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Woolly Hugs is a charity established by a group of Mumsnet users. They knit / crochet handmade blankets and other items for families experiencing difficult times.

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Woolly Hugs. Blankets for wonderful BOF's family, lovely Mumsnetters we need your help.

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KnottyAndPistey · 18/05/2021 19:07

We knew her time left with us was short, but the news of Bee/BOF’s death was still a terrible shock, we send so much love to her family and her many, many friends who love and will miss her greatly.

Reading everything we have, the thing which really strikes us is how much she was loved. As a significant presence on MN, she was a proper good egg, astute, kind and funny. So many benefitted from her incredible sense, passion and support. She ALWAYS knew what to say it seemed. This was replicated over on Facebook, for those in her amazing reading group, and of course to those who counted her as close friends in the real world. She gave of herself so freely. Touching the lives of so many, she was beautiful inside and out. I constantly felt in awe of her. We were lucky and went to her wedding, and this is how we will remember her, this glorious vibrant epic woman in absolute love. We just wish we’d known her better and for longer. Those who did, you were truly blessed.

However we knew her, we were the lucky ones

Cancer is such an evil indiscriminate bastard and it’s robbed the world again. We feel so sorry for her DH, her girls, her mum, those who knew and loved her best and for our site here which will be a poorer place without her popping up and getting stuck in. It’s all so wrong.

It is time to do something for her now, we want to really push ourselves here and make four blankets, so that each of her direct family can have a Woolly Hug with them and know how much we loved her. So for her DH, her two beautiful daughters and her mum.

We hope we can achieve this. We shall need crafters and donors of funds and wool, can you help us? We’d be so grateful. Thank you so much

So many ideas to think about. If you can please check this list out
Obviously Bees
Bee was a proud Liverpudlian, red through and through, a proud socialist
Her wonderful DH proposed to her in Venice
Roses are very important
Her DH is the most talented artist having painted Bee and for her over the years, maybe paintbrushes etc?
She adored William Morris and Liberty prints
She was a very talented quilter
She had King Charles’ cavalier dogs
She loved Greek food and tapas
The beach was really important to her and ice lollies which she always called lolly ices! We need a lolly ice!
She loved Sir Antony Gormley’s cast iron men located on Crosby Beach, Merseyside
She adored Marilyn Monroe, Hollywood glamour, red lipstick, make up and perfume.
She adored art nouveau, strong patterns
She had an allotment, which was such a happy place, loved flowers particularly irises/roses
She was a passionate prolific reader, Agatha Raisin, the Goldfinch ( her DH painted this for her, it is exquisite) and she loved history especially podcasts.
She loved Opal fruits sweets, pineapples and SHE LOVED WINE!
She was very into Line of Duty, so AC12, and towards the end of her life a priest blessed her with Ted’s famous line “Jesus, Mary, Joseph and the wee donkey,” which amused her no end
She loved Les Mis, musicals, The Life of Brian! Also the Chase with Bradley Walsh
She loved those cheesy Christmas films, cheesier the better
Initials - B, L, H, A and R.

We are so grateful to her friends for helping with this list, other may have different ideas.

If you are making a picture square, you might consider making four the same, we know this is a big ask, but then we can have a core of squares the same across the blankets. This has worked well in the past.

The colours
We are using her colours from her wedding day as our base palette
Plums/magenta/mulberry
Rich purples
Pinks
Blues

Then for accents and embellishments
Greens
Red, but one of these two please, Drops Merino Extra Fine 11 Red, or Jenny Watson Pure Merino DK WM6 ‘Ruby’ please
Oranges
Yellow, this one please.. Drops merino extra fine DK no 24 ‘light yellow’ can be bought here..
Cream, but please one of the following - Debbie Bliss Rialto DK 02 ecru, Jenny Watson Pure Merino DK WM4 cream, or Drops Merino 01 off white
Taupes
Brown

The Yarn we will be Using….
Debbie Bliss Rialto DK ( can only be bought from Love Crafts)
Drops Merino Extra Fine DK
Jenny Watson Pure Merino DK
Katia Merino 100% DK
King Cole Luxury Merino DK
Sublime Extra Fine Merino Wool DK Currently on sale on at Black Sheep Wools
Patons Merino Extrafine DK Currently on sale at Lady Sew and Sew Knits

Just from the brands listed please because we know they combine for wash and wear. If you still have any of our wools that have been discontinued - Artesano Superwash Merino DK, Debbie Bliss Cashmerino DK or James C. Brett Pure Merino DK in your stash, please do use them.

Our listed yarns are all easily available online, in addition to the above try Wool Warehouse and rkmwoolsdirect.

There does seem to be a supply issue for some of our yarns but hopefully folk will source enough. If you find another gem of an online shop please do share the link!

Important crafting info
Squares to be six inches, using 4mm needles or hook. Please knot off VERY carefully when finishing or changing colour and sew your ends in, thank you! No magic ring starts please. No blocking please, makes it much easier to join squares.

Simple or complex, made by beginner or expert, we genuinely welcome them all. It really is the love and thought that counts.

Last posting for this project is July 1st it will be to Teddington.

We still cannot quite take it in that we are making for Bee/BOF. Life has been so terribly cruel. Sad

Thank you so much wonderful people Thanks

There is nothing on this earth more to be prized than true friendship.
Thomas Aquinas

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KnottyAndPistey · 06/07/2021 09:37

Hola! Absolutely BEAUTIFUL treasure, thank you so much everyone!

My quarantining family have gone now, so things a bit more organised here and I'll be catching up over the rest of the week, so do stand by.

Thank you so much everyone xxx

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ToadyPoady · 06/07/2021 10:07

These are on their way, made with much love Flowers

Woolly Hugs. Blankets for wonderful BOF's family, lovely Mumsnetters we need your help.
Woolly Hugs. Blankets for wonderful BOF's family, lovely Mumsnetters we need your help.
BoreOfWhabylon · 06/07/2021 12:05

Oh I love those bees @ToadyPoady !

All the squares are just so beautiful

EmpressWitchDoesntBurn · 06/07/2021 12:12

Those bees are fantastic.

longtompot · 06/07/2021 15:08

Here's my contribution. I have a bit of yarn left but not enough to make any more squares. Shall I send it with them to use to sew together?
Anyway, the pattern is called Northern Diamond which I thought apt from reading about BOF as she was a diamond and proud of her northern background.

Woolly Hugs. Blankets for wonderful BOF's family, lovely Mumsnetters we need your help.
BlackeyedSusan · 06/07/2021 16:47

love the bees and flowers and northern diamonds.

QOD · 06/07/2021 19:06

BOF! I had no idea Sad

SwedishEdith · 06/07/2021 19:29

These designs are so clever and lovely. I finally mastered granny squares last summer but seeing these means I need to learn more stitches.

KnottyAndPistey · 06/07/2021 21:04

@QOD

BOF! I had no idea Sad
@QOD I’m so sorry you found out like this xxx
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QOD · 06/07/2021 22:00

I’m sad I missed it, I’ve not been on here so much lately, work and boring life blah blah
It’s rubbish isn’t it, so many of the oldies gone
Hugs to you K & P - you’re so lovely x

SDTGisAnEvilWolefGenius · 06/07/2021 22:13

Have my squares arrived yet, @KnottyAndPistey? They went over a week ago, I think.

KnottyAndPistey · 06/07/2021 22:25

So much has arrived my lovely. I had my brother and nephew quarantining here which made it impossible to get on. But that is now past. I’m catching up here from tomorrow. Don’t fret xxx

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SDTGisAnEvilWolefGenius · 06/07/2021 22:59

Thank you Thanks!

KnottyAndPistey · 09/07/2021 14:15

Hola. Stand by Wine

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KnottyAndPistey · 09/07/2021 14:28

Such beautiful treasure arriving safely. Crafters you are awesome. Thank you Flowers

Flowers @ZingDramaQueenOfSheeba Beautiful patchwork quilt style squares. Glorious. Star

Flowers SM Stunning floral squares in such perfect pinks, purples and burgundy. Gorgeous Star

Flowers @FluffandBuzz Stunning crocheted treasure. Beautiful 3D flowers, gorgeous designs Star

Flowers DB such gorgeous solid grannies in a rich rose pink. Fantastic Star

Flowers @Okki Wonderful crochet. Glorious 3D flower, fantastic designs. Beautiful Star

Flowers @Zhx3 It’s like a meadow full of beautiful flowers! Gorgeous treasure. Star

Much more to come! Thank you so much again everyone xxx

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ZingDramaQueenOfSheeba · 09/07/2021 14:36

phew! so glad you've found them! xxx

KnottyAndPistey · 09/07/2021 14:44

More gorgeous treasure arriving safely. Absolutely gorgeous Flowers

Flowers @Run4it2 Beautiful knits in two rich dark pinks. Stunning. Lovely textures. Star

Flowers SR The whole set of initials for each blanket in burgundy and cream. Amazing Star

Flowers @Ginisatonic Beautiful textured, gorgeous knits in pinks, blues, purple. Wonderful Star

Flowers @BellaVita Wonderful red roses on pink solid grannies. Gorgeous Star

Flowers @ChazsBrilliantAttitude Beautiful crocheted treasure. Pineapples! And traditional grannies. Marvellous Star

Still much more to come. Thank you so much again everyone xxx

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KnottyAndPistey · 09/07/2021 15:21

More gorgeous treasure arriving safely. Thank you so much everyone Flowers

Flowers @Honeysucklelady Gorgeous crocheted treasure in pink and plum. Fabulous Star

Flowers @Redbrook Absolutely glorious. Dark pink roses for each blanket. Lovely Star

Flowers @JulesJules a beautiful basket with gorgeous flower embellishment. Just fantastic. And thank you for the choc too! Star

Flowers FH Beautiful in burgundy and blue. Super crocheted treasure Star

Flowers @Iwantacampervan Her beautiful heart knit, purple, pink and blue. Lovely Star

There is more to come! Bear with Flowers

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KnottyAndPistey · 09/07/2021 16:44

Armed with Brew I return. More treasure arriving safely. Absolutely gorgeous. Thank you so much Flowers

Flowers @DroitwichMummy Beautiful crocheted 3D flowers. Fabulous Star

Flowers @Lilyofthevalleys Stunning flowers and bees! Really beautiful. And a wonderful lolly ice and pineapple too! Star

Flowers @MNP Beautiful hearts, gorgeous grannies. Just fantastic Star

Flowers AP Such beautiful crocheted treasure, gorgeous flowers, beautiful C2C. Glorious colour mix Star

Flowers SH Solid grannies in pink and purple. Just perfect Star

Flowers @Mejon Such snuggly textures, beautiful knits in rich jewels, pink, teal, purple and silver. Fabulous Star

More to come, stand by Wine

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KnottyAndPistey · 09/07/2021 16:44

Apologies. SH up there is in fact SB

Flowers
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longtompot · 09/07/2021 17:16

I posted mine today so hope they'll be with you very soon Smile

KnottyAndPistey · 09/07/2021 18:31

Thank you so much!

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KnottyAndPistey · 09/07/2021 18:32

There are more squares. Please don’t fret if you haven’t seen yours yet. Flowers

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KnottyAndPistey · 09/07/2021 18:54

More beautiful treasure arriving safely. Thank you so much everyone Flowers

Flowers @ToadyPoady Oh! Such cheery bees and beautiful roses. Wonderful! Star

Flowers @EversoDelighted (I think!) Beautiful roses in pink or a rich magenta. Gorgeous Star

Flowers RH absolutely stunning 3D flowers in rich pink and purple. Glorious Star

Flowers @ElephantovertheHill. A beautiful knit, a stripe in purples. Lovely texture Star

Flowers @WitchDancer Truly beautiful crochet. Variations on a granny in gorgeous mulberry and deep rose. Smashing Star

Flowers @PastMyBestBeforeDate (via Zing) truly beautiful mixed colour grannies, purples with red accents. Gorgeous Star

Flowers KB absolutely gorgeous 3D roses. Beautifully crocheted. Pink on purple. Super Star

Flowers CN Stunning crochet designs in a rich deep purple. Just lovely! Star

Flowers @BewitchedBotheredandBewildered Beautiful knits, lovely baskets and garters. Beautiful in a rich red. Glorious Star

Thank you so much again everyone. There are still more!

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KnottyAndPistey · 09/07/2021 18:55

You know] I still can’t believe we are doing this because she is gone Sad

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