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Cailleach1 · 15/09/2026 17:52

Backedoffhackedoff · 15/09/2026 17:31

The other option is the organisers stopped the event, which is their legal and ethical responsibility

The other option I was referring to is in response to your hyperbole about JW becoming suicidal about being called out on what seems to be her repeated reckless endangerment of other people’s physical health. Very unlikely considering her reaction. Indeed, seems to not give two hoots about the other competitors.

I think the health of her competitors are in greater risk because of JW. If JW is the only one this repeatedly happens with, it begs a few questions. And some measures to make sure she doesn’t repeatedly spread faeces.

As a repeat offender, if she doesn’t wear a nappy or some such, I think she should have been eliminated.

The organisers can and should spring into action to stop what seems to be a pattern.

thehound4 · 15/09/2026 18:23

Backedoffhackedoff · 15/09/2026 17:50

well it may surprise you, but she’s not in control of whether or not her career is over.

lets meet back here in a year to see whether poo girl is still competing. She’s more likely to go the way of other virally publically shamed people

Poo girl comments are pathetic and juvenile. I doubt she did it on purpose ffs and why should it end her career?! I completely agree the other competitors shouldn’t have had to put up with it, for obvious health and safety reasons. But she isn’t the first athlete to have an embarrassing bodily malfunction and she won’t be the last.

Im not an expert on the sport but couldn’t she have just cleaned up and then restarted?

Cailleach1 · 15/09/2026 18:31

LondonLass2026 · 15/09/2026 17:32

When she shat herself in the race? That wasn't last weekend! I remember it, I was away for the weekend and saw it then.

We must be talking at cross purposes then.

There are many Hyrox competitions. She may have also ‘shat herself in the race’ in the one you say you watched a few weeks ago. If so, she has repeated form for this. The one people are talking about is where she contaminated the equipment, and floor, which other competitors had to deal with took place in Beijing.

Look up Hyrox Beijing 2026, and you will see the dates on which it took place. P.s. it was last weekend.

tokennamechange · 15/09/2026 18:55

the difference between the Paula R ones and the cycling etc to this woman is they were outdoors, in the middle of a multi km race. The toileting options were very limited and possibly non-existent at the exact time they needed to go. Whereas this woman was indoors in a sporting facility -there would have been loos and even showers within a few metres of her.

Kidsandhouse · 15/09/2026 21:45

Different levels:

Taking a poo at the side of the road during a road race, not great... but only yourself in the proverbial sh1t.

Taking a poo on your bike during a bike race, where you stay in your own bike, not great... but only yourself in the proverbial sh1t.

Taking a poo on equipment and passing it off to someone else to use.. without them even being aware of the potential awfulness... completely disgusting, unhealthy, and absolutely morally bankrupt... and anything else revolting you can think of.

Vile woman

Petrolitis · 15/09/2026 21:56

fmlnotagain · 15/09/2026 10:59

It’s the people empowering her say she was brave to continue 🤮 weirdos! there’s nothing brave about someone shitting themselves and carrying on infront of the whole world as if nothing happened. Dirty cow

Whatever you think about her decision the use of misogynistic language is unacceptable.

Jan24680 · 15/09/2026 22:05

Most people learn as toddlers not to shit on things. Don't shit on the equipment should not need to be written in to the rules. Perhaps they'll remove her tittle for bringing the sport in to disrepute?

BrezhnevsLuxuriantEyebrows · 16/09/2026 16:14

Jan24680 · 15/09/2026 22:05

Most people learn as toddlers not to shit on things. Don't shit on the equipment should not need to be written in to the rules. Perhaps they'll remove her tittle for bringing the sport in to disrepute?

You sometimes hear about what sound like ridiculous laws - small towns in the USA seem to be particularly ripe for them - but you have to remind yourself that, way back when the law was originally made, it must have been because something that should have been plain common sense to everybody apparently wasn't to at least one person.

Don't ask why on earth some deranged council saw the need to pass a law banning people from putting a pet otter in the baby seat of a shopping trolley whilst performing as a one-man-band and tunelessly singing Christmas carols at a deafening volume in the middle of June; rather ask which deranged person started doing exactly that at some point in history... and refused to desist when repeatedly asked nicely, by replying "There's no law against it!" Grin

xsquared · 16/09/2026 18:47

Wheesht2 · 15/09/2026 10:27

I think it was right to let her finish the competition but going forward a rule should be put in place for health and safety.

I disagree.

I understand that runners can get caught short, but usually they are running outside. Here, she was spreading her faecal matter on shared equipment.

It was not sportsmanlike to continue, and put others at risk. She should have withdrawn on this occasion

There will always be another opportunity to compete and for her to redeem herself, where other competitors aren't forced to literally deal with her shit.

JHound · 16/09/2026 19:37

Ew that’s gross.

Picoloangel · 16/09/2026 19:42

I think it’s disgusting. Yes it’s happens, runner’s tummy is a thing but to allow her to remain when others had to share equipment is awful. It’s a biohazard and it would make me question her win - it must have been very off putting for the other contestants. Incredibly selfish of her to continue and unbelievably irresponsible for the organisers to allow her to.

Manxexile · 16/09/2026 21:04

LondonLass2026 · 15/09/2026 17:32

When she shat herself in the race? That wasn't last weekend! I remember it, I was away for the weekend and saw it then.

We must be talking at cross purposes then.

Are you saying this wasn't her first offence in the shit dept?

Nevs · 16/09/2026 21:19

fmlnotagain · 15/09/2026 10:59

It’s the people empowering her say she was brave to continue 🤮 weirdos! there’s nothing brave about someone shitting themselves and carrying on infront of the whole world as if nothing happened. Dirty cow

I agree with you OP. Filthy shameless woman.

LuckyHazelFox · 16/09/2026 21:22

ItsAlwaysTwins · 15/09/2026 10:30

Omg. What did I just read? 🤮

Yes, a trigger warning would have been nice!

Butchyrestingface · 16/09/2026 21:31

I didn't - and still don't - really know what HYROX is.

But I know the name of the woman who keiched her breeks at the event and stank out the stadium. Then came second.

Whaleandsnail6 · 16/09/2026 21:34

MrsKiplingsSauna · 15/09/2026 17:16

If the other contenders didn't complain and still used the equipment, that shits on them

Other competitors will have trained for this ...why should they have had to stop their race and affect their time because she was too selfish to stop to go clean herself up?

Its unfortunate for her that she had an accident, but it was unbelievably selfish to continue with no consideration for anyone else behind her in the race. I actually can't comprehend that she thought her actions acceptable

She should be disqualified and the person who came second declared the winner....this could have impacted other people's times if they were affected by her shit

Superhansrantowindsor · 16/09/2026 21:53

Given others had to use the equipment she should absolutely been told to stop. This was not a neat little poo but full blown runs. Absolutely minging.

BirmaBright · 16/09/2026 22:05

Why has she got a canula in her arm in her 'Go hard or go home' post ?

CatamaranViper · 17/09/2026 09:54

BirmaBright · 16/09/2026 22:05

Why has she got a canula in her arm in her 'Go hard or go home' post ?

I would imagine dehydration due to exertion and bad diarrhea

thebabessavedme · 17/09/2026 10:20

What I don't understand is someone not wanting to stop doing a competition in this situation, I would feel totally humiliated and would have to leave and clean up (and not leave the house for sometime). It's not 'normal', it's filthy and personally degrading.

Whaleandsnail6 · 17/09/2026 10:33

thebabessavedme · 17/09/2026 10:20

What I don't understand is someone not wanting to stop doing a competition in this situation, I would feel totally humiliated and would have to leave and clean up (and not leave the house for sometime). It's not 'normal', it's filthy and personally degrading.

This is how I feel.

Carrying on with poo running down your leg, where others can see, smell and (very likely) end up in physical contact with your poo...I can't make sense of what she was thinking.

I can't imagine the humiliation of very obviously and publicly soiling myself, let alone thinking "ah, I'm winning the event so I'll carry on" .

I'm not saying its acceptable to shame someone for soiling themselves btw, incontinence can happen, I just find it incomprehensible that she didn't immediately want to take herself out of the public situation and clean up in private.

And being filmed where pretty much the world can see it...not just people connected to the event but everyone.

CatamaranViper · 17/09/2026 12:08

Manxexile · 16/09/2026 21:04

Are you saying this wasn't her first offence in the shit dept?

TBF I'm sure ive read that this wasn't her first offence. Probably why she was desenitiaed to it!

momager22 · 17/09/2026 16:33

glad to see that she has now changed her tune and made a public apology and given up her first place.

Whaleandsnail6 · 17/09/2026 16:44

momager22 · 17/09/2026 16:33

glad to see that she has now changed her tune and made a public apology and given up her first place.

I found her statement really well written and genuine.

I hope this is now the end of it for her, she has done the right thing and I hope she finds peace and moves forwards from this, putting it behind her

Cadeaukatze · 17/09/2026 16:57

LuckyHazelFox · 16/09/2026 21:22

Yes, a trigger warning would have been nice!

I don't understand trigger warnings - surely the trigger warning is in itself triggering?

Warning: this thread contains a reference to poo.

How does that help?