Trans men aren't men according to gay men

[IJustHadToNameChange]

Gay Canadian Facebook Group are none too thrilled about dysphoric females.....

www.back2stonewall.com/2018/07/gay-male-facebook-group-refuses-to-accept-trans-men.html

[User183737]

Well to be fair, what gay man wants a vagina?

[IJustHadToNameChange]

I love this line

When asked about the outrage by trans activists Bennett replied: “I have little care or concern of the opinions of trans activists. “You may quote me.”

If only we could say the same....

[Jozxyqk]

Sound of the other shoe dropping...

[Writersblock2]

They need to link up with other gay men and get the message out. I’m sure there are plenty of women who welcome their voices.

[TheBatPig]

They won't get threats. Nor will trans men demand access. They were socialised as females and, to be honest wouldn't dare be as demanding as their opposite. It's very illuminating in my opinion, that there are currently 0 transmen in male prisons and that they are not vocal in wanting to be placed there. They know they are not.

[UpstartCrow]

Will Morgane Oger be demanding their names for prosecution?

[TensionWheelsCoolHeels]

I knew there'd be a thread on this. Fuller quote on the question asked about whether transmen could join the group the response was:

Sorry, no. The group is for actual homosexual men,” he said. “Dysphoric females are not and can never be men, so are therefore naturally (and quite obviously) excluded.”

When asked about the outrage by trans activists Bennett replied: “I have little care or concern of the opinions of trans activists. “You may quote me.”

Absolutely 100% right response.

[had1234]

Hi all. Long time lurker here. Hit peak trans a few weeks ago. I saw that article too. His response is classic, should be the only response from anyone to TRAs. Women were conditioned to be too polite and accommodating to nonsense for too long. Thought the same re getting gay male allies, generally they take no shit from anyone especially the older ones who have been through some serious shit in their lives. But challenging to get them to see it as important enough to take action on, as it doesn’t affect then, not really. They know their spaces will be protected. On transmen in prisons, thank god they are not so far. I don’t think they will ever demand access to prisons but way things are going they could be forced to and that would put them at serious risk.This whole trans thing is a mess, do people not actually think about the consequences.

[Datun]

.When asked about the outrage by trans activists Bennett replied: “I have little care or concern of the opinions of trans activists. “You may quote me.”

I wish everyone would say this. Take it to the wire.

[TheresaMayIsATory]

“I have little care or concern of the opinions of trans activists."

Why should anyone care more about a trans activist than say a parent campaigning for a much treasured cause?

[TiredPony]

When asked about the outrage by trans activists Bennett replied: “I have little care or concern of the opinions of trans activists. “You may quote me.”
Can we quote him too? That would be a game changer.

[Ereshkigal]

When asked about the outrage by trans activists Bennett replied: “I have little care or concern of the opinions of trans activists. “You may quote me.”

If he's ever in the UK I'd be delighted to buy him a large drink.

[UglyCathKidstonBag]

When asked about the outrage by trans activists Bennett replied: “I have little care or concern of the opinions of trans activists. “You may quote me.”

Copying this into my phone, so I can use it as a direct quote at another time.

Men get away with it because it isn’t shocking when they aren’t polite.

[Broken11Girl]

whoever is active in that group better be ready for the threats of violence, actual violence, doxxing, being labelled bigots and transphobes, their employers contacted and the group closed down. Oh wait, they're men.
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Nor will trans men demand access. They were socialised as females and, to be honest wouldn't dare be as demanding as their opposite.
< and this.
Imagine the huge outcry if a lesbian Fb group did the same, it would be splashed everywhere.

[InionEile]

Men get away with it because it isn’t shocking when they aren’t polite.

Exactly. Women are unfortunately conditioned by society to conform to male expectations and be kind to men, even if they find them threatening. How many women have been in situations where they feel unsafe with a man but smile at him or try to calm him or be 'nice' so he won't get violent? So many of us have had that experience, sadly. TAs get away with their behaviour towards women because so many women fear men.

That's why I am so skeptical of the transactivist narrative. 99% of it is aimed at women and women's spaces. Men's spaces remain sacrosanct. I wonder if David Bennett will be getting hate mail, rape and murder threats and be 'no-platformed' next time he wants to speak somewhere? I doubt it.

And even if he were, he probably wouldn't care. Older gay men have had to deal with much worse in their lives than transactivist tantrums.

[InionEile]

Edit to say - this is not to imply that older lesbians haven't had to deal with their fair share of shit either! Quite the contrary...

[had1234]

+1 on older lesbians and dealing with serious shit. That’s why they are still fighting.

[Bespin]

sorry fixed ya title for you it just needs a some in. there to make it right.

[IJustHadToNameChange]

m.huffpost.com/us/entry/5522288

Huffpost blog entry from 2014 and updated in 2016.

What gay men have got against trans men.

[IJustHadToNameChange]

www.pride.com/transgender/2015/10/23/outrageous-things-gay-cis-men-say-trans-men

Trans man describes the worst things to say to him

[Bespin]

About to blow, me probably not I'm one of the problematic trans woman people talk about so I would not be invited to any meetings lol

Thanks for asking though I'm sure I will be ok on my own.

[Bespin]

IJustHadToNameChange yes some gay men don't like trans men just like some gay woman don't but funnily enough some do to.