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AIBU to want an apology after a colleague injured my ankle?

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Scrrt · 13/09/2026 16:59

a few weeks ago I was coming out of the staff room at work and a colleague came flying in, crashed into me, knocked me out of my shoe and I stumbled and landed awkwardly on my ankle. It’s been weak and painful ever since. I had to cancel a charity race and Ive had time off work for appointments and X-rays.

Her response was “well I was hungry”. Everyone who saw it happen finds it hilarious. People who didn’t see it finds the description hilarious. I don’t and I’m pissed off. I want her to acknowledge it and acknowledge that it was her fault and apologise rather than it still being treated like a comedy sketch.

OP posts:
suki1964 · 13/09/2026 20:39

Scrrt · 13/09/2026 17:15

She flung the door open and ran in. No apology, just barged me out of the way to get to the fridge

Did you submit an accident in work form?

Because it was, doesnt matter what occurred , it happened in work

Im not an ambulance / compo chaser, but I have worked with so many over the years who have been hurt in the workplace - daft accidents - but have been left struggling later on

RitaIncognita · 13/09/2026 20:41

ToKittyornottoKitty · 13/09/2026 20:27

I’d be surprised if this worked for OP, she fell out of her own shoes which must have been unsuitable.

I'm not so sure about that. I don't think it's reasonable to expect people to go through a scenario where, when they get dressed in the morning, they think in terms of, well, I had better put on really secure shoes in case someone pushes me down.

It sounds as though the OP would have been injured even if her shoes had stayed on.

Ethelspagetti · 13/09/2026 20:42

ToKittyornottoKitty · 13/09/2026 20:27

I’d be surprised if this worked for OP, she fell out of her own shoes which must have been unsuitable.

It doesn’t matter. If you are injured at work on their premises then you can legally claim compensation. As long as a doctor has seen the injury and logged it on their records. Just like a burglar can claim against a home owners insurance if they are hurt on their property. Mad but true!

SeptUsername · 13/09/2026 20:48

DeftGoldHedgehog · 13/09/2026 17:52

Bollocks. You should never enter a staff room quickly, flinging the door open, knocking someone over on the way to the fridge. Colleague sounds like a thoughtless, clumsy twat.

Agreed. So much gaslighting going on here.

ToKittyornottoKitty · 13/09/2026 20:54

RitaIncognita · 13/09/2026 20:41

I'm not so sure about that. I don't think it's reasonable to expect people to go through a scenario where, when they get dressed in the morning, they think in terms of, well, I had better put on really secure shoes in case someone pushes me down.

It sounds as though the OP would have been injured even if her shoes had stayed on.

It’s reasonable to wear comfortable well fitting shoes in the work place, that’s incredibly basic.

And you can’t judge she’d have hurt herself if she’d just stumbled backwards and not fallen out of the shoe, she fell out of the shoe awkwardly. Regardless it did fall off so it doesn’t matter

Bookbears · 13/09/2026 20:55

Waitingforthistopass75 · 13/09/2026 17:34

I’m a bit on the fence. Your description sounds quite dramatic….running, flung and barged all paintbquite the picture that I just can’t imagine in the workplace. Maybe you’ve over-egged it to get people to side with you? Also, did you indicate you were hurt at the time or just carry on? If someone didn’t indicate they were injured (quite seriously as you describe needing time off and not being able to race…for a charity…which I’m guessing the charity part was added for extra sympathy points) at the time, I’m not sure there would be anything more than a ‘whoops sorry’. I can’t imagine a staffroom of people just ignoring someone who was clearly hurt.
Id love to hear your colleagues versions of events.

I have been in a similar situation at work before in the ladies toilets. There’s a particular colleague who refuses to touch the door handles so she kicks the door to the main toilet open and then again goes and kicks the cubicle doors too before using toilet paper to close the latch. The main toilet door is a fire door in our workplace so it’s heavy and she has to kick it with a lot of force to open it. It’s solid so you can’t see through it, I was coming out of the main toilet as she was coming in and she smacked me in the face with the door! I didn’t see her and wasn’t expecting her to be kicking a door into my face at the time. So these people really do exist unfortunately!

Bookbears · 13/09/2026 20:55

ColdAsAWitches · 13/09/2026 17:19

I'm not entirely sure it was her fault though. Two people bumped into each other because neither of you can see through doors. I'm sure it's annoying and painful, but nobody is necessarily at fault.

Op said she flung the door open, so presumably she didn’t just open the door normally. If she’s knocked OP off her feet she’s come rushing through like a idiot and the door has opened with some force into the OP?

ToKittyornottoKitty · 13/09/2026 20:57

Bookbears · 13/09/2026 20:55

Op said she flung the door open, so presumably she didn’t just open the door normally. If she’s knocked OP off her feet she’s come rushing through like a idiot and the door has opened with some force into the OP?

The door didn’t open into OP, the woman bumped into her when rushing

SceptredIsle · 13/09/2026 20:59

Offherrockingchair · 13/09/2026 17:16

Take a bit of time off work and say it was due to being injured in the workplace. Presumably there’ll be a form to complete and they may start taking it seriously then? She’s very rude not to apologize!

absolutely this of course

she might find it funny
I would get time off out of it

GlobalTravellerbutespeciallyBognor · 13/09/2026 21:01

How did you manage to get X rays and see a doctor so quickly? Did you attend A and E? If so there will be records of it.

Bookbears · 13/09/2026 21:02

EdP00 · 13/09/2026 18:47

Not if the other person came flying in and OP was walking sensibly out.

We know not to fling doors open or shut because someone could be coming the other way.

Don’t waste your time to trying to explain it. I despair at how utterly dense some people are that they can’t possibly fathom how this incident has occurred! You’d be better off explaining it to the snail on my garden path.

Fieldday26 · 13/09/2026 21:06

I’m guessing you are feeling a bit sad and pissed off that you didn’t get to run in the GNR today. It’s unfortunately just one of those things. An accident and bad timing.

Bookbears · 13/09/2026 21:06

HumbleStumble · 13/09/2026 19:29

Who falls out of their shoes?? I think you need to remeasure and get some more suitable shoes, unless they were flip flops ?

Your username is quite fitting for the explanation of your question. I would imagine OP was wearing heels and when this troll came barging through the door and knocked into the OP, she stumbled, twisted her ankle and her shoe came off.

Seen it many times whilst out on a Saturday night when people have had too much to drink. It’s really not difficult to imagine 🙄.

Notsosweetcaroline · 13/09/2026 21:07

It was an accident, she didn’t hurt you on purpose

FreddysFingers · 13/09/2026 21:08

She sounds very rude and childish OP 'I was hungry' is a dick comment to make! If she didn't apologise at the time, then I can understand why you were annoyed, but as it's been some time since she did it, I doubt you'll get any concern or worry from her now.

FreddysFingers · 13/09/2026 21:10

Bookbears · 13/09/2026 20:55

I have been in a similar situation at work before in the ladies toilets. There’s a particular colleague who refuses to touch the door handles so she kicks the door to the main toilet open and then again goes and kicks the cubicle doors too before using toilet paper to close the latch. The main toilet door is a fire door in our workplace so it’s heavy and she has to kick it with a lot of force to open it. It’s solid so you can’t see through it, I was coming out of the main toilet as she was coming in and she smacked me in the face with the door! I didn’t see her and wasn’t expecting her to be kicking a door into my face at the time. So these people really do exist unfortunately!

She sounds a class A idiot!!

PaperPanama · 13/09/2026 21:14

Notsosweetcaroline · 13/09/2026 21:07

It was an accident, she didn’t hurt you on purpose

Doesn’t absolve her from apologising or checking that the person she hurt is OK. Certainly doesn’t entitle her to make a joke out of somebody else’s injury.

ToKittyornottoKitty · 13/09/2026 21:22

Bookbears · 13/09/2026 21:06

Your username is quite fitting for the explanation of your question. I would imagine OP was wearing heels and when this troll came barging through the door and knocked into the OP, she stumbled, twisted her ankle and her shoe came off.

Seen it many times whilst out on a Saturday night when people have had too much to drink. It’s really not difficult to imagine 🙄.

OP wasn’t out in the town drunk on a Saturday though in silly heals was she. She was sober at work, even in heels they shouldn’t be that easy to come off

CakesForAll · 13/09/2026 21:43

Notsosweetcaroline · 13/09/2026 21:07

It was an accident, she didn’t hurt you on purpose

Have you not heard of the concept of recklessness?

BlueMum16 · 13/09/2026 21:45

ArseSkinForAFriend · 13/09/2026 17:19

She should've apologised at the time.

But as it was a few weeks ago, I would've let it go by now.

This. it's weeks ago. Move on.

CakesForAll · 13/09/2026 21:45

MrsKateColumbo · 13/09/2026 19:44

Your post is a bit full of hyperbole, "flying in", "flung the door open" then you fell out of your shoes?Confused nobody should laugh but you sound a bit drama llama

How do you know it's "hyperbole"? We have no reason to believe it did not happen exactly like that.

RitaIncognita · 13/09/2026 21:47

It was the coworker's heedless action that set in motion the circumstances that caused the OP's injury, not the OP's choice of footwear.

And for those posters who are saying it was just an accident as though that relieves the coworker of any responsibility, do you think the coworker's action was unreasonable? Or negligent? A person does not have to intentionally cause harm in order to be responsible for it.

CakesForAll · 13/09/2026 21:48

ToKittyornottoKitty · 13/09/2026 20:27

I’d be surprised if this worked for OP, she fell out of her own shoes which must have been unsuitable.

"Unsuitable" for what? For being barged into with force? That is ridiculous. Should we all wear steel toe-capped boots to the office in case some idiot runs into a room, flinging the door open, totally reckless as to whether anyone might be in the vicinity on the other side of the door?

ToKittyornottoKitty · 13/09/2026 21:50

CakesForAll · 13/09/2026 21:48

"Unsuitable" for what? For being barged into with force? That is ridiculous. Should we all wear steel toe-capped boots to the office in case some idiot runs into a room, flinging the door open, totally reckless as to whether anyone might be in the vicinity on the other side of the door?

Steel toe capped wouldn’t have made a difference here. Just shoes that fit properly

CakesForAll · 13/09/2026 21:51

ToKittyornottoKitty · 13/09/2026 21:50

Steel toe capped wouldn’t have made a difference here. Just shoes that fit properly

How do you know they didn't fit "properly"? they could have been court shoes, heeled mules, whatever. Suitable for an office. As well you know. Talk about blaming the victim.