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Washing hands after nappy change - MIL thread, sorry

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StarlingMurmuration Wed 15-Jul-15 17:58:09

My PIL are staying with us at the moment to look after DS, after I have had an operation. I appreciate is is very generous and lovely of them, and I am grateful.

However, MIL isn't washing her hands after pooey nappy changes. AIBU to be bothered by this? How can I get her to do this without basically implying she's being disgusting? We do have hand sanitizer at the nappy change station, but I found she as using that BEFORE she changed his nappy instead of after! DS is 8 months old, just for info, and my operation means I can't lift or carry him, or bend over/ kneel down, so I can't do it myself at the moment.

todayisayesterdaystomorrow Wed 15-Jul-15 18:03:38

Just say... Oh did you wash your hands? He's had a polio vaccine which is live and hand washing was really stressed to me by the nurse wink

00100001 Wed 15-Jul-15 18:05:10

Oh... I never bothered washing my hands after poo changes... Unless it got everywhere

downgraded Wed 15-Jul-15 18:08:21

I don't wash my hands unless they actually get poo on them.

I'm a minger, but I just don't care enough.

TurnOverTheTv Wed 15-Jul-15 18:08:34

I didn't wash my hands either.

weeblueberry Wed 15-Jul-15 18:08:53

I don't wash my hands after pooey nappies either unless I've got some on my hands which you can always tell because ugh

NewFlipFlops Wed 15-Jul-15 18:10:02

I'm going to stop eating home made cupcakes shock

WipsGlitter Wed 15-Jul-15 18:10:26

It's pretty much up to her. If she doesn't get poo on her hands then she mightn't think she needs to.

NerrSnerr Wed 15-Jul-15 18:10:43

I'm another munger who doesn't wash her hands either.

Headinthedraw Wed 15-Jul-15 18:10:45

Yuck.I always washed my hands.Then again I'm a childrens nurse and its second nature.Do you non washers clean your hands after going to the loo?

Writerwannabe83 Wed 15-Jul-15 18:10:53

Another one who doesn't wash her hands unless there is poop on them grin

I give them a once over with a clean nappy wipe but that's it.

SquinkiesRule Wed 15-Jul-15 18:12:04

I used a baby wipe on my hands half the time and washed the other half. Maybe she's using a wipe on herself.

McColonel Wed 15-Jul-15 18:12:26

To all the people that don't wash their hands - surely when you have a dump yourself you wash your hands afterwards, even though you don't actually get shit on your hands?

McColonel Wed 15-Jul-15 18:13:25

Sorry Headinthedraw i see you asked the same thing already

TheEagle Wed 15-Jul-15 18:13:40

I'm married to a nurse so handwashing is top priority here.

He stopped washing his hands in between changing the DTs though. Otherwise his hands would have washed away grin

IgnoreMeEveryOtherReindeerDoes Wed 15-Jul-15 18:13:54

laughing at all you grim mingers

just say he's had a bout of worms that should work

TurnOverTheTv Wed 15-Jul-15 18:14:54

I very rarely wash my hands <skank>

TheEagle Wed 15-Jul-15 18:15:45

Oh and sorry YANBU

mamaswabey Wed 15-Jul-15 18:16:45

Just wow. I'm pretty laid back when it comes to hygiene but even I wash my hands when I've been dealing with shit. shock

TurnOverTheTv Wed 15-Jul-15 18:16:54

Can I just ask the hand washers why they do it after a nappy change? What are you actually touching for you to wash your hands? Undoing the outside of a nappy and wipes, surely?

couldoutme Wed 15-Jul-15 18:18:46

Wish I hadn't read some of the replies on this thread shock am absolutely horrified.

NewFlipFlops Wed 15-Jul-15 18:19:10

I know, wtaf.

DaysAreWhereWeLive Wed 15-Jul-15 18:19:27

I never washed my hands; I would have washed them about ten times a day and my eczema would have gone mental.

She isn't actually touching shit; I can't see its an issue, or even that you noticed to be honest.

TheEagle Wed 15-Jul-15 18:19:55

Well, yes, ostensibly you're not actually touching poo (although sometimes that squirty stuff gets everywhere) but I wash my hands after I clean up my own poo.

whooshbangprettycolours Wed 15-Jul-15 18:20:40

Because wipes are not solid and poo can ooze without it being visible. Because it doesn't seem like extravagant hygiene when dealing with a nappy that is full of wee and poo.

.... mind you I've been in public toilets and seen people just walk out. Barf.

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