I have a large family on my side, three siblings, four neices and nephews and both parents. We've always done Christmas presents for all.
This year my middle sister (2dc) has sent out a missive declaring they will only be buying for the children this year and she hopes we are all on board.
Well, we're not. I love buying gifts, they don't have to be expensive but I like to spend time choosing something I know they will love. My other sister is recently divorced and used to be spoilt for gifts by her Dh so she's struggling anyway with this Christmas (she also won't have her DC this year so is coming to us rather than hosting as usual). She's deeply upset by this. Not from a material point of view, but from the emotional side of receiving gifts from loved ones.
My brother is single and has no kids.
I've got three DC and although I'd be happy with no gifts for me I do want to buy for everyone else in the family.
Tbf last year she received lovely gifts from me and DSis1 and we got a tin of biscuits to share with our DH's. So her presents won't be missed! (I don't mean that to be bitchy or ungrateful but there it is).
So wwbu to just ignore the edict and carry on as usual? Would you buy for her and her Dh anyway or just leave them out and buy for the rest of the adults?
I'm a bit miffed by the tone of the text as well. It was basically telling everyone that this is what will be happening for the whole family. Well, sorry but no. It seems very bah humbug.
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GrabtharsHammer · 22/11/2016 08:08
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