can I cheekily link to my AIBU thread [[http://www.mumsnet.com/Talk/am_i_being_unreasonable/1242201-to-jack-in-self-employment-3-4-day-week-slotted-round-school-hours-for-2-years-full-time-full-on-study-followed-by-full-time-work here]] - would love to get opinions from s-e-ers