Please be kind I'm extremely stressed right now.
I started a job in relatively senior position to be told 5 weeks later I was at risk of redundancy (no fault of my own). I've been extremely stressed due to this as I was at the last place for a very long time.
Anyway I stupidly sent an email to my boss late one night (drinks had been consumed) basically saying there are loads of issues and you've messed me about massively basically. No swearing and not abusive in any way.
I recalled the message soon after I'd sent it but obviously unsuccessfully.
Anyway now they are saying they are going to fire me for gross misconduct! Can they do this?