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Jobs you have done you would NEVER recommend to your children

211 replies

OneUmberJoker · 28/12/2025 21:50

McDonald's

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Kibble19 · 28/12/2025 22:12

Amazed at how many posters are saying teaching.

What is it that makes it so bad? Is it the parents? Workload? The kids? I imagine it’s lots of factors, but would really like some insight.

OliviaBonas · 28/12/2025 22:12

Teaching here too 😢

Batteriesoptional · 28/12/2025 22:12

Loveduppenguin · 28/12/2025 21:59

Teaching!

personally I think everyone should do a stint in retail and/or waiting tables at some point in their life. It definitely builds character and appreciation!!

Completely agree with the sentiment on waiting & retail - I did both as a student and temped while
applying for my first graduate job. Learnt so much about people.

lolawasashitgirl · 28/12/2025 22:15

I knew loads of the replies would be teaching 😞

I don’t think there’s anything I’d advise against if it’s legal.

Happy NHS worker here 🙂

ComedyGuns · 28/12/2025 22:15

Wonderwoman333 · 28/12/2025 22:00

Nursing, such a toxic, blame culture.

I remember with both births that a lot of the mid-wives seemed like a bunch of tarty bitches. Not nice.

Mrsnothingthanks · 28/12/2025 22:16

Teaching. I would be gutted if any of my kids followed in my footsteps but fortunately they are all smarter and wiser than me!

GoldenGeishaGirl · 28/12/2025 22:17

Bartender - abuse, sexual harassment, having to make small talk with creeps, weirdos and aggressive drunks, no thanks.

Rosemary61 · 28/12/2025 22:18

Teaching

TheChosenTwo · 28/12/2025 22:18

I don’t think I’d discourage them from doing any jobs I’ve done tbh, I’ve learnt so much from all of them and found it invaluable. I know my worth and my boundaries now, and it’s come from putting up with stuff in my younger years (bar work and hospitality), being taken advantage of (education), feel incredibly grateful for the job I do now because I feel valued and appreciated and never work overtime without negotiating remuneration that works best for me, NOT what suits them for convenience purposes. If on the rare occasion we can’t reach an agreement I refuse the extra work and that’s the end of it.

RaraRachael · 28/12/2025 22:20

Teaching. Never in a million years.

wizzywig · 28/12/2025 22:20

Would you all say its the front line public sector roles that are awful and that it is better when you get into management in those roles?

Mrsnothingthanks · 28/12/2025 22:20

@Kibble19 In essence, everything! I left primary teaching exactly a year ago today after 20 years' service. The job is absolutely relentless.
I wouldn't recommend the career to anyone nowadays, not even to my worse enemy, let alone my own kids.
A happy, experienced teacher in the UK is incredibly rare I would say.

ILoveLeopard245 · 28/12/2025 22:22

Teaching.
Though my children have absolutely no desire to go into education- me, their aunty and both sets of grandparents have been enough to convince them not to touch it with a barge pole. It’s a shame as I would have described it as the best job in the world once upon a time. Times have changed.

hellololabells2019 · 28/12/2025 22:22

OneUmberJoker · 28/12/2025 21:50

McDonald's

My stepson loves it and has won employee of the quarter

Oldandgreyer · 28/12/2025 22:23

Kibble19 · 28/12/2025 22:12

Amazed at how many posters are saying teaching.

What is it that makes it so bad? Is it the parents? Workload? The kids? I imagine it’s lots of factors, but would really like some insight.

Not a teacher.. but
Bad parents not only make bad kids but don't give a shit when kids are twats.

PermanentTemporary · 28/12/2025 22:23

Typing in an insurance company typing pool. It was ok for 2 weeks, and there were worse jobs, but I met someone there who’d been audiotyping ‘We are refusing your claim because… letters for 30 years. Tbf those sorts of jobs don’t exist any more.

Haffdonga · 28/12/2025 22:24

I was going to say teaching too Sad

Mathsbabe · 28/12/2025 22:25

Teaching

ChristmasChroniclesBookFairie · 28/12/2025 22:26

Kibble19 · 28/12/2025 22:12

Amazed at how many posters are saying teaching.

What is it that makes it so bad? Is it the parents? Workload? The kids? I imagine it’s lots of factors, but would really like some insight.

Where do I begin?

Teaching became a role that was structurally impossible to do well. The demands placed on teachers are so extensive and often conflicting that even sustained, exhaustive effort never feels sufficient. You work relentlessly, yet are left with a persistent sense of guilt for falling short of an unattainable standard.

When the reality of the workload is accounted for, the notion of generous holidays quickly dissolves. Calculated against the actual hours worked, the salary often equates to less than minimum wage, revealing a profession that is both emotionally and financially undervalued.

The ideal of inclusion, while well intentioned, frequently exists more as a policy aspiration than a practical reality. In many cases, students are placed in environments that are not appropriate for their needs, with little or no additional support, to the detriment of both those pupils and the wider classroom.

Parental engagement presents another challenge. Poor boundaries, limited accountability, and unrealistic expectations placed on teachers have become increasingly common, further eroding professional autonomy and respect.

Compounding this is the absence of meaningful consequences for extreme or persistent misbehaviour, whether from pupils or, at times, parents. This undermines classroom stability and places an unreasonable burden on teachers to manage situations without adequate authority or backing.

Finally, the role is dominated by relentless paperwork and an ever-changing landscape of initiatives. These shifting priorities continually move the goalposts, creating an environment where compliance often takes precedence over effective teaching and meaningful learning.

VivienneDelacroix · 28/12/2025 22:26

Teaching.
My children have been told many many times not to go down the path I did.

arlequin · 28/12/2025 22:27

I love my job as a teacher!! Independent school though so easier

Greenfingers37 · 28/12/2025 22:30

ChristmasChroniclesBookFairie · 28/12/2025 22:26

Where do I begin?

Teaching became a role that was structurally impossible to do well. The demands placed on teachers are so extensive and often conflicting that even sustained, exhaustive effort never feels sufficient. You work relentlessly, yet are left with a persistent sense of guilt for falling short of an unattainable standard.

When the reality of the workload is accounted for, the notion of generous holidays quickly dissolves. Calculated against the actual hours worked, the salary often equates to less than minimum wage, revealing a profession that is both emotionally and financially undervalued.

The ideal of inclusion, while well intentioned, frequently exists more as a policy aspiration than a practical reality. In many cases, students are placed in environments that are not appropriate for their needs, with little or no additional support, to the detriment of both those pupils and the wider classroom.

Parental engagement presents another challenge. Poor boundaries, limited accountability, and unrealistic expectations placed on teachers have become increasingly common, further eroding professional autonomy and respect.

Compounding this is the absence of meaningful consequences for extreme or persistent misbehaviour, whether from pupils or, at times, parents. This undermines classroom stability and places an unreasonable burden on teachers to manage situations without adequate authority or backing.

Finally, the role is dominated by relentless paperwork and an ever-changing landscape of initiatives. These shifting priorities continually move the goalposts, creating an environment where compliance often takes precedence over effective teaching and meaningful learning.

This ⬆️

Mrsnothingthanks · 28/12/2025 22:30

@ChristmasChroniclesBookFairie Totally agree. 20 years of primary teaching was enough for me.
As an EOTAS Tutor I have pretty much zero job security, a terrible pension, no sick or holiday pay, and my take-home pay is far less than it was as a teacher.
Leaving teaching was still the best decision I ever made.

Mrsnothingthanks · 28/12/2025 22:31

@arlequin How long have you been teaching?

arlequin · 28/12/2025 22:31

@Mrsnothingthanks14 years!

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