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My husband has died

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peachgreen · 28/10/2020 21:45

He died today. He was 42. He had recently been diagnosed with a heart condition and spent a month in hospital but we believed he was going to be okay. He went upstairs for a rest and they think he had a heart attack. He didn't cry out, they think it would have been fairly instant. I found him when I went to check on him a few hours later and I knew he had gone, I did CPR but I knew it was too late.

He was my soul mate, my other half, the true love of my life. We have a little girl who is almost 3. If it wasn't for her I would kill myself. I can't imagine life ever having any meaning without him.

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CoronaIsWatching · 28/10/2020 21:45

Oh OP Flowers

thesandwich · 28/10/2020 21:47

I’m so very sorry. Is anyone with you? 🌺🌺🌺

elvislives2012 · 28/10/2020 21:48

I'm so sorry to hear this op. You're not alone. Rant, cry or whatever. We are here and listening

DuzzyFuck · 28/10/2020 21:49

Oh OP I'm so sorry, I can't even imagine Thanks

Loshad · 28/10/2020 21:49

So so sorry for you @peachgreen
Many hugs x

StarDanced · 28/10/2020 21:49

I am so very very sorry for your loss Flowers. Wishing you and your family strength in this difficult time.

sandyposy · 28/10/2020 21:49

I’m so very sorry for your loss

Squiffany · 28/10/2020 21:51

OP, thinking of you and your family Flowers

JontyDoggle37 · 28/10/2020 21:51

Oh @peachgreen I read your previous thread, I’m so sorry for your loss. You can do it, one day at a time. Keep posting here, this lovely nest of vipers will hold you while you scream your pain, and you don’t need to be strong for us.

Lougle · 28/10/2020 21:52

I'm so very sorry @peachgreen. That is devastating and must be such a shock. I hope you have family support around you.

Londoner90 · 28/10/2020 21:53

I’m so sorry for your loss. I don’t know what to say. My heart goes out to you. I hope you have someone to talk to but if not you can always message us here.

Honeyroar · 28/10/2020 21:53

Oh you poor thing. What an absolute shock for you. My heart goes out to you.

Pet8 · 28/10/2020 21:54

I'm so, so sorry.

BringItOnBaby · 28/10/2020 21:54

I'm so sorry, you must be in complete shock. Do you have family support around?

JetBlackSteed · 28/10/2020 21:55

Oh Peach. I'm sorry. Talk here, I'll listen.

Cocolapew · 28/10/2020 21:55

I'm so sorry Flowers

ASchuylerSister · 28/10/2020 21:55

I followed your previous thread and I’m so sorry to read this. Thinking of you Flowers

Ifonlyiweretaller · 28/10/2020 21:56

I'm so, so sorry for your loss 💐

Rosiejim · 28/10/2020 21:56
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GU24Mum · 28/10/2020 21:57

@peachgreen I am so very sorry. I remember your original thread and really hoped that things were getting better for you all when your husband came out of hospital.

I know you said you had good family support last time so I really hope you'll have it now too.

Thinking of you all. xx

flapjackfairy · 28/10/2020 21:57

Oh bless you . So very sorry xxx

Firstimer703 · 28/10/2020 21:57

So sorry for your loss. Sending love X

mogloveseggs · 28/10/2020 21:58
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nimbuscloud · 28/10/2020 21:58

Oh my god
Am so so sorry to read this

DoTheNextRightThing · 28/10/2020 21:59

I'm so sorry OP. If you need to talk, please do so. We're here to listen Thanks