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Woolly Hugs is a charity established by a group of Mumsnet users. They knit / crochet handmade blankets and other items for families experiencing difficult times.

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Woolly Hugs. Blankets for wonderful BOF's family, lovely Mumsnetters we need your help.

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KnottyAndPistey · 18/05/2021 19:07

We knew her time left with us was short, but the news of Bee/BOF’s death was still a terrible shock, we send so much love to her family and her many, many friends who love and will miss her greatly.

Reading everything we have, the thing which really strikes us is how much she was loved. As a significant presence on MN, she was a proper good egg, astute, kind and funny. So many benefitted from her incredible sense, passion and support. She ALWAYS knew what to say it seemed. This was replicated over on Facebook, for those in her amazing reading group, and of course to those who counted her as close friends in the real world. She gave of herself so freely. Touching the lives of so many, she was beautiful inside and out. I constantly felt in awe of her. We were lucky and went to her wedding, and this is how we will remember her, this glorious vibrant epic woman in absolute love. We just wish we’d known her better and for longer. Those who did, you were truly blessed.

However we knew her, we were the lucky ones

Cancer is such an evil indiscriminate bastard and it’s robbed the world again. We feel so sorry for her DH, her girls, her mum, those who knew and loved her best and for our site here which will be a poorer place without her popping up and getting stuck in. It’s all so wrong.

It is time to do something for her now, we want to really push ourselves here and make four blankets, so that each of her direct family can have a Woolly Hug with them and know how much we loved her. So for her DH, her two beautiful daughters and her mum.

We hope we can achieve this. We shall need crafters and donors of funds and wool, can you help us? We’d be so grateful. Thank you so much

So many ideas to think about. If you can please check this list out
Obviously Bees
Bee was a proud Liverpudlian, red through and through, a proud socialist
Her wonderful DH proposed to her in Venice
Roses are very important
Her DH is the most talented artist having painted Bee and for her over the years, maybe paintbrushes etc?
She adored William Morris and Liberty prints
She was a very talented quilter
She had King Charles’ cavalier dogs
She loved Greek food and tapas
The beach was really important to her and ice lollies which she always called lolly ices! We need a lolly ice!
She loved Sir Antony Gormley’s cast iron men located on Crosby Beach, Merseyside
She adored Marilyn Monroe, Hollywood glamour, red lipstick, make up and perfume.
She adored art nouveau, strong patterns
She had an allotment, which was such a happy place, loved flowers particularly irises/roses
She was a passionate prolific reader, Agatha Raisin, the Goldfinch ( her DH painted this for her, it is exquisite) and she loved history especially podcasts.
She loved Opal fruits sweets, pineapples and SHE LOVED WINE!
She was very into Line of Duty, so AC12, and towards the end of her life a priest blessed her with Ted’s famous line “Jesus, Mary, Joseph and the wee donkey,” which amused her no end
She loved Les Mis, musicals, The Life of Brian! Also the Chase with Bradley Walsh
She loved those cheesy Christmas films, cheesier the better
Initials - B, L, H, A and R.

We are so grateful to her friends for helping with this list, other may have different ideas.

If you are making a picture square, you might consider making four the same, we know this is a big ask, but then we can have a core of squares the same across the blankets. This has worked well in the past.

The colours
We are using her colours from her wedding day as our base palette
Plums/magenta/mulberry
Rich purples
Pinks
Blues

Then for accents and embellishments
Greens
Red, but one of these two please, Drops Merino Extra Fine 11 Red, or Jenny Watson Pure Merino DK WM6 ‘Ruby’ please
Oranges
Yellow, this one please.. Drops merino extra fine DK no 24 ‘light yellow’ can be bought here..
Cream, but please one of the following - Debbie Bliss Rialto DK 02 ecru, Jenny Watson Pure Merino DK WM4 cream, or Drops Merino 01 off white
Taupes
Brown

The Yarn we will be Using….
Debbie Bliss Rialto DK ( can only be bought from Love Crafts)
Drops Merino Extra Fine DK
Jenny Watson Pure Merino DK
Katia Merino 100% DK
King Cole Luxury Merino DK
Sublime Extra Fine Merino Wool DK Currently on sale on at Black Sheep Wools
Patons Merino Extrafine DK Currently on sale at Lady Sew and Sew Knits

Just from the brands listed please because we know they combine for wash and wear. If you still have any of our wools that have been discontinued - Artesano Superwash Merino DK, Debbie Bliss Cashmerino DK or James C. Brett Pure Merino DK in your stash, please do use them.

Our listed yarns are all easily available online, in addition to the above try Wool Warehouse and rkmwoolsdirect.

There does seem to be a supply issue for some of our yarns but hopefully folk will source enough. If you find another gem of an online shop please do share the link!

Important crafting info
Squares to be six inches, using 4mm needles or hook. Please knot off VERY carefully when finishing or changing colour and sew your ends in, thank you! No magic ring starts please. No blocking please, makes it much easier to join squares.

Simple or complex, made by beginner or expert, we genuinely welcome them all. It really is the love and thought that counts.

Last posting for this project is July 1st it will be to Teddington.

We still cannot quite take it in that we are making for Bee/BOF. Life has been so terribly cruel. Sad

Thank you so much wonderful people Thanks

There is nothing on this earth more to be prized than true friendship.
Thomas Aquinas

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EmpressWitchDoesntBurn · 17/06/2021 13:33

Could you please pm me the address too, @bookbook?

KnottyAndPistey · 17/06/2021 15:35

Afternooooon!

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KnottyAndPistey · 17/06/2021 15:35

Is everyone ok for the address now?

Definitely a pineapple!

Beautiful squares Thanks

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KnottyAndPistey · 17/06/2021 15:37

We know that some folk have only just received their yarn, so think in fairness we need to extend the last posting date.

How does posting before the end of July sound?

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EmpressWitchDoesntBurn · 17/06/2021 15:40

Hello, can I have the address please?

WitchDancer · 17/06/2021 16:55

I'm ok with the original deadline Knotty, but only if the others are.

bookbook · 17/06/2021 17:08

@EmpressWitchDoesntBurn Sent you a pm 😊

EmpressWitchDoesntBurn · 17/06/2021 17:42

Thanks, @bookbook! @KnottyAndPistey, I'll drop them off with a note next week.

Trumpton · 18/06/2021 06:32

Yarn arrived. Beautiful pinks. Thank you to my donor. Whew for the revised posting date! But will try to get them to you earlier if I can.

SpiralArchitect · 18/06/2021 11:03

Posted these this morning - a pair of squares for each blanket, and as mulberry and pink as I could get them!

Much love to BOF's family Flowers

Woolly Hugs. Blankets for wonderful BOF's family, lovely Mumsnetters we need your help.
BlackeyedSusan · 18/06/2021 11:07

They are beautiful spiral.

Lilyofthevalleys · 18/06/2021 22:12

Those are stunning @SpiralArchitect really popping colours!

Lilyofthevalleys · 18/06/2021 22:15

These are my eight, if I get a chance I will add a couple more lolly ices.

Much love to all who knew and loved BOF xx

Lilyofthevalleys · 18/06/2021 22:16

And the picture!

Woolly Hugs. Blankets for wonderful BOF's family, lovely Mumsnetters we need your help.
EmpressWitchDoesntBurn · 19/06/2021 04:16

Those are fabulous, Lily.

SDTGisAnEvilWolefGenius · 19/06/2021 12:32

My squares for these blankets will go in the post today.

FluffandBuzz · 19/06/2021 13:45

The extension would give me a chance to top up on some white yarn for bee wings so yes please from me. So far they're wingless...

Definitely a pineapple @Bearfrills

I've got some roses, currently they're buckling a bit where I've gathered the petals in but I'm hoping you can work some magic in the construction @KnottyAndPistey ? I'll weave in the end before posting.

I'm also working on some patterns and I'll need to put the bees on those or the roses

Woolly Hugs. Blankets for wonderful BOF's family, lovely Mumsnetters we need your help.
FluffandBuzz · 19/06/2021 13:47

Really lovely to see all the woolly treasure Flowers

Lilyofthevalleys · 20/06/2021 20:38

Beautiful roses @FluffandBuzz

KnottyAndPistey · 22/06/2021 14:13

Coming with woolly treasure this afternoon! Stand by

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SunshineCake · 22/06/2021 14:19

This is such a wonderful thing that you are all doing. Is it possible that we can ever see the final product? They all sound so beautiful.

KnottyAndPistey · 22/06/2021 17:22

Absolutely yes to the final product. Always. Flowers

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KnottyAndPistey · 22/06/2021 17:48

Thank you so much lovely crafters. Treasure has been arriving and it’s truly beautiful Flowers

Flowers Athlestane Beautiful crocheted grannies. Absolutely gorgeous in pale pink. Star

Flowers @TheABC Gorgeous traditional grannies in blue and purple. Wonderful! Star

Flowers @ScienceRocks Beautiful textured knits. In rich deep purple. Fantastic Star

Flowers @Pauleen Duper crocheted treasure. Gorgeous 3D flowers, snd Ac12 embroidered ones too. Wonderful Star

Flowers MN a super mix of knits and crochet in lavender and blue. Beautiful Star

Flowers @Yiayoula in a beautiful deep pink and purple, her beautiful hearts and stars. Richly textured and super Star

Flowers LJ absolutely gorgeous. Beautiful granny hearts and fabulous mixed colours. Glorious Star

Flowers @MadisonAvenue truly stunning. Beautiful designs, including 3D flowers, C2C, stripe snd flower. In two deep shades of heathery pinks. Super Star

Flowers @bookbook These are so perfect. We asked if she’d knit 4 twelve inchers with ‘You’ll never walk alone’ on. And she has so beautifully. In Liverpool red on pale blue. Wonderful Star

Flowers LM four beautiful squares, identical with stunning 4D glowers in rich burgundy and blue. Fabulous Star

Thank you everyone. More coming!

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KnottyAndPistey · 22/06/2021 17:56

And still the treasure comes. Thank you so much again everyone. Truly wonderful Flowers

Flowers @Lambside Gorgeous crocheted treasure. Cream centres surrounded by the heather, burgundy and purple. Perfect. Star

Flowers @PiggyPlumPie Four beautiful traditional grannies in a glorious deep mulberry. Fantastic Star

Flowers @BlueEyeshadow It’s like a meadow full of flowers! Super beautiful in pinks, purples. Stunning crochet. Star

Back on a min. Being nagged for food!

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SunshineCake · 22/06/2021 18:09

@KnottyAndPistey

Absolutely yes to the final product. Always. Flowers
Lovely. Thank you.