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Woolly Hugs is a charity established by a group of Mumsnet users. They knit / crochet handmade blankets and other items for families experiencing difficult times.

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Woolly Hugs. Blankets for wonderful BOF's family, lovely Mumsnetters we need your help.

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KnottyAndPistey · 18/05/2021 19:07

We knew her time left with us was short, but the news of Bee/BOF’s death was still a terrible shock, we send so much love to her family and her many, many friends who love and will miss her greatly.

Reading everything we have, the thing which really strikes us is how much she was loved. As a significant presence on MN, she was a proper good egg, astute, kind and funny. So many benefitted from her incredible sense, passion and support. She ALWAYS knew what to say it seemed. This was replicated over on Facebook, for those in her amazing reading group, and of course to those who counted her as close friends in the real world. She gave of herself so freely. Touching the lives of so many, she was beautiful inside and out. I constantly felt in awe of her. We were lucky and went to her wedding, and this is how we will remember her, this glorious vibrant epic woman in absolute love. We just wish we’d known her better and for longer. Those who did, you were truly blessed.

However we knew her, we were the lucky ones

Cancer is such an evil indiscriminate bastard and it’s robbed the world again. We feel so sorry for her DH, her girls, her mum, those who knew and loved her best and for our site here which will be a poorer place without her popping up and getting stuck in. It’s all so wrong.

It is time to do something for her now, we want to really push ourselves here and make four blankets, so that each of her direct family can have a Woolly Hug with them and know how much we loved her. So for her DH, her two beautiful daughters and her mum.

We hope we can achieve this. We shall need crafters and donors of funds and wool, can you help us? We’d be so grateful. Thank you so much

So many ideas to think about. If you can please check this list out
Obviously Bees
Bee was a proud Liverpudlian, red through and through, a proud socialist
Her wonderful DH proposed to her in Venice
Roses are very important
Her DH is the most talented artist having painted Bee and for her over the years, maybe paintbrushes etc?
She adored William Morris and Liberty prints
She was a very talented quilter
She had King Charles’ cavalier dogs
She loved Greek food and tapas
The beach was really important to her and ice lollies which she always called lolly ices! We need a lolly ice!
She loved Sir Antony Gormley’s cast iron men located on Crosby Beach, Merseyside
She adored Marilyn Monroe, Hollywood glamour, red lipstick, make up and perfume.
She adored art nouveau, strong patterns
She had an allotment, which was such a happy place, loved flowers particularly irises/roses
She was a passionate prolific reader, Agatha Raisin, the Goldfinch ( her DH painted this for her, it is exquisite) and she loved history especially podcasts.
She loved Opal fruits sweets, pineapples and SHE LOVED WINE!
She was very into Line of Duty, so AC12, and towards the end of her life a priest blessed her with Ted’s famous line “Jesus, Mary, Joseph and the wee donkey,” which amused her no end
She loved Les Mis, musicals, The Life of Brian! Also the Chase with Bradley Walsh
She loved those cheesy Christmas films, cheesier the better
Initials - B, L, H, A and R.

We are so grateful to her friends for helping with this list, other may have different ideas.

If you are making a picture square, you might consider making four the same, we know this is a big ask, but then we can have a core of squares the same across the blankets. This has worked well in the past.

The colours
We are using her colours from her wedding day as our base palette
Plums/magenta/mulberry
Rich purples
Pinks
Blues

Then for accents and embellishments
Greens
Red, but one of these two please, Drops Merino Extra Fine 11 Red, or Jenny Watson Pure Merino DK WM6 ‘Ruby’ please
Oranges
Yellow, this one please.. Drops merino extra fine DK no 24 ‘light yellow’ can be bought here..
Cream, but please one of the following - Debbie Bliss Rialto DK 02 ecru, Jenny Watson Pure Merino DK WM4 cream, or Drops Merino 01 off white
Taupes
Brown

The Yarn we will be Using….
Debbie Bliss Rialto DK ( can only be bought from Love Crafts)
Drops Merino Extra Fine DK
Jenny Watson Pure Merino DK
Katia Merino 100% DK
King Cole Luxury Merino DK
Sublime Extra Fine Merino Wool DK Currently on sale on at Black Sheep Wools
Patons Merino Extrafine DK Currently on sale at Lady Sew and Sew Knits

Just from the brands listed please because we know they combine for wash and wear. If you still have any of our wools that have been discontinued - Artesano Superwash Merino DK, Debbie Bliss Cashmerino DK or James C. Brett Pure Merino DK in your stash, please do use them.

Our listed yarns are all easily available online, in addition to the above try Wool Warehouse and rkmwoolsdirect.

There does seem to be a supply issue for some of our yarns but hopefully folk will source enough. If you find another gem of an online shop please do share the link!

Important crafting info
Squares to be six inches, using 4mm needles or hook. Please knot off VERY carefully when finishing or changing colour and sew your ends in, thank you! No magic ring starts please. No blocking please, makes it much easier to join squares.

Simple or complex, made by beginner or expert, we genuinely welcome them all. It really is the love and thought that counts.

Last posting for this project is July 1st it will be to Teddington.

We still cannot quite take it in that we are making for Bee/BOF. Life has been so terribly cruel. Sad

Thank you so much wonderful people Thanks

There is nothing on this earth more to be prized than true friendship.
Thomas Aquinas

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BananaBoatFeet · 20/05/2021 21:20

I’d like to donate wool.

I post on the cancer thread under a different name and Bee was very kind to me. I’m shocked that after being away for a week I’ve come back to this news. I knew she was very ill but the suddenness of her passing has shocked me. It only seems like a few days ago that she replied to me on a thread and gave me some hope.

How do o donate pls?

RIP Bee and thank you for making it all seem less scary. ❤️

Taytotots · 21/05/2021 09:38

Have commissioned my mum to do some squares (you wouldn't thank me for mine Grin). I was on the cancer threads with her a while ago. So sorry to hear she died. Thinking of her family.

BookShark · 21/05/2021 12:45

I've just had a wool delivery courtesy of a donor in West Lothian, so many thanks - I'll do my best to turn it into something blanket-worthy.

EversoDelighted · 21/05/2021 17:20

I replied to pm but haven't posted here yet, I will crochet Flowers

KnottyAndPistey · 22/05/2021 08:29

Morning Brew

Thank you everyone. We are hoping that wool is either on the way from us (via Wool Warehouse or Love Crafts) or in the hands now of the woolly donors.

We have a wonderful group of generous folk who have sent funds. Back in a bit with their names so we can thank them all properly. But if you receive yarn via us, it is them we must thank. Please don’t forget to let us know. Wonderful to hear some has already arrived!

Think I need Brew number 2!

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Lilyofthevalleys · 22/05/2021 10:01

Morning!

I have made a start, aiming at 8 squares. I have decided BOF was great fun because I am enjoying these themes. Thankfully the phalic lolly has resolved with a stick!

Woolly Hugs. Blankets for wonderful BOF's family, lovely Mumsnetters we need your help.
Zhx3 · 22/05/2021 11:41

These are beautiful, Lily! Aspiring to crochet some roses - the Attic24 pattern doesn't look too scary Smile.

Lilyofthevalleys · 22/05/2021 11:47

I used the attic 24 pattern @Zhx3. It was easy to follow. Only proble I had was I read as American not UK stitches for the first one hence the bigger rose. I quite like the effect of different sizes though.

Lilyofthevalleys · 22/05/2021 11:47

*problem

KnottyAndPistey · 22/05/2021 12:29

@PineappleThings. You’ve got your pineapple!

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BlueEyeshadow · 22/05/2021 16:41

Is this OK? I'm worried that the second purple is too pale/not rich enough...

Woolly Hugs. Blankets for wonderful BOF's family, lovely Mumsnetters we need your help.
TheABC · 22/05/2021 20:24

First square complete.

Woolly Hugs. Blankets for wonderful BOF's family, lovely Mumsnetters we need your help.
LunaNorth · 22/05/2021 20:49

I’ve done my first but it looks a bit big!

EmpressWitchDoesntBurn · 23/05/2021 06:43

I’m moving house next weekend & going to get mine done after that.

KnottyAndPistey · 23/05/2021 11:59

Morning! Brew

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KnottyAndPistey · 23/05/2021 12:00

Woah. Look at the time. Only just morning!

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KnottyAndPistey · 23/05/2021 12:00

@BlueEyeshadow Sure it’s absolutely fine. Looks gorgeous. Thank you so much

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KnottyAndPistey · 23/05/2021 12:01

How big @LunaNorth?!

If it’s under 7 inches we can tame it Gin

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KnottyAndPistey · 23/05/2021 12:02

@TheABC that’s beautiful

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KnottyAndPistey · 23/05/2021 12:02

@EmpressWitchDoesntBurn Good luck with the move. Plenty of time after x

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EmpressWitchDoesntBurn · 23/05/2021 12:09

Thank you x

longtompot · 23/05/2021 12:48

I only discovered her when I read of her passing. She sounded an amazing woman. I found her on fb and saw the wonderful pictures her dh painted. There was so much love between them which was clear to me as a stranger. I would love to make some squares for each blanket, but don't have the yarn. If anyone is able to send me some, I would be most grateful.

LunaNorth · 23/05/2021 14:02

@KnottyAndPistey

How big *@LunaNorth*?!

If it’s under 7 inches we can tame it Gin

It measures six inches square, but when I look at the pics of the squares on here they seem much smaller than mine.

I cast on 33 stitches but ended up knitting about 60 rows Confused

TheABC · 23/05/2021 16:46

Thank you @KnottyAndPistey

KnottyAndPistey · 24/05/2021 10:02

Think of her today, her family and friends. It’s her funeral. Heartbreaking.

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