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Im a minger Help!!!!

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BitterHarvest · Yesterday 15:43

My husband is getting more gorgeous with every year that passes. Hes really grown in to himself. Me, on the other hand am turning into my grandmother. I am a mum who works at home. Housewife we would have been called back in the day. Im in my mid 50's now and I need a glow up. I never wore make up and i think i need to start. but since many of my days are spent only in the house or caring for elderly mum i dont know when to put it on, Also whats a casual but polished style now adays with out looking like the local free P pastors wife?
i need serious help. Photo for ref. dont look quite my age yet but no idea how to dress or what to do with my face. can i have advice please Skincare regime is good and skin is clear. thanks peeps.

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RampantIvy · Today 12:46

I'd never heard of Seasalt so have just had a look on their website 😱 no wonder i haven't heard of it, its the sort of stuff I would have bought my 90 yo nan!

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Please stop with the ageism!

I dislike their sludgy colours, patterns and tunics, but they sometimes have plain pieces in brighter colours. Their website doesn't do their clothes any favours, yet their shops present the clothes in a much better way. They currently have some lovely knitwear in.

I have a Seasalt near me, and 90% of the time I have a look around and don't buy anything, but occasionally they have an absolute gem. Their clothes are well made and are often made from organic cotton. Their sustainability credentials are better than many other popular brands of clothing.

SexyFrenchDepression · Today 12:46

HughManity · Today 12:42

Shall I bin my excellent raincoat, t-shirts and pyjamas?
They probably are aimed at a 'middle-aged and older' demographic, but they are good for staples.

What do you recommend for someone in their mid-50s?

Of course not, presumably you dont wear your pjs out, the others stuff you mentioned is standard stuff which I mentioned anyway. I am 47 so not young but I hope I have many years before I turn to a really drab wardrobe, if ever. I look for stuff that suits my shape, size etc which is different to the OPs, there have been loads of good suggestions on the thread.

Its bog standard, fairly boring stuff, good staples as you say but if OP wants to look better then its not the way forward. Its the opposite of what she's asking for. It most definitely is dressing for middle age which is fine if its what you want.

SexyFrenchDepression · Today 12:50

RampantIvy · Today 12:46

I'd never heard of Seasalt so have just had a look on their website 😱 no wonder i haven't heard of it, its the sort of stuff I would have bought my 90 yo nan!

😒
Please stop with the ageism!

I dislike their sludgy colours, patterns and tunics, but they sometimes have plain pieces in brighter colours. Their website doesn't do their clothes any favours, yet their shops present the clothes in a much better way. They currently have some lovely knitwear in.

I have a Seasalt near me, and 90% of the time I have a look around and don't buy anything, but occasionally they have an absolute gem. Their clothes are well made and are often made from organic cotton. Their sustainability credentials are better than many other popular brands of clothing.

I'm quite old myself. I'm entitled to an option, my specific 90 yo nan wore very similar stuff, I am commenting on my experience. My 70 yo mum would say its frumpy, shes allowed an opinion also. I can only comment on their website as never seen a store before.

I dont care what people wear at what age, i hate any comments either way, eg that person cant wear x,y,z at their age, people can wear what they like but OP is specifically asking for stuff to improve her look.

HughManity · Today 13:02

@SexyFrenchDepression , What do you recommend for someone in their mid-50s?
In particular, one who has had 5 DC and has an hourglass figure.

SexyFrenchDepression · Today 13:05

HughManity · Today 13:02

@SexyFrenchDepression , What do you recommend for someone in their mid-50s?
In particular, one who has had 5 DC and has an hourglass figure.

At the least colours that are flattering, I cant answer exactly for the OPs shape, but there have been loads of suggestions on here by people similar shape and suggestions of how to find out what would look good. Definitely something with a bit more shape though and not short trousers.

Planningatripsoon · Today 13:41

I think for me the key thing is good fabrics. Now I’m older I really appreciate silk, cashmere and good cotton. I think the OP should have a look at Pinterest and see what kind of looks she likes and go from there.

I find if I’m “influenced” it never feels like me. I may be 53 but I still like clothes and need to trust my own style rather than listening to others so much! (Note to self) Pinterest is great and then you can work from there, factoring in the colours that suit. I also use reverse image on google a lot.

HughManity · Today 13:53

I get what you mean @SexyFrenchDepression , but I don't like blanket dissing of good brands.

Some of the suggestions on here are good, some bad.
I was curious as to what your suggestions were.

(Only my jimjams look 'Seasalt')

SexyFrenchDepression · Today 13:54

HughManity · Today 13:53

I get what you mean @SexyFrenchDepression , but I don't like blanket dissing of good brands.

Some of the suggestions on here are good, some bad.
I was curious as to what your suggestions were.

(Only my jimjams look 'Seasalt')

Apologies for the blanket dissing! I didnt really mean it as harsh as it sounded!

Look, I have fluffy disney pjs so I cannot talk!

Nylonflares · Today 14:01

SexyFrenchDepression · Today 10:44

I dont even think it looks good on the model, the outfit the model is wearing looks old and frumpy but she can get away with it as shes so slim. Paired with something else perhaps but those jeans look dreadful. Baggy stuff on tiny people doesnt look great, in particular as you get older. The oversized look is great for teens/early twenties but 40s/50s not so much (IMO).

Agreed.

Also, great user name

SexyFrenchDepression · Today 14:02

Nylonflares · Today 14:01

Agreed.

Also, great user name

Big crazy ex girlfriend fan 😂

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