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Are colleagues taking longer to reply / not replying to work emails now?

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JoyousOpalLemur · 23/06/2026 10:08

Are people responding less to work emails now, or is it just me?

I've been in various jobs for more than a quarter of a century and started noticing pre Covid that some people took ages to respond to emails, or didn't respond at all. I initially thought it was just them, either they're poor at emailing or poor at work generally.

But since Covid, this has massively ramped up.

I've wondered if it's maybe me but I'm regularly cc'ed in group emails that start 'John, have you had a chance to deal with this email..'. I've wondered if it's younger people joining the workforce and coming from a WhatsApp culture rather than an email one, in which you either respond immediately or never, but there are several people in their 30s, 40s and 50s also doing this (although probably the majority are in their 20s and early 30s).

All the emails I'm referring to will require some sort of action. For some, it's just a simple not-that-important yes, no or will find that out for you, for a client, but not responding will be seen as rude, others it's essential for the business that something is done.

Is this a thing you've noticed or is it just me?

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likimagee · 24/06/2026 20:38

Definitely not noticed. But have much less emails these days due to instant messaging instead.

likimagee · 24/06/2026 20:39

InfoSecInTheCity · 24/06/2026 17:17

Yes for emails coming to me and my peer group and above, the hourly rate is £70+ so £7000 to read and email and figure out if you need to do anything about it. Absolutely ridiculous.

This is where AI is proving to be hugely useful for me.

tourdefrance · 24/06/2026 21:00

'A world without email' is an excellent read.

PatchworkDog · 24/06/2026 21:06

How do you know they didn't respond directly to the person, I don't reply to all, if it isn't necessary

Walkaround · 24/06/2026 21:26

PatchworkDog · 24/06/2026 21:06

How do you know they didn't respond directly to the person, I don't reply to all, if it isn't necessary

Well, I guess some people who are only cced, and therefore clearly only included for info and not expected to respond, might be weird enough to reply with an email which starts, ‘John, have you had a chance to deal with this email..' (see the OP), but I would have thought those people are few and far between 🤣.

Apaaa · 24/06/2026 21:31

We’re discouraged from sending internal emails, i haven’t sent one in a long time and if someone sent me one, they’d be waiting a lot longer than if they just @ me on the chat as I just don’t check them that often.

Walkaround · 24/06/2026 21:41

icybreezefromanairconditioner · 24/06/2026 20:21

It's not about self importance it's about working effectively

I treat emails like my in tray and review them a couple of times a day, I might not respond or answer them then, like with letters in the old days

I do keep teams open so someone can call with a very urgent question
We also have a group chat where someone can post a question and whoever sees it first and can help will answer

Most of my work requires long chunks of focus or complex discussion in meetings. It would be really poor practice to me constantly dipping into my inbox

Teams and group chats do not enable long chunks of focus, unless you also ignore those. You just ignore emails because you can and do ignore emails.

40andnotsofabulous · 24/06/2026 21:48

I had my first meeting at 7am yesterday, took 15mins at 12noon for a bio break and to collect my sandwich, was back in meetings until 5pm. I then had to collect kids from childcare, feed them, put them to bed. Started reading emails from the day at 8:30pm, and doing some work. I didn’t read through all the mails as I had received >100 in the day, and I certainly didn’t reply to all of them. While not ideal, only way to manage is to have a scan and prioritise on the most urgent (based on subject line!)

I say this to highlight that it’s not always because people are lazy. Often we are massively stretched and there simply are not enough hours in the day

Momrage · 24/06/2026 22:21

No, but I think there are so many other methods now. Teams/slack, WhatsApp etc that I think we are expecting instantaneous replies and being "on" the entire work day and beyond, and quite often the juggle mean that some things are lost or easily forgotten about. I try not to take it personally as it's easily done

likelysuspect · 24/06/2026 22:23

JoyousOpalLemur · 23/06/2026 10:53

isn't it part of your job description to respond to emails?

Why is sending an email to a colleague the same as posting a letter to them, but Teams is not? In both cases they receive the comms immediately?

(I should add, as well, this isn't just colleagues, I've noticed it increasingly with some, particularly younger, clients as well. They barely do phone and email, but instant messaging on Teams isn't applicable. I've also noticed some colleagues simply don't respond to some difficult questions on Teams).

I wont give instruction my teams, only email, the teams chat disappears after a while and i have no audit trail of what Ive set out.

I have a colleague who never uses email but will only use teams, it causes a lot of problems.

LameBorzoi · 24/06/2026 22:29

LittleJustice · 24/06/2026 08:06

I agree and this is why everything is getting crapper to be honest people just don't care anymore about doing a decent job but obviously this then rebounds on everybody.

My view is that if you're supposed to be working then do your job. I appreciate that a lot of Gen Z live at home still and are more interested in their phones but I don't see this as a positive thing for society I'm afraid.

But you can't "do the job" in a lot of industries these days within reasonable hours.

livelovelough24 · 24/06/2026 22:43

I’m not sure what’s going on or why, but I definitely notice a big difference compared to 7-8 years ago. I blame it on Covid. I think people’s attitudes and work habits changed drastically since. Of course, it also depends on the type of job you do. My work is heavily tied to email; half of what I do is troubleshooting issues that people report through email, and I always respond right away.

OP, I also don’t really understand why so many people prefer Teams over email. To me, it’s basically the same, except I actually prefer email because our Teams conversations get deleted after a while, and I like having written proof I can refer back to.

I’ve also noticed that a lot of people don’t use the phone anymore. Some don’t even have one, especially those working from home, so you can’t just call to get a quick answer. Everything has slowed down significantly, and the overall quality of service has gone down. I do not think it is younger folks fault though.

celticprincess · 24/06/2026 23:15

Wow I’ve never even heard of slack. I am in a totally different work situation. I work for the local authority into schools. Email is vital for prompt communication. I get children on my case load that I need to go and work with in their school. I need to email the teaching staff working with these children. The teaching staff are usually teaching all day so I know I won’t get a response immediately but hopefully within a couple of days so I can get my sessions started. I also contact parents to talk through what I’m doing. Many work and don’t check personal emails throughout the day so I usually expect a couple of days before they reply. Some are really quick. I often email parents following sessions. Some respond and some don’t. I usually send a summary email at the end of a piece of work to school and parents and mostly get a response fairly quickly. Our main sticking point is when people are off sick and not having an out of office on.

I am part of a team but our team is also part of bigger teams. We get emails from corporate, from other departments and from the wider team our team is part of. Email is the primary communication method. I usually know that my immediate team emails usually require immediate reading. Wider corporate emails do get left as they are usually just for info or putting dates into our diaries.

Teams is hit n miss. Some people never check their teams channels. Others use it for quick immediate chats. Mostly used for virtual meetings. But generally the messaging part is within the immediate team.

I don’t get masses of emails a day thankfully. If I’m in a school for a full day then they might not answered until I can sit down at my laptop and go through properly but I usually have some time each day. I also have some purely admin days and some days which are 3 hour meetings at a time. Emails generally are there to enable me to carry out my job.

CalliopeFosterBeauchamp · Today 00:24

i probably do take longer to respond to emails than I used to.

That’s because a) I usually have 6-8 hours of meetings a day, on top of my actual job and b) I get hundreds of teams messages every day. Not all of those need a response, but they do all need to be read, digested and actioned.

I try to check my email 2-3 times a day and flag anything that needs a reply, but I don’t always get a chance to compose a reply for a couple of days.

My job description doesn’t mention emails.

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