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Jobs you have done you would NEVER recommend to your children

211 replies

OneUmberJoker · 28/12/2025 21:50

McDonald's

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princesspadam · 29/12/2025 12:42

Nursing & midwifery

Sunshineandoranges · 29/12/2025 12:47

Are the many people saying they wouldn't recommend teaching ex teachers orcurrent teachers. I always loved teaching. Loved other jobs before teachingsuch as hotel receptionist, working in small shops etc. i hated office jobs.

Clutterbug2026 · 29/12/2025 12:52

Kibble19 · 28/12/2025 22:12

Amazed at how many posters are saying teaching.

What is it that makes it so bad? Is it the parents? Workload? The kids? I imagine it’s lots of factors, but would really like some insight.

Work load, primary teachers do an average of 60 hours a week and secondary teachers 55 hours. The internal politics and lack of SLT support.

There is a teacher retention crisis in the UK.

ARoomSomewhere · 29/12/2025 12:55

ParsnipPies · 29/12/2025 11:46

@HopSpringsEternal i am interested to know if tour perspective on sex work is from yours or family experience 🤣🤣🤣

Sorry to jump in but if you find this funny its very likely you have NO personal experience of prostitution. There are not many jobs where you risk GBH or worse, on a daily basis. You've no legal protection at all. Some people think you're morally corrupt or a 'joke'.

NCTDN · 29/12/2025 13:02

calimali · 29/12/2025 09:37

Sorry, but another ex teacher here. My children would never even consider it. They saw first hand the impact it had on my health. I quit after 30 years.

Oh the joy of working now in a company which really cares about staff well being. No putting on the odd day of tick boxing arm chair yoga and role play here. The wonders of flexi time, actual lunchbreaks shared with colleagues away from my desk, clean, newly refurbished toilets, being able to make a coffee or go to the loo at any time. No abusive parents, no swearing, chair throwing children. No senior management hiding in their office away from all problems. Being paid for every minute worked. No taking work home and working every weekend and holiday just to keep on top of the demands of the job.

I wouldn't go back into the classroom. There is no salary high enough to put myself through that again.

What do you do now ?

NCTDN · 29/12/2025 13:16

Shinyandnew1 · 29/12/2025 10:49

Looking back, I feel as though there was a shift in teaching around 2010-2012.

Yes, definitely-I agree with this. I presumed it was the change to a Tory government but really nothing has got better now Labour have got in again.

I genuinely loved teaching when I started in the 90s-I was shattered at the end of term yes, but I loved what I did. You had some autonomy in the classroom and despite the odd lesson observation and Ofsted (scary, but it felt as long as you were teaching what was on your planning, you'd be ok).

Now, every second is micromanaged, the planning is all 'bought in' schemes (which should free up time but actually takes longer), you are constantly accessible to parents, held accountable for all of society's failures, working 7.15-6 every day seems to barely scratch the surface and the minute you get onto M6, you become a target as the school budget can't afford you.

The main issue in my mind now though is inclusion/behaviour (and the budget, which can't support this). How can one teacher teach the y2 curriculum to 30 children day in day out, whilst also trying to support 2 children with such high needs, they are developmentally working at the level of an 18 month. Their EHCP only funds 3 hours support a day, but states they need a completely individual timetable, playing with 'cause and effect' toys, and a program supporting them to become aware of their own toileting needs as they are still in nappies. No special school place for them, the LA don't care. Add into that other pupils with ASD, ADHD, literacy difficulties and some EBSA, with no class TA, it's no wonder teachers don't want to stay.

It was the Ofsted changes that tipped me over the edge though (in case you are reading this, Bridget Phillipson). With the dreadful Ruth Perry case, I really hoped something would change for the better but I suppose this was naive and should have guessed it wouldn't.

That poor family were told at the last minute, they'd have to fund their own lawyers-(whilst Ofsted had, I think 5 lawyers on their side) which they successfully crowd funded for over the weekend! Ofsted were dismissive and rude throughout but the hearing but it found in her favour and the coroner report really made it sound like something would change and emphasised how Ofsted couldn't just 'pay lip service' to the suggestions...but, that's exactly what they've done.

The changes that had been implemented though are dreadful-they are much worse and the pressure on schools going forwards will be immense. I believe that more people will feel so desperate, just like Ruth did, and more tragedies will happen. I think many more good people will leave in droves.

I honestly wouldn't recommend teaching to my worst enemy.

I also agree about that shift around then. I’m only still in the job because I’m on my last few years. If I could get a different job I would jump at the chance. But I’ve been teaching 32 years and worlds know what else I could do. (I’m on that fb page for for the classroom)
My current class of 32 children aged 7&8 have 3 with an ehcp supposedly for 1:1 support, plus 2 working at reception level. 4 others with diagnosed needs and 7 awaiting diagnosis. I only have 1 TA but they are never in the room due to one of the children accessing a completely different curriculum. Yet I’m expected to get 75% of the class age related for year 3 and every child to make at least expected progress.
The education system saddens me so much. I agree there will be more Ruth Perry cases.

OttersMayHaveShifted · 29/12/2025 13:37

Sunshineandoranges · 29/12/2025 12:47

Are the many people saying they wouldn't recommend teaching ex teachers orcurrent teachers. I always loved teaching. Loved other jobs before teachingsuch as hotel receptionist, working in small shops etc. i hated office jobs.

A mixture of both, based on what they've said. Most teachers love the actual teaching bit of being a teacher. The many downsides of the job as it is now have been listed by several posters.

ArseInTheCoOpWindow · 29/12/2025 13:42

NCTDN · 29/12/2025 13:16

I also agree about that shift around then. I’m only still in the job because I’m on my last few years. If I could get a different job I would jump at the chance. But I’ve been teaching 32 years and worlds know what else I could do. (I’m on that fb page for for the classroom)
My current class of 32 children aged 7&8 have 3 with an ehcp supposedly for 1:1 support, plus 2 working at reception level. 4 others with diagnosed needs and 7 awaiting diagnosis. I only have 1 TA but they are never in the room due to one of the children accessing a completely different curriculum. Yet I’m expected to get 75% of the class age related for year 3 and every child to make at least expected progress.
The education system saddens me so much. I agree there will be more Ruth Perry cases.

That’s terrible!

I left after being expected to help a severely visually impaired child use a sewing machine every lesson with no support. They couldn’t do a different curriculum because the whole focus was on learning g machine skills across the years.

I wasn’t prepared to be responsible for their health and safety. Meanwhile the other kids in the class had ASD, ADHD, anger issues, EBD issues, couldn’t speak English,etc etc.

AlwaysGardening · 29/12/2025 13:44

Another ex-teacher here! Did nearly 30 relentless years. My sons could see how damaging it was and now work in well paid, far less stressful jobs.

mrsh2025 · 29/12/2025 13:51

GoldenGeishaGirl · 28/12/2025 22:17

Bartender - abuse, sexual harassment, having to make small talk with creeps, weirdos and aggressive drunks, no thanks.

This well hospitality in general been doing it for 20 years now and hate it for all the above reasons, gets no better at management level

TeenLifeMum · 29/12/2025 14:02

Journalism - poorly paid and long hours. Honestly, it made teaching a breeze in comparison.

I now work in the nhs and all the doctors discourage their own dc away from being doctors.

Shinyandnew1 · 29/12/2025 14:03

Sunshineandoranges · 29/12/2025 12:47

Are the many people saying they wouldn't recommend teaching ex teachers orcurrent teachers. I always loved teaching. Loved other jobs before teachingsuch as hotel receptionist, working in small shops etc. i hated office jobs.

Current, but not for much longer.

When did you teach?

CheddarCheeseAndCrispSandwich · 29/12/2025 14:03

Teaching…I’m on my 33rd year of primary teaching and the last 10 years (in particular the past 5 of those!) have sucked the very soul out of me.

I genuinely loved my job when I started…and it makes me so very sad that I’ll be ending my long career feeling so utterly broken.

Docugirl · 29/12/2025 14:08

@SoftBalletShoes I agree with you. Logged on to say Public Relations and particularly agency. High stress, long hours, horrible clients and ridiculous expectations! And that was more than one agency, they're all the same.

RaraRachael · 29/12/2025 14:13

Sunshineandoranges · 29/12/2025 12:47

Are the many people saying they wouldn't recommend teaching ex teachers orcurrent teachers. I always loved teaching. Loved other jobs before teachingsuch as hotel receptionist, working in small shops etc. i hated office jobs.

I started teaching in 1982 and finished in 2022. There is absolutely no comparison between the job then and now.

My post from 12.32.

I loved teaching in the early days - you were left alone to teach - no parental interference, no stupid Curriculum for Excellence, no pointless meeting and, above all, bad behaviour was dealt with and pupils knew there would be consequences for it.

ArseInTheCoOpWindow · 29/12/2025 14:13

TeenLifeMum · 29/12/2025 14:02

Journalism - poorly paid and long hours. Honestly, it made teaching a breeze in comparison.

I now work in the nhs and all the doctors discourage their own dc away from being doctors.

My ds is well paid in journalism. Works from home office hours. No overtime.

Rocknrollstar · 29/12/2025 14:32

ChristmasChroniclesBookFairie · 28/12/2025 21:51

Teaching. I got out - best thing I ever did!

So did I but DS loves it

Itsmetheflamingo · 29/12/2025 14:33

Any trade
hairdressing

researchers3 · 29/12/2025 14:33

OneUmberJoker · 28/12/2025 21:50

McDonald's

Not really, but i woukd encourage them not to stay in toxic working environments, bullying managers etc.

I think that's more important.

TeenLifeMum · 29/12/2025 14:35

ArseInTheCoOpWindow · 29/12/2025 14:13

My ds is well paid in journalism. Works from home office hours. No overtime.

What kind of journalism? (I imagine my parents thought I was well paid but as a graduate, I was not. Regional editors earn less than £40k

ArseInTheCoOpWindow · 29/12/2025 14:37

TeenLifeMum · 29/12/2025 14:35

What kind of journalism? (I imagine my parents thought I was well paid but as a graduate, I was not. Regional editors earn less than £40k

He earns well over that. Works for 2 big national news media companies. Started 6 years ago.

TeenLifeMum · 29/12/2025 14:41

ArseInTheCoOpWindow · 29/12/2025 14:37

He earns well over that. Works for 2 big national news media companies. Started 6 years ago.

it does vary. I was features editor for 11 editions a week and dh was news editor. We got out just before the regional newspaper became “Live” and they were stopping caring about actual news, just looking for click bait. Agencies pay better but one step away from front line journalism. Everyone I know got out and went into PR - much better pay and hours. A lot of sports journalism is on zero hour contracts with lots of travel. Essentially, the popular media jobs don’t need to pay well because people want them.

Beezz · 29/12/2025 14:42

Anything that pays under £70k

Mistyglade · 29/12/2025 14:43

Sales. Soul destroying.

Piggywaspushed · 29/12/2025 14:55

ArseInTheCoOpWindow · 29/12/2025 14:37

He earns well over that. Works for 2 big national news media companies. Started 6 years ago.

Id really welcome a PM about how he did that arse. Everyone else is so pessimistic . DS is currently doing a master's in journalism at Sheffield. Not got any mummy and daddy type connections, sadly.