My husband left his job after 40 years and one woman wrote in his card that my husband had done these special thing's for her and bought her gifts back from a trip once which she treasured. I warned him about her many year's ago as other wives at the company were also upset by her behaviour towards their husbands. She once blew cigarette smoke in my face when I was 6 months pregnant..I am upset with my husband to have continued a friendship with her...he isnt saying alot..am I right to feel really upset about this and to wonder what' has been really going on?