what do you do ?
We are on holiday and the whole issue is really staring me in the face.
Literally h never touches me or when he does it is such an occurrence that I almost remember the date it happened.
Yet he is very touchy feely with the kids which highlights even more how much he doesn't touch me.
Night after night he will sleep in the same bed as me without touching me. Once in a blue moon he might initiate sex but mostly it's me - rarely though as the whole thing is a bit soul destroying. When that does happen it's mostly good.
We are now on holiday and have somehow ended up both sharing beds with the dc (who do not want to sleep in the same double bed) which has really really made me feel lonely! At least at home we are in the same bed (even though that is also very lonely - for their never to be an extended hand unless I do the extending).
I have told h how I feel many times. Have also posted about this before.
So if leaving is not an option, what do I do ?
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If you get little or no affection in your marriage but do not want to leave
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