Tell me who is AIBU: me or my PIL
Before I begin, I want to fully acknowledge how lucky we are to even be having these problems.
My PIL have a country house that is large and on several acres. We have been living there since early March. They are for the first time relocating to come here next week. The house is large and has an annex so the plan is they will self quarantine for 2 weeks before moving into main house for the summer.
I am also heavily pregnant.
Today I receive a call from my FIL asking me if I can drive back to London and sleep in our house there for the night as a handyman that they have had for 20+ years is coming back today to do errands on the grounds and fix several things indoors. Apparently he said to my FIL that he does not want to drive 1+ hours back to his house tonight as he can't finish everything on the list in one day.
So FIL decided that it was ok to have his pregnant daughter in law drive that same 1.5 hours back into London because he did not want to inconvenience this handyman.
I asked DH to speak to his father but he doesn't see anything wrong with some random worker coming into the house, sleeping and touching everything inside as DH's entire family feels more concerned about keeping the handyman safe and not inconvenienced then their own son's family.
Aside from the judgement of all this house moving, how is this reasonable to put a handyman's safety and preference over me/us?
Handyman is in his 60s and has worked for family for 20 years.
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Pregnant DIL or Handyman?
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tally79 · 20/05/2020 22:01
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