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To ask for a handhold?

999 replies

GoJetterGirl · 24/02/2020 06:12

Hello all,

GoJetterBoy after 2 years of fighting has finally lost the energy to fight, I’m currently sat with him in hospital, having come in a few days earlier for pain management.

I really need a handhold right now...

OP posts:
SeaToSki · 24/02/2020 11:16

💐

hoolydooly · 24/02/2020 11:21

So sorry that you are going through this. Flowers

MulticolourMophead · 24/02/2020 11:22

Thinking of you and your son. 💐💐💐

Throckmorton · 24/02/2020 11:25

Many many hugs to you both.

IronShame · 24/02/2020 11:26

Oh OP. I'm just so mad, upset and heartbroken on yours and your son's behalf.

Your son sounds like a lovely, precious little lad.

I'm so sorry, there are no words, but my hand is yours Flowers x

Yiayoula · 24/02/2020 11:34

Hand hold and hugs, my lovely. Thinking of you and your beautiful boy. 💐 xx

FluffyPinkSocks · 24/02/2020 11:39

I’m so sorry, thinking of you and your wee man Flowers

FairyDogMother11 · 24/02/2020 11:41

Thinking of you, I'm so sorry Flowers

troppibambini · 24/02/2020 11:47

I'm so sorry x he sounds amazing and so do you, life is utterly shite sometimes sending huge hugs and hand holds xx

Sweetsformysweeet · 24/02/2020 11:50

OP, I am so sorry you are going through this. It definitely sounds to me as though he truly is too special for this earth. Maybe god has bigger plans for him?

My DD frequently gets frightened of me dying/her dying and us being apart, so I’ll tell you what I tell her. In life or death, we will never really be apart. Our bond is much too strong to ever be broken. She is with me in everything I do, just as I’m with her in everything she does. That connection is eternal.

Sending love and strength to you and your wonderful son ❤️

YetAnotherSpartacus · 24/02/2020 11:56

I remember your threads and I'm so sorry Flowers.

Kb12 · 24/02/2020 11:59

Sending my love Thanks

Candymay · 24/02/2020 11:59

He sounds like such an amazing person. I’m so truly sorry that you both have to suffer like this. It’s truly incomprehensible. I cannot imagine where you get your strength from but I send you both all the love and thoughts I can. I’m so sorry.

PickleMyPepper · 24/02/2020 12:00

OP, I send you all the love and strength of the world.
I am so, so sorry to hear about your darling little boy.

Deep breaths. One step at a time.
Thanks

ellendegeneres · 24/02/2020 12:02

Oh @GoJetterGirl. I have tears reading this. I’ve followed your journey, my heart hurts so much for you.

I love the notebooks, the pictures, how much love clearly surrounds him. You’re right, he’s too precious, too good for this world. But how amazing for you to have been blessed with the joy of being his mummy.

What a wonderful mummy you are, he knows just how much you care and will never leave him.

Ach I don’t have words.

Namechange32H · 24/02/2020 12:03

I have nothing to say that could possibly make this any better but I am sending you both lots of love 💕

MyGhastIsFlabbered · 24/02/2020 12:04

OP this must be so hard for you. I can't imagine the pain you're going through; I have a 7 year old DS. I hope you both find some peace during and after this.

Originalusernameunavailable · 24/02/2020 12:05

Flowers So sorry you’re going through this x

Rhapsodyinpurple · 24/02/2020 12:08

I am so sorry that you are going through this. Your little boy sounds amazing. Have a handhold from me.

MrsAJ27 · 24/02/2020 12:09

Your brave little boy sounds amazing! Sorry you are all going through this, send lots of love x

Krazykitty · 24/02/2020 12:11

What a wonderful special little boy you have, he really does sound amazing.

My thoughts are with you both and I’m sending so much love to you 💐 💖

LilyJade · 24/02/2020 12:13

Thinking of you & your boy xx

PurpleFrames · 24/02/2020 12:14

Sending love and prayers to you all x

MeanMrMustardSeed · 24/02/2020 12:15

What a wonderful son you have. Feel desperately sad reading this. May you both know so much love in the coming days.

FoxEars · 24/02/2020 12:16

Hugs and hugs and hugs to you and your darling beautiful little boy

I am so upset for you. I send you strength and love.

Xxxx