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The Cleaner in work is pouring full fat milk into the low fat milk.

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AwayWithTheFairiesX · 17/10/2024 10:07

I work in an office of a factory. We get 8 litres of full fat milk a day delivered . I asked around to see if I changed 1 of the bottles to low fat milk if anyone one would mind. They all said ok so I was given permission by the accountant to change it. The cleaner seen the low fat milk in the fridge and freaked out . interrogating everyone to find out who changed. she demanded I change it back even though i don't answer to her. She is feer mongering anyone who drinks saying ' I can't believe your drinking' 'that's the last bottle of that you will see' . Hiding in the back of the fridge and refuses to put it inth same section as the other milk.. But the worst of it happened this morning when i realised she poured over half a litre of full fat milk into the carton of low fat milk. What the hell do i do in this situation because i know if i go to management they will laugh at its ridiculousness and wont take it seriously. I don't like confrontation so i dont know how to best approach.

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MrsSkylerWhite · 17/10/2024 11:29

I agree that she’s probably taking a pint or two home each day and doesn’t want low fat.
Speak to your manager.

Fromage · 17/10/2024 11:32

But she could just leave that bottle in the fridge, and just pinch the full fat.

ChaoticCrumble · 17/10/2024 11:36

It's bizarre, but I used to work in an office where the company agreed we could buy in one carton of non-dairy milk every week, to suit a few of us with dietary requirements. Over time some of those people left and eventually I became the main non-milk drinker. The problem was, we were only in the office two days per week and there was only so much milk I could drink! The office manager used to constantly nag me to drink more, not waste it and so on. Emails, team messages, verbally.

I did see her point (that it was a shame not to use more of it), however the company bought milk for everyone else, and this was not always used either. The company bought in hundreds of thousands of pounds of work each month, so it was hardly a huge financial burden either. I walked home and didn't fancy taking an open carton with me alongside my laptop and everything else.

She nagged me so regularly that I was relieved when I left. I didn't care about the milk at this point! But if you're going to offer it, and it will need to be bought fresh every week anyway, let people use it how they want!

Nanny0gg · 17/10/2024 11:37

AwayWithTheFairiesX · 17/10/2024 10:34

Yes, She has been here for many years. Part of me wants to be petty and get some harmless revenge lol. but that's probably not a good idea and i would only be stooping to her level.

Is she tampering with anything else?

This does need to be taken further

JohnCravensNewsround · 17/10/2024 11:39

Who has full fat milk? Everywhere I have worked for the last 25 years has semi if its provided at all.

Greyrockin · 17/10/2024 11:40

Honestly - she sounds like the kind of person who would spit in the skimmed milk bottle if the issue was pushed. I'd just bring my own in while plotting some sort of revenge to mess with her head

gamerchick · 17/10/2024 11:43

JohnCravensNewsround · 17/10/2024 11:39

Who has full fat milk? Everywhere I have worked for the last 25 years has semi if its provided at all.

Tide has turned since the semi skimmed thing turned out to be lies. There's less carbs in full fat and better for us overall I think.

MissMoneyFairy · 17/10/2024 11:45

Talk to your manager, the catering manager if there is one too. Tampering with food is very serious, has she received food handling and hygiene training, why is a cleaner responsible for this anyway.

yeaitsmeagain · 17/10/2024 11:45

gamerchick · 17/10/2024 11:43

Tide has turned since the semi skimmed thing turned out to be lies. There's less carbs in full fat and better for us overall I think.

How does that work, I thought semi was basically watered down full fat

Imbusytodaysorry · 17/10/2024 11:45

DustyAmuseAlien · 17/10/2024 10:19

My guess is that she's in the habit of taking the leftovers home. If she's a cleaner she's probably not well-paid. 8 litres is a lot of milk and I guess that it's enough that she can usually take a pint or two home each day but if it goes down to 7 litres of full-fat plus one that she wouldn't touch she's likely to be worried that she won't be able to do this any more

Wow . She is a cleaner and /or on low pay so she is a thief.
Disgusting judgement

yeaitsmeagain · 17/10/2024 11:45

All cleaners are insane, maybe it's the chemicals

Greyrockin · 17/10/2024 11:48

yeaitsmeagain · 17/10/2024 11:45

All cleaners are insane, maybe it's the chemicals

Our cleaner is an absolute diamond - she's so lovely, BUT... she has been making her own cleaning concoction of vinegar and baking soda and the corridors smell awful now

Ivehearditbothways · 17/10/2024 11:49

Greyrockin · 17/10/2024 11:48

Our cleaner is an absolute diamond - she's so lovely, BUT... she has been making her own cleaning concoction of vinegar and baking soda and the corridors smell awful now

I use vinegar to clean at home. It’s much better for you than all the other synthetic chemicals.

TheShellBeach · 17/10/2024 11:50

Ivehearditbothways · 17/10/2024 11:49

I use vinegar to clean at home. It’s much better for you than all the other synthetic chemicals.

It doesn't smell very nice, though.

ArcheryAnnie · 17/10/2024 11:52

This sounds trivial, but is actually an H&S issue, which could make people ill. You should never pour milk into a commercial milk container - eg if you've poured some into a jug for a meeting and it wasn't all used. Transferring milk back and forth from various containers - even from one milk bottle to another - introduces bacteria and contaminates the whole. This is especially true when the milk has been bought with different expiry dates, or one has been kept at room temp for a while (eg in a jug). It's better to pour it away than mix it.

I do think this person should be asked by HR for a meeting to find what on earth is going on. It's very strange and potentially dangerous behaviour.

AwayWithTheFairiesX · 17/10/2024 11:53

I think she's re filled it to try and prove a point . That's nobody will drink it . Even though multiple people were drinking it.

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Cyclebabble · 17/10/2024 11:54

I think this is quite poor behaviour. It maybe you need lower fat milk for a specific reason. It is not for her to make these decisions. I would speak to her line Manager.

Greyrockin · 17/10/2024 11:56

Ivehearditbothways · 17/10/2024 11:49

I use vinegar to clean at home. It’s much better for you than all the other synthetic chemicals.

I agree, it is better than synthetic chemicals - just needs a drop of essential oil or something to even it out. Although I haven't smelt the vinegar/soda combo for a while so I think cleaners have stopped using it.

Blondiie · 17/10/2024 11:57

If she is swiping the leftovers then why not just take the leftover full fat? Why waste it by pouring it into the low fat bottle. It’s so odd. Why all the weird comments about it and hiding it in the fridge.
If the 8l comes in 2x4l and now 50% of the milk is low fat then I can see why it would bother people but the obvious solution would be to order something like 1x2l a week of low fat and miss out the occasional full fat. If it comes 8x1l and they are still getting 7l of proper milk a day then it seems fair enough. How many people is this milk for? Does anyone else drink the low fat?
I'm public sector and in “milk club” for £5/month (it includes tea/coffee/biscuits etc) and our compromise is semi skimmed. One person brings her one skimmed. My campaign for full fat ended in defeat but I’m not bothered enough to bring my own.

BellesAndGraces · 17/10/2024 11:58

Cyclebabble · 17/10/2024 11:54

I think this is quite poor behaviour. It maybe you need lower fat milk for a specific reason. It is not for her to make these decisions. I would speak to her line Manager.

I agree and actually think this is quite serious. Food should reflect the label and it is unsafe to tamper with the contents of labelled food without alerting everyone due to allergies and medical conditions. For example, someone with a heart condition may deliberately choose the skimmed milk version. Please speak to the cleaners’ line manager and stress that this should be taken seriously due to the company’s own potential liability.

GoneAlready · 17/10/2024 11:59

ArcheryAnnie · 17/10/2024 11:52

This sounds trivial, but is actually an H&S issue, which could make people ill. You should never pour milk into a commercial milk container - eg if you've poured some into a jug for a meeting and it wasn't all used. Transferring milk back and forth from various containers - even from one milk bottle to another - introduces bacteria and contaminates the whole. This is especially true when the milk has been bought with different expiry dates, or one has been kept at room temp for a while (eg in a jug). It's better to pour it away than mix it.

I do think this person should be asked by HR for a meeting to find what on earth is going on. It's very strange and potentially dangerous behaviour.

Agreed.

Ivehearditbothways · 17/10/2024 11:59

AwayWithTheFairiesX · 17/10/2024 11:53

I think she's re filled it to try and prove a point . That's nobody will drink it . Even though multiple people were drinking it.

You really should bring this up with management.
Are you going to have a word?

StopPissingMeOff · 17/10/2024 12:01

This could be terrible. If I drank that by mistake I could end up in hospital.

TitusMoan · 17/10/2024 12:04

DustyAmuseAlien · 17/10/2024 10:19

My guess is that she's in the habit of taking the leftovers home. If she's a cleaner she's probably not well-paid. 8 litres is a lot of milk and I guess that it's enough that she can usually take a pint or two home each day but if it goes down to 7 litres of full-fat plus one that she wouldn't touch she's likely to be worried that she won't be able to do this any more

God that’s a bit of a reach isn’t it?

Rainbow1901 · 17/10/2024 12:05

ArcheryAnnie · 17/10/2024 11:52

This sounds trivial, but is actually an H&S issue, which could make people ill. You should never pour milk into a commercial milk container - eg if you've poured some into a jug for a meeting and it wasn't all used. Transferring milk back and forth from various containers - even from one milk bottle to another - introduces bacteria and contaminates the whole. This is especially true when the milk has been bought with different expiry dates, or one has been kept at room temp for a while (eg in a jug). It's better to pour it away than mix it.

I do think this person should be asked by HR for a meeting to find what on earth is going on. It's very strange and potentially dangerous behaviour.

I thought the same - who would pour open milk from one container to another? Open milk begins to deteriorate when it is opened and if it is in and out of the fridge and possibly left out will go rancid. Yuk!!