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Woolly Hugs is a charity established by a group of Mumsnet users. They knit / crochet handmade blankets and other items for families experiencing difficult times.

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Woolly Hugs. Blankets for wonderful BOF's family, lovely Mumsnetters we need your help.

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KnottyAndPistey · 18/05/2021 19:07

We knew her time left with us was short, but the news of Bee/BOF’s death was still a terrible shock, we send so much love to her family and her many, many friends who love and will miss her greatly.

Reading everything we have, the thing which really strikes us is how much she was loved. As a significant presence on MN, she was a proper good egg, astute, kind and funny. So many benefitted from her incredible sense, passion and support. She ALWAYS knew what to say it seemed. This was replicated over on Facebook, for those in her amazing reading group, and of course to those who counted her as close friends in the real world. She gave of herself so freely. Touching the lives of so many, she was beautiful inside and out. I constantly felt in awe of her. We were lucky and went to her wedding, and this is how we will remember her, this glorious vibrant epic woman in absolute love. We just wish we’d known her better and for longer. Those who did, you were truly blessed.

However we knew her, we were the lucky ones

Cancer is such an evil indiscriminate bastard and it’s robbed the world again. We feel so sorry for her DH, her girls, her mum, those who knew and loved her best and for our site here which will be a poorer place without her popping up and getting stuck in. It’s all so wrong.

It is time to do something for her now, we want to really push ourselves here and make four blankets, so that each of her direct family can have a Woolly Hug with them and know how much we loved her. So for her DH, her two beautiful daughters and her mum.

We hope we can achieve this. We shall need crafters and donors of funds and wool, can you help us? We’d be so grateful. Thank you so much

So many ideas to think about. If you can please check this list out
Obviously Bees
Bee was a proud Liverpudlian, red through and through, a proud socialist
Her wonderful DH proposed to her in Venice
Roses are very important
Her DH is the most talented artist having painted Bee and for her over the years, maybe paintbrushes etc?
She adored William Morris and Liberty prints
She was a very talented quilter
She had King Charles’ cavalier dogs
She loved Greek food and tapas
The beach was really important to her and ice lollies which she always called lolly ices! We need a lolly ice!
She loved Sir Antony Gormley’s cast iron men located on Crosby Beach, Merseyside
She adored Marilyn Monroe, Hollywood glamour, red lipstick, make up and perfume.
She adored art nouveau, strong patterns
She had an allotment, which was such a happy place, loved flowers particularly irises/roses
She was a passionate prolific reader, Agatha Raisin, the Goldfinch ( her DH painted this for her, it is exquisite) and she loved history especially podcasts.
She loved Opal fruits sweets, pineapples and SHE LOVED WINE!
She was very into Line of Duty, so AC12, and towards the end of her life a priest blessed her with Ted’s famous line “Jesus, Mary, Joseph and the wee donkey,” which amused her no end
She loved Les Mis, musicals, The Life of Brian! Also the Chase with Bradley Walsh
She loved those cheesy Christmas films, cheesier the better
Initials - B, L, H, A and R.

We are so grateful to her friends for helping with this list, other may have different ideas.

If you are making a picture square, you might consider making four the same, we know this is a big ask, but then we can have a core of squares the same across the blankets. This has worked well in the past.

The colours
We are using her colours from her wedding day as our base palette
Plums/magenta/mulberry
Rich purples
Pinks
Blues

Then for accents and embellishments
Greens
Red, but one of these two please, Drops Merino Extra Fine 11 Red, or Jenny Watson Pure Merino DK WM6 ‘Ruby’ please
Oranges
Yellow, this one please.. Drops merino extra fine DK no 24 ‘light yellow’ can be bought here..
Cream, but please one of the following - Debbie Bliss Rialto DK 02 ecru, Jenny Watson Pure Merino DK WM4 cream, or Drops Merino 01 off white
Taupes
Brown

The Yarn we will be Using….
Debbie Bliss Rialto DK ( can only be bought from Love Crafts)
Drops Merino Extra Fine DK
Jenny Watson Pure Merino DK
Katia Merino 100% DK
King Cole Luxury Merino DK
Sublime Extra Fine Merino Wool DK Currently on sale on at Black Sheep Wools
Patons Merino Extrafine DK Currently on sale at Lady Sew and Sew Knits

Just from the brands listed please because we know they combine for wash and wear. If you still have any of our wools that have been discontinued - Artesano Superwash Merino DK, Debbie Bliss Cashmerino DK or James C. Brett Pure Merino DK in your stash, please do use them.

Our listed yarns are all easily available online, in addition to the above try Wool Warehouse and rkmwoolsdirect.

There does seem to be a supply issue for some of our yarns but hopefully folk will source enough. If you find another gem of an online shop please do share the link!

Important crafting info
Squares to be six inches, using 4mm needles or hook. Please knot off VERY carefully when finishing or changing colour and sew your ends in, thank you! No magic ring starts please. No blocking please, makes it much easier to join squares.

Simple or complex, made by beginner or expert, we genuinely welcome them all. It really is the love and thought that counts.

Last posting for this project is July 1st it will be to Teddington.

We still cannot quite take it in that we are making for Bee/BOF. Life has been so terribly cruel. Sad

Thank you so much wonderful people Thanks

There is nothing on this earth more to be prized than true friendship.
Thomas Aquinas

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Blondeshavemorefun · 24/05/2021 10:30

@KnottyAndPistey

Think of her today, her family and friends. It’s her funeral. Heartbreaking.
💐💐
Peridot1 · 24/05/2021 10:43

I’ve PM’d you.

Will be thinking of Bee and her family and friends today.

Lilyofthevalleys · 24/05/2021 11:03

Thinking of all Bee’s family and friends today Flowers

KnottyAndPistey · 24/05/2021 18:20

We have some lovely donors to thank. How wonderful you are, we appreciate every penny, yarn is already on the way to crafters (in many cases already received!) who will make something very beautiful from you both. Thanks

Thanks @Blondeshavemorefun

Thanks @marriednotdead

Thanks @EastofEdna

Thanks @Hassled

Thanks @SomethingWycked

Thanks @Portofino

Thank you so much everyone xxxxx

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Bearfrills · 26/05/2021 16:00

I had a missed parcel and have collected it today, it was the yarn you sent, thank you Smile

RaptorInaPorkPieHat · 26/05/2021 20:19

Here are mine, I shall have to add another round on the dahlia square before I send them as its just a tad small compared to the others. That pink is more of a rose colour but looks very bright in the photo.

Woolly Hugs. Blankets for wonderful BOF's family, lovely Mumsnetters we need your help.
Lilyofthevalleys · 26/05/2021 23:26

Writing or no writing?

Lilyofthevalleys · 26/05/2021 23:27

Pictures would help!

Woolly Hugs. Blankets for wonderful BOF's family, lovely Mumsnetters we need your help.
Woolly Hugs. Blankets for wonderful BOF's family, lovely Mumsnetters we need your help.
RaptorInaPorkPieHat · 27/05/2021 16:09

@Lilyofthevalleys I like it with the writing Smile

KnottyAndPistey · 27/05/2021 18:01

Beautiful treasure!

And yes. Definitely writing. Definitely!

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MadisonAvenue · 27/05/2021 19:04

I like it with the writing.

Thank you so much to a wonderful, generous donor who sent wool to me. It amused me when it arrived. No knock on the door, no ring of the doorbell, just a parcel flying over the wall into the back garden. I even checked the Ring doorbell footage and the postman walked right past after going next door, checked the camera at the side of the house and there he is throwing it over.
I’ll say this, he’s got a decent throw on him.

BlackeyedSusan · 27/05/2021 22:01

also voting for writing.

KnottyAndPistey · 30/05/2021 11:20

Morning!

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Yiayoula · 30/05/2021 13:14

For BOF’s family, with much love 💗 🐝 xx

Yiayoula · 30/05/2021 13:15

Oops - forgot to add photo .

Woolly Hugs. Blankets for wonderful BOF's family, lovely Mumsnetters we need your help.
SwedishEdith · 30/05/2021 17:17

@Yiayoula

Oops - forgot to add photo .
They're nice. What stitch have you used for the blue and dark pink on the left? Not the stocking stitch ones.
echt · 31/05/2021 09:12

Bump.

bookbook · 31/05/2021 13:13

I was asked if I could attempt these as a one off exception, especially for BOF's family . I am honoured to have been asked .
This is the first one finished , with so much love in the stitches xx

Woolly Hugs. Blankets for wonderful BOF's family, lovely Mumsnetters we need your help.
Zhx3 · 31/05/2021 13:15

Bookbook, that's just ❤.

BlackeyedSusan · 31/05/2021 13:59

Bloody hell book, that's amazing!

Lilyofthevalleys · 31/05/2021 14:21

Gorgeous @Yiayoula!

@bookbook clever as ever x

SinkGirl · 31/05/2021 14:30

I loved Bee so much, she was so incredibly lovely to me.

I don’t have any yarn or time to knit at the moment.

However, I did recently make some Line of Duty prints including the phrase you mentioned - if her family might like a set I would be happy to send you a set to send with the blanket. Happy to share a pic if you’d like so you can check.

Well done everyone, this is going to look beautiful x

ZingDramaQueenOfSheeba · 31/05/2021 16:18

@PastMyBestBeforeDate

3 squares in purples & red on your behalf: done. I'll sew in all ends later. x

Woolly Hugs. Blankets for wonderful BOF's family, lovely Mumsnetters we need your help.
TheABC · 31/05/2021 16:53

Where do we send the finished squares? Could someone pm me the address?

Yiayoula · 31/05/2021 18:08

@SwedishEdith : I know it as Honeycomb Slip Stitch , but think it goes by a few different names . Very easy, all knit stitches, I can PM you the instructions if you’d like.

Book and Zing, amazing - the finished blankets will be something to behold !