you do understand the evolutionary purpose of shame??
i.e. when a member of the group has done something that neither benefits them or the wider group and in fact their actions are net a detriment.
so shame in that context is a healthy emotional response for the individual to have... assuming one has capacity to feel, self-awareness, ability to join the dots and self-reflect... in order to learn from the experience and change their behaviour in future similar situations
From your posts, I assume you compete in extreme Hyrox and therefore should consider fishing waders and a Biohazard suit or two for your next event