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Jobs you have done you would NEVER recommend to your children

211 replies

OneUmberJoker · 28/12/2025 21:50

McDonald's

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chaptersandchatter · 28/12/2025 22:59

Teaching. It’s only when I left did I realise how badly it impacted my mental health.

Newbuildtooldbuild · 28/12/2025 23:00

It’s really sad to see every other post saying teaching.
Sadly it’s the same for me. I’d tell them not to go into teaching.

YourEagerFox · 28/12/2025 23:01

Call centre - the general public seem to think they are entitled to verbally abuse someone on minimum wage. I’ve seen people do the job long term and suffered mental breakdowns as a result.
Secondary school teacher

NCTDN · 28/12/2025 23:01

ChristmasChroniclesBookFairie · 28/12/2025 22:26

Where do I begin?

Teaching became a role that was structurally impossible to do well. The demands placed on teachers are so extensive and often conflicting that even sustained, exhaustive effort never feels sufficient. You work relentlessly, yet are left with a persistent sense of guilt for falling short of an unattainable standard.

When the reality of the workload is accounted for, the notion of generous holidays quickly dissolves. Calculated against the actual hours worked, the salary often equates to less than minimum wage, revealing a profession that is both emotionally and financially undervalued.

The ideal of inclusion, while well intentioned, frequently exists more as a policy aspiration than a practical reality. In many cases, students are placed in environments that are not appropriate for their needs, with little or no additional support, to the detriment of both those pupils and the wider classroom.

Parental engagement presents another challenge. Poor boundaries, limited accountability, and unrealistic expectations placed on teachers have become increasingly common, further eroding professional autonomy and respect.

Compounding this is the absence of meaningful consequences for extreme or persistent misbehaviour, whether from pupils or, at times, parents. This undermines classroom stability and places an unreasonable burden on teachers to manage situations without adequate authority or backing.

Finally, the role is dominated by relentless paperwork and an ever-changing landscape of initiatives. These shifting priorities continually move the goalposts, creating an environment where compliance often takes precedence over effective teaching and meaningful learning.

And this is a perfect response.

PauliesWalnuts · 28/12/2025 23:02

PA/Executive assistant. Rarely any progression, comes with its own glass ceiling, and the higher up you go (in my case working for an Exec Director of the Beeb) the more likely you’ll just be an inbox and diary manager.

Zov · 28/12/2025 23:05

Gosh I am so sorry to see so many people saying 'do not go into teaching ...' That's so sad. I know a few people who loved teaching, and it was their life. They loved the kids, the job, the school, everything about it. Pre 21st century... Some of them carried on til early 2010s to get the pension, and said if they were 40 years younger now, no way would they go into teaching now...

@OneUmberJoker Why not McDonalds? Are there valid reasons? Or are you just being a snob, like many people are about McDonalds and its workers?

OliviaFlaversham · 28/12/2025 23:06

Teaching in the state sector. 13/14 years ago ish, I was in my annual performance management meeting and was told children in my class had to make 3 sub levels of progress or I would fail my target (primary school when the levels used to be 2a/2b/2c etc). I pointed out that they had capped the year attainment at 2a so if a child came up as a 2c they would only be able to be recorded as making 2 sub levels. They said yes, but if all do not make 3, I would not meet the progress target. I asked if those who came up as a 2c could therefore be able to end the year as a 3c and they said no and the previous year wouldn’t be capped. Completely unreasonable, stressful and impossible. I’ve never worked with such mean, power hungry vultures.

Soonenough · 28/12/2025 23:07

Such a shame to hear so many teachers having negative things to say . Bit of a multi cultural family life and young people I know in Spain and France are shocked at the disrespect and abuse of teachers in the classrooms they observed . No respect for authority I think which includes in my opinion teachers , police , other adults etc. Being a teacher is seen as a good civic career and something to aspire to.
Same as NHS workers , again lack of respect and appreciation from the general public coupled with defective management. No wonder so many qualified people are willing to emigrate to Australia for instance where the pay is considerate to their skills and workplaces are pleasant places to be in .

Zov · 28/12/2025 23:07

NCTDN · 28/12/2025 23:01

And this is a perfect response.

It is quite a reasonable response. Sounds a lot like A.I. though...

ThatGentleCoralCat · 28/12/2025 23:07

Property solicitor...handing my practicing certificate back was the best thing I ever did. After 11 years I no longer had to schedule time in my morning routine for the nausea and sheer panic and dread at the thought of having to go to work to pass. I can now sleep for more than an hour or two at a time and I feel like a new woman 🤣

ParsnipPies · 28/12/2025 23:08

McDonald’s has a bad rep for not being on top of bullying and various isms in the work place.
I will be encouraging my dc to do some of the jobs on this list (bar tending, shop work) so that if they do get ‘proper’ jobs they will appreciate them more.

NotDarkGothicMama · 28/12/2025 23:11

Door-to-door cold call sales. Depressing as anything and I paid more in bus fare than I earned (commission only).

Retail, cleaning and delivery work were fine and actually a really good life experience.

anonlawyer · 28/12/2025 23:13

Corporate (city) law. The money is ok but it is a hard graft in often pretty toxic environments and there are plenty of easier (or just less than 70/80 hour weeks for months on end) ways to make similar money if you are bright. Obviously if you make partner early enough you should make bank but even that is constantly being trimmed back with equity being narrowed and many of the junior (and more senior)partners I know look pretty dissatisfied with their lot (which for the women at least is often a constant struggle between being around for children at all and meeting widely unrealistic expectations of colleagues, clients, funders and the other side). If I had a £ for everytime I have been in a room and a senior woman has said that the trick is to outsource outsource outsource I would be v rich. It completely misses the point that only the most senior can actually afford a house, private school (as you will literally never have time to help your child with their homework or run them to after school activities), 24/7 on tap childcare as well as cleaners, gardeners etc etc. I’m on a great salary but it’s not enough to afford that lifestyle. Burn out in juniors is rife - many leave altogether by about 2 years qualified and it is hardly surprising when many of them moan despite being on 6 figure salaries they can’t afford to buy a flat to live in sufficiently close to the office. It’s a constant revolving door of who is out on stress leave. When I qualified (early 2000’s) NQ peers were buying whole houses in Fulham and clapham, the social side was excellent, and the demands were not quite as intensive as they are now (much more peaks and troughs) and law firms just felt nicer and more collegiate (I had worked in a few and currently not even in a magic circle or us firm). It’s now in many firms a very cut throat environment with partners chasing the same work and under huge amounts of pressure themselves. Individually they are all very nice people on the whole but the cultures are terrible - I have heard juniors be told they should be time recording a minimum of 11 hours a day (which is more like a 13 or 14 hour day). The
main assessment metric is how responsive you are (out of hours). Training contracts are basically a 2 year interview and there is no guarantee you will be kept on once you qualify. Clients are going to expect lower bills the more that AI is developed and I’m not sure it will be such a profitable industry in the way it is now in 15 years. Those at the top will still make loads but the pyramid will get steeper. It’s already happening in accountancy.

LAlady · 28/12/2025 23:14

Teaching. Said to both my children quite a few years ago, never go into teaching.

Crispynoodle · 28/12/2025 23:14

Kibble19 · 28/12/2025 22:12

Amazed at how many posters are saying teaching.

What is it that makes it so bad? Is it the parents? Workload? The kids? I imagine it’s lots of factors, but would really like some insight.

Dare I say I love my teaching job at a further education college! I used to be a nurse though……

Italiangreyhound · 28/12/2025 23:15

Being an au pair, or being a chambermaid. Hard work and low pay.

Pieceofpurplesky · 28/12/2025 23:16

Another one saying teacher. I used to love the job but 27 years in I want out. It's the constant feeling of failure ... every little thing is the fault of the teacher. My current Year 11 class are all 'expected' to get a Grade 4 by SLT. 3/17 don't speak any English, 4/17 have SEND and learning difficulties, 5/17 had not attended school since year 9, So that's 12/17 that don't stand a chance. 2/5 will try but won't pass as - well - they aren't capable and the other 3 won't try (2 slept all the way through their mocks).

Yet I will fail my performance management and may get put on a support plan (I cost too much) as all 17 didn't get a 4.

My last observation slated me as 3/20 kids had no homework (all three less than 40% attendance but apparently I should stick the homework in when they are in).

Nothing we ever do is enough. And that's just SLT. The abuse and violence from kids, abuse from parents, the pointless meeting and paperwork ....

Gallivant · 28/12/2025 23:16

Teaching. I'd rather starve than go back.

AgeingDoc · 28/12/2025 23:17

Medicine.
Not that any of my DC showed any inclinication to follow in my footsteps though so I didn't have to discourage them.

PuttingOnMyPositivePants · 28/12/2025 23:20

Surprised not to see more social workers on here 😂

page17 · 28/12/2025 23:20

Teaching. Made me unwell, left but I’ve never recovered.

Brendezvous · 28/12/2025 23:20

Teaching. It has ruined my life in some ways.

Ebok1990 · 28/12/2025 23:20

ComedyGuns · 28/12/2025 22:15

I remember with both births that a lot of the mid-wives seemed like a bunch of tarty bitches. Not nice.

Whereas you referring to other women in that way is absolutely fine?

ByeChristmas · 28/12/2025 23:21

Oh god, one of mine wants to be a teacher and I encouraged it- now I feel awful!

OliviaFlaversham · 28/12/2025 23:21

Pieceofpurplesky · 28/12/2025 23:16

Another one saying teacher. I used to love the job but 27 years in I want out. It's the constant feeling of failure ... every little thing is the fault of the teacher. My current Year 11 class are all 'expected' to get a Grade 4 by SLT. 3/17 don't speak any English, 4/17 have SEND and learning difficulties, 5/17 had not attended school since year 9, So that's 12/17 that don't stand a chance. 2/5 will try but won't pass as - well - they aren't capable and the other 3 won't try (2 slept all the way through their mocks).

Yet I will fail my performance management and may get put on a support plan (I cost too much) as all 17 didn't get a 4.

My last observation slated me as 3/20 kids had no homework (all three less than 40% attendance but apparently I should stick the homework in when they are in).

Nothing we ever do is enough. And that's just SLT. The abuse and violence from kids, abuse from parents, the pointless meeting and paperwork ....

Yes, it’s this. The unreasonable expectations and constantly being made to feel like a failure for things out of your control no matter how hard you try. It feels like you’re being constantly gaslighted.

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