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I calmly pitched myself at a RIDICULOUS salary today....

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WorkingBling · 07/08/2025 22:30

Well, not entirely ridiculous. But right at the top end for this sort of job.

It's role that I've been talking to this company about, with whom I already work, for close to 6 months. Taking the job, if I get it, will be both terrifying and exciting. The actual work is 100% in my wheelhouse, but it's a long time since I've have had this sort of traditional corporate job (I've been consulting, freelance, for years now).

I'm fully awre that if they give me the salary, it's right at the top end of what is considered acceptable for a role like this. But I have strong reasons for wanting that pay: as a consultant, I earn a good salary on a per day basis; I have excellent experience; there's quite a lot of risk for me in taking this job and giving up my consulting role; when I left the corporate world almost 15 years ago, I was earning about 2/3 of what I'm asking for now.

I'm just completely gobsmacked I managed to do it. I've known this conversation has to happen for a while so I wasn't unprepared, but traditionally, I've been hugely underpaid. So I'm really really proud of myself for saying what I actually want.

Of course, there's a chance they'll tell me "get lost" now! Grin But it's a risk I felt I had to take as if I didn't get this salary, the reality is that I'd not be able to take the job.

Is it just me who feels like this when asking for significant pay? I'm literally still completely in shock.

OP posts:
WildLeader · 26/09/2025 16:16

You’re backing yourself! Damned right! Go you!!

squeezedorange · 26/09/2025 16:26

Go on OP!!!! You’ve got this! 🤩

WhatWouldRoyKentSay · 30/09/2025 00:43

Good on ya! @WorkingBling

pickywatermelon · 15/10/2025 04:54

Fab!

ByLimeAnt · 15/10/2025 07:31

Congratulations OP! I'm really happy for you!

WhatWouldRoyKentSay · 08/02/2026 21:27

@WorkingBling I'm clearing out my watched thread list and wondered how things ended up? I hope it all worked out.

WorkingBling · 08/02/2026 22:34

WhatWouldRoyKentSay · 08/02/2026 21:27

@WorkingBling I'm clearing out my watched thread list and wondered how things ended up? I hope it all worked out.

I started the job a little while ago! I got a sort of pseudo signing bonus which was nice and total comp in a moderate to good year will be the full whack. In a great year, significantly over.

The job is going well. I am finding some things hard to adjust to but I am getting there. Have been reminded how much I hate officepolitics. But otherwise it's good.

Due to signing bonus thing and weird timings, j still haven't had a "regular" pay cheque yet, but looking good forward to a stable reliable amount. Dh has also picked up his hours so although logistics are now a bit more complicated, things feel good.

I am doing the strategic planning this week so wish me luck for that!!!

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WhatWouldRoyKentSay · 09/02/2026 00:23

@WorkingBling great update! Good luck with the strategic planning.

Urgh, though, I hear ya on the office politics. I've been self-employed for over 15 years with too much of my work time spent listening to what goes on and how people act like a-holes in the workplace = it would have to be a heckin good offer to get me to consider leaving the house of a workday 😁

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