Should I report this mum? Is it even reportable?

Do you know if any of the men are under probation? Or is it past criminal offences?

You can’t report someone for being stupid: unless there’s actual concerns that someone has done something there’s nothing to report

Confusing but not illegal or something social services would get involved with. The threshold is incredibly high.

I don't think most people are saying there's no concern - nothing to report/nothing that social services will act on is not the same thing.

Just report @Moonstars1and if social services agree with the others on this thread, that there’s no basis for concern, then nothing will come of it. But if, like PP said, that there’s a bigger picture that you’re not aware of and other people have also made reports, then your additional report could really make a difference.

That there'll be a need to find more foster parents in the next 12 months?

Hopefully if something's done early there'll be no need for emergency responses and white tents in the future.

OP report, but only if sure no repercussions for you. It's a tough one and they probably won't do anything.

You should absolutely report this. You can do it anonymously via the nspcc website but be prepared that if what you’re sharing is information others than you won’t know then if she is contacted she will likely know it came from you. It may not meet the threshold for intervention at this point, but should anything come up in the future professionals can act more quickly and safeguard the children better. You also never know, they could do a few checks and realise the latest partner has a worrying record, or nursery/school etc also share concerns, which could prompt involvement.

Edited to add - it’s especially important that you share if you have any reason to believe she’s leaving the kids with new partners, letting them sleep together, do personal care etc.

Sure OP, just ignore it.

Because this never happens and no mother can possibly be expected to have a life without pimping her kids to attract random cock.

https://www.bbc.com/news/uk-england-birmingham-65912730

Unfortunately lots of people do this type thing. Unless the current boyfriend is actually abusive towards her or the kids and there is neglect then there's nothing to report.

But she is entitled to try and find a partner, a decent one. She shouldn't have to be single forever just because she's been abused in the past. You just have to hope she's learnt from her mistakes.

You may quite rightly disagree with the speed at which she allows men into the family, but I don't think that itself is a safeguarding concern in isolation.

OP, you could do a Clare's Law and Sarah's Law request for each partner (police will warn about a history of DV and of child abuse respectively).

It sounds like this is bringing a lot up for you, understandably. Therapy can help a lot.

I agree with your view OP.

People only have the read the recent court case of Isabelle Rose Welsh. A 2 year old girl who was raped and murdered by her mums new boyfriend of 2 months.

Whilst I agree that this woman having a new man around her very young children is really irresponsible and selfish, unfortunately it’s not illegal and you can’t really report her to authorities. Unless you have concerns that her or the children are being subject to abuse.

Whilst all of that is true its irrelevant.
Social services wont care as having multiple partners over a couple of years isn't considered a risk unless you have evidence that the current 1 is abusing her or the kids.
The police wont care as its not a crime.

So do nothing but keep an eye out for any abuse

If you can do it submit a Claire's law and Sarah's law request, that way if there is anything she will be told, and if it is something serious like child abuse etc it may also get passed on to social services that way.

Unrelated males in the home are statistically a much bigger threat than blood relatives.

It won't even touch the desk of a social worker in or the police. You are right to be worried but there is nothing that can be done. Maybe suggest to her that she does The Freedom Program.

You can phone nspcc and get some advice.

There’s nothing to report for.. she’s clearly a wrongen!

You could do a Clare’s law disclosure. She would then be contacted by police if there is anything to share about this new man’s past. They would also then alert social care if necessary.

They could be prevented but there are no grounds to intervene until there are grounds.

SS can't just waltz in and take people's kids under these circumstances. That would be utter madness. They are barely able to deal with stuff that is frankly illegal let alone the ones that are being frowned up only.

The most shocking thing about this case was how many neighbours reported their concerns and the poor boy was still allowed to live there and ultimately be killed.

This is why I think report, report, report as the more reports they get, the more they’re (hopefully) likely to do something.

Sounds like Katie Price and
nobody seems bothered about her shit show of a life

Sounds awful but report her for what? Having men round her house? Getting pregnant by different men?

You could speak to social services but if you have no proof that the children are in danger then I dont really know what they can do? Maybe do a welfare visit? But again without any proof ...

And that’s awful. But open your eyes. There are tens of millions of women in this situation. You can’t report her for being a bit of a slapper with a penchant for scumbag men.

I'm hoping I'm wrong, but I didn't read that post as being sarcastic...