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AIBU to want an apology after a colleague injured my ankle?

163 replies

Scrrt · 13/09/2026 16:59

a few weeks ago I was coming out of the staff room at work and a colleague came flying in, crashed into me, knocked me out of my shoe and I stumbled and landed awkwardly on my ankle. It’s been weak and painful ever since. I had to cancel a charity race and Ive had time off work for appointments and X-rays.

Her response was “well I was hungry”. Everyone who saw it happen finds it hilarious. People who didn’t see it finds the description hilarious. I don’t and I’m pissed off. I want her to acknowledge it and acknowledge that it was her fault and apologise rather than it still being treated like a comedy sketch.

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Vroomfondleswaistcoat · 13/09/2026 18:47

A 'sorry!' at the time would be enough I think. It was just an accident, she didn't deliberately set out to injure you. Accidents happen and they aren't always someone's 'fault', just one of those things. But she ought to have apologised as soon as it happened though - I wonder if she was one of those people who can't say sorry?

beaglescurleduplikebagels · 13/09/2026 18:53

EdP00 · 13/09/2026 18:47

Not if the other person came flying in and OP was walking sensibly out.

We know not to fling doors open or shut because someone could be coming the other way.

Eh, at the end of the day, they both bumped into each other and OP unfortunately got injured in the process. It happens.

shrumps · 13/09/2026 18:55

OMG seriously??

EmeraldShamrock000 · 13/09/2026 18:59

She is rude. If I accidentally knocked someone over I would apologise for my stupidity.
Take a personal injury claim against the company. She’ll learn from her rude reaction, so will HR.

Gwenna · 13/09/2026 19:00

Scrrt · 13/09/2026 17:15

She flung the door open and ran in. No apology, just barged me out of the way to get to the fridge

Awful behaviour. YANBU, definitely say something OP. Sorry you have to be the one to teach this person how to behave because her parents clearly didn’t.

Gwenna · 13/09/2026 19:05

Wreckinball · 13/09/2026 18:00

She should have apologised.
This could happen again, raise as H&S issue to get a glass panel in the door, so starving, barging staff can see if they are about to take someone else out. If she thinks it’s funny she’s not about to alter her behaviour.
Get it reported in the accident book.
Take time off if you can’t work properly
I hope you heal ok and can get back to fitness.

OP is not at fault - no grown adult should be barging through any door like a maniac, especially a busy communal one at work of all places @beaglescurleduplikebagels I find it ridiculous that @Wreckinball wants to put a glass panel in said door so that overgrown badly behaved children like OP’s colleague can check before they barge. And as if they would anyway! 👀

EdP00 · 13/09/2026 19:06

beaglescurleduplikebagels · 13/09/2026 18:53

Eh, at the end of the day, they both bumped into each other and OP unfortunately got injured in the process. It happens.

She flung the door open and ran in. No apology, just barged me out of the way to get to the fridge

OP literally says she flung the door open, ran in and barged her out of the way - they didn’t both bump into each other.

Gobbledegoo · 13/09/2026 19:07

This is a very serious issue. OP has been injured, quite badly, no ambulance required. HR has been notified albeit not at the time. Doorway is badly designed. It is no laughing matter, and not minor. No one knows the outcome in a few weeks/months/years. Did OP have medical/first aid attention?

All these issues need to be addressed immediately. If I was OP and had experiences I have now, I would contact an appropriate solicitor tomorrow.

I have a friend whose chair was moved out of the way for a "joke". She has serious spine issues and has had multiple operations. The company concerned has said she should have spoken up at the time and it was now a private issue. The person who did the "joke" hasn't the means to pay for all my friend has endured.

Frombeyond · 13/09/2026 19:13

Hang on. So this woman, opened the door, started running, saw you in the way and barged you out of it?

That doesn’t sound very credible in the workplace, does it.

what is actually wrong with your ankle after your multiple x-rays and appointments?

Gingernaut · 13/09/2026 19:18

Was this reported as a H&S incident?

Someone running in and injuring someone so badly that the injured party ended up in hospital is not something to be laughed off lightly

smallglassbottle · 13/09/2026 19:19

ToKittyornottoKitty · 13/09/2026 17:24

I can’t see where OP said she was running

She said she came 'flying in', which indicates she was rushing and being careless.

backformoreofthesame · 13/09/2026 19:20

You came out of your shoe? That’s crazy

HumbleStumble · 13/09/2026 19:29

Who falls out of their shoes?? I think you need to remeasure and get some more suitable shoes, unless they were flip flops ?

Loub1987 · 13/09/2026 19:33

What sort of shoes do you fall out of?

If you have an issue speak to the individual or raise it with management.

I would apologise if it was me to be fair, but maybe they think you are also in the wrong somewhat.

ThreadGuardDog · 13/09/2026 19:34

beaglescurleduplikebagels · 13/09/2026 17:28

Yes, I'm for real.

If OP managed to get herself knocked over by someone rushing through a door, that suggests she was stood in the wrong place. It's common sense 101 not to stand directly behind a closed door.

Like I said, I would have made sure OP was okay.

Where did OP say she was standing directly behind the door - she said she was coming out of the room.

beaglescurleduplikebagels · 13/09/2026 19:37

ThreadGuardDog · 13/09/2026 19:34

Where did OP say she was standing directly behind the door - she said she was coming out of the room.

Fair enough, I misread - but either way, it was an accident. They both bumped into each other and unfortunately OP took the brunt of it and got injured.

Not ideal but I’m not sure how an apology several weeks later is going to help.

AnniesFrangipani · 13/09/2026 19:43

You were injured at work so did you report it as such ?

ToKittyornottoKitty · 13/09/2026 19:44

smallglassbottle · 13/09/2026 19:19

She said she came 'flying in', which indicates she was rushing and being careless.

I agree that it indicates that, it doesn’t mean she was running. She flung the door open… doesn’t mean she ran through it. It’s a clumsy accident

MrsKateColumbo · 13/09/2026 19:44

Your post is a bit full of hyperbole, "flying in", "flung the door open" then you fell out of your shoes?Confused nobody should laugh but you sound a bit drama llama

Awkwardisfunny · 13/09/2026 20:08

Offherrockingchair · 13/09/2026 17:16

Take a bit of time off work and say it was due to being injured in the workplace. Presumably there’ll be a form to complete and they may start taking it seriously then? She’s very rude not to apologize!

This. Report the accident.

Laurmolonlabe · 13/09/2026 20:19

Say yes in the staff room with everyone there, yes it's great that
I have been in pain and had to have x-rays so all of my colleagues can have a good laugh- I wish you all to have hilarious injuries so I can be similarly entertained.

seahorsessky · 13/09/2026 20:22

I had a "minor" issue like this turn into something serious. If it's not getting better, please get it seen to. And there will be some people with disabilities in most workplaces. Even my 7 year old knows not to run into places without checking it's clear.
Sounds like you don't work with nice people. Are they the kind that say bet you're fun at parties if you complain about their "banter", too?

Ethelspagetti · 13/09/2026 20:24

Weirdpig · 13/09/2026 17:21

Have you logged this as a workplace injury and have management/HR addressed it?

Agreed. You need to log it as a work place injury and contact a solicitor about claiming for an injury that happened at work. HR will get involved and set up a meeting. It won’t be funny when it starts costing them money. My friend was barged into at work and fell over a cone in the hallway. It was when they introduced a one way system and coned off lots of space. He damaged his knee and took a long time off work to recover. HR are involved and he is claiming compensation from the works insurance as he was injured on site. You should do the same.

Mindboggl · 13/09/2026 20:25

I don’t really understand the value in a forced and not-genuine apology. If they aren’t sorry, they aren’t sorry. Making them say sorry doesn’t mean they’re sorry.

ToKittyornottoKitty · 13/09/2026 20:27

Ethelspagetti · 13/09/2026 20:24

Agreed. You need to log it as a work place injury and contact a solicitor about claiming for an injury that happened at work. HR will get involved and set up a meeting. It won’t be funny when it starts costing them money. My friend was barged into at work and fell over a cone in the hallway. It was when they introduced a one way system and coned off lots of space. He damaged his knee and took a long time off work to recover. HR are involved and he is claiming compensation from the works insurance as he was injured on site. You should do the same.

Edited

I’d be surprised if this worked for OP, she fell out of her own shoes which must have been unsuitable.