To put this into maths - if France decided one day to run across the UK border and kill and kidnap British citizens, it would be the equivalent in population terms of them destroying 10,000 people.
Now think about what sort of response we would expect from our government. If France did this (theoretically without the water between us) - sitting there with thousands of British citizens in tunnels, hundreds of British babies being used as hostages and the promise to keep doing this again and again until the UK ceased to exist and British citizens WORLDWIDE were all dead.
What would you do? What would you expect? What happened in WW2 when a version of this did happen? And why on earth should Israel have to be the bigger person and invite these sorts of attacks on repeat?
It's not like the surrounding Muslim countries have a great history of supporting Jewish rights and freedoms. Mostly we were murdered or kicked out. We certainly aren't invited to vote!
It's a really ridiculous situation that somehow Israel - one of the smallest countries in the world - is always the aggressor when they have been dealing with kidnappings and hijackings and car rammings and buses exploding and attacks from every corner of their borders from a variety of countries and terrorist groups from millions and millions and millions of people who hate Jews and want to destroy all of us.
Maybe one day someone else can make the first move towards developing a peaceful solution. We are very tired.