’d like to be open with people about the fact we are friends, rather than continuing to hide it.

He is very against this and wants our meetings to remain ‘private and confidential.’ His reasoning is that doing otherwise will make people ask questions and it isn’t worth the hassle that will cause.

I’m trying to think of the best way to respond.

He does want to keep hanging out and suggested meeting up next week. I said it doesn’t need to be a secret anymore if we are just meeting up as friends and not doing anything wrong. I said I’d like to be open with people about the fact we are friends, rather than continuing to hide it.

You’re not friends.

You’re never going to be friends.

You’re in love with him and the only way for this all to end and for you to move on is if you totally block him forever.

I know at this moment in time that might sound impossible. But you’re just torturing yourself the more you allow him to get into your head. You need to rip the bandaid off.

He is a disgusting cheating scumbag. As are you.

So the only way you can move forward is by removing him permanently from your life and getting some extensive therapy.

I don’t want him to leave his family and I don’t want to leave mine either. But cutting him totally out of my life feels impossible at this point after everything we’ve been through

This is where we are at.

I haven’t told anyone, nor do I intend to, because at this point it would be acting out of spite and bitterness.

He is very clear that he doesn’t want us to cross the line physically ever again, because he can’t live with the guilt that it causes him.

He does want to keep hanging out and suggested meeting up next week. I said it doesn’t need to be a secret anymore if we are just meeting up as friends and not doing anything wrong. I said I’d like to be open with people about the fact we are friends, rather than continuing to hide it.

He is very against this and wants our meetings to remain ‘private and confidential.’ His reasoning is that doing otherwise will make people ask questions and it isn’t worth the hassle that will cause.

I’m trying to think of the best way to respond.

This is where we are at.

I haven’t told anyone, nor do I intend to, because at this point it would be acting out of spite and bitterness.

He is very clear that he doesn’t want us to cross the line physically ever again, because he can’t live with the guilt that it causes him.

He does want to keep hanging out and suggested meeting up next week. I said it doesn’t need to be a secret anymore if we are just meeting up as friends and not doing anything wrong. I said I’d like to be open with people about the fact we are friends, rather than continuing to hide it.

He is very against this and wants our meetings to remain ‘private and confidential.’ His reasoning is that doing otherwise will make people ask questions and it isn’t worth the hassle that will cause.

I’m trying to think of the best way to respond.

I don’t want him to leave his family and I don’t want to leave mine either. But cutting him totally out of my life feels impossible at this point after everything we’ve been through

We’ve been clear that there won’t be any cheating moving forwards, either physical or emotional. If we go for coffee or whatever, I’d like to think that we can be open about that rather than continuing to hide it. That way, he stays in my life whilst also putting an end to the chaos. I don’t know, I’m probably being delusional.

We’ve been clear that there won’t be any cheating moving forwards, either physical or emotional. If we go for coffee or whatever, I’d like to think that we can be open about that rather than continuing to hide it. That way, he stays in my life whilst also putting an end to the chaos. I don’t know, I’m probably being delusional.

We’ve been clear that there won’t be any cheating moving forwards, either physical or emotional. If we go for coffee or whatever, I’d like to think that we can be open about that rather than continuing to hide it. That way, he stays in my life whilst also putting an end to the chaos. I don’t know, I’m probably being delusional.