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‘Woman’ missing in Southampton

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HannahinHampshire · 14/10/2026 00:34

Now I hope that this person is found safe and well - but this is not a woman! Why is Samantha being described as a woman? This helps no one, neither the person who is missing nor those searching for him.
https://www.dailyecho.co.uk/news/26633982.urgent-search-missing-woman-last-seen-southampton/

Urgent police search for missing woman last seen in Southampton

Officers are appealing for help to find a missing 38-year-old woman who was last seen in Southampton.

https://www.dailyecho.co.uk/news/26633982.urgent-search-missing-woman-last-seen-southampton/

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Canadanian · 20/10/2026 07:59

StealthTroublemaker · 20/10/2026 07:56

I am actually very happy in my life. Thankyou for your concern. I lobe my life, and working for women’s rights is just the cherry on top of a very delicious cake. 😘😘

You’re not working for women’s rights and you’re deluding yourself if you think you are. We both know that most violence, sexual assault etc against women is committed by cis men; redirecting your attention to a tiny minority group of trans women is cowardly and also just useless in terms of making women one bit safer. You’re a coward.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 20/10/2026 07:59

Canadanian · 20/10/2026 07:45

Why are you calling a missing woman a bloke?

Because this person is male, however much you want to dance around it. Not a woman.

Canadanian · 20/10/2026 08:01

Ereshkigalangcleg · 20/10/2026 07:59

Because this person is male, however much you want to dance around it. Not a woman.

As with @StealthTroublemaker , you are also a coward, and uninterested in doing the actual work that would make women safer.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 20/10/2026 08:04

You have no idea what work any of us do to make women safer. Keeping men out of women’s spaces definitely qualifies.

Theeyeballsinthesky · 20/10/2026 08:04

Canadanian · 20/10/2026 08:01

As with @StealthTroublemaker , you are also a coward, and uninterested in doing the actual work that would make women safer.

Keep going!! Every post makes TRAs look even more unhinged

you're doing great work for the TERFs

Canadanian · 20/10/2026 08:06

Ereshkigalangcleg · 20/10/2026 08:04

You have no idea what work any of us do to make women safer. Keeping men out of women’s spaces definitely qualifies.

You’ve spent hours defending people who described a missing woman’s breast a as tuberous and likened them to testicles. YOU are a danger to women.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 20/10/2026 08:08

Canadanian · 20/10/2026 08:06

You’ve spent hours defending people who described a missing woman’s breast a as tuberous and likened them to testicles. YOU are a danger to women.

Have I now. I think I simply said the onus for providing screenshots of this comment which the poster denied making was on you, not them? So you’re not being entirely truthful, there are you.

2021x · 20/10/2026 08:09

Was this person found?

nufe · 20/10/2026 08:10

Canadanian · 20/10/2026 07:47

So big and clever. You’re a bully. She’s a MISSING woman.

do you have the gift of eyesight? This is not a woman.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 20/10/2026 08:10

Theeyeballsinthesky · 20/10/2026 08:04

Keep going!! Every post makes TRAs look even more unhinged

you're doing great work for the TERFs

Operation Let Them Speak is better than any framing GC feminists could come up with.

Canadanian · 20/10/2026 08:12

Ereshkigalangcleg · 20/10/2026 08:08

Have I now. I think I simply said the onus for providing screenshots of this comment which the poster denied making was on you, not them? So you’re not being entirely truthful, there are you.

Many, many people saw. Including your pal back to lurk who admitted on another thread that the person you’re defending compared a missing women’s breasts to testicles. You got so obsessed with winning a fight against me you’ve taken the side of someone truly reprehensible. And that’s why you’re a danger to women.

drspouse · 20/10/2026 08:12

Nobody has asked whether describing Samantha as "of heavy build" will destroy Samantha's mental health.

Shedmistress · 20/10/2026 08:13

As I said earlier, there IS no missing woman and if the police had just told the actual truth this thread would not exist.

This is about the lies they tell, if people are really concerned about him, maybe go onto local social media and spread the word and share his details to enable more people to be aware that it is a man that is missing, along with his description so that he can be found quicker. Why you are wasting precious time berating people on here is a complete mystery.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 20/10/2026 08:15

Shedmistress · 20/10/2026 08:13

As I said earlier, there IS no missing woman and if the police had just told the actual truth this thread would not exist.

This is about the lies they tell, if people are really concerned about him, maybe go onto local social media and spread the word and share his details to enable more people to be aware that it is a man that is missing, along with his description so that he can be found quicker. Why you are wasting precious time berating people on here is a complete mystery.

Well quite.

DramaAndBullshit · 20/10/2026 08:15

CrossPurposes · 14/10/2026 22:41

Two things.

What is wrong with calling yourself a transwoman if that is how you identify? What is wrong with owning that fact instead of the pretence that you are a woman?

Then we get this ridiculous situation describing an obvious male as a woman when the use of the word transwoman would say it all.

Exactly.

But, like ‘third spaces’ these TiMs want us to say we don’t see the ‘trans’ part and pretend they are a real woman.

Canadanian · 20/10/2026 08:16

Ereshkigalangcleg · 20/10/2026 08:15

Well quite.

as opposed to eresh here, who has spent her time defending people’s right to describe a missing women’s breasts as tuberous or like testicles. Because she’s a feminist!

Ereshkigalangcleg · 20/10/2026 08:18

Canadanian · 20/10/2026 08:16

as opposed to eresh here, who has spent her time defending people’s right to describe a missing women’s breasts as tuberous or like testicles. Because she’s a feminist!

Edited

Please stop lying about what I said. At no point did I defend any comment about the man in question’s appearance.

DramaAndBullshit · 20/10/2026 08:19

Canadanian · 20/10/2026 07:59

You’re not working for women’s rights and you’re deluding yourself if you think you are. We both know that most violence, sexual assault etc against women is committed by cis men; redirecting your attention to a tiny minority group of trans women is cowardly and also just useless in terms of making women one bit safer. You’re a coward.

Not ‘cis’ men. Just men. We are all men or women. Not cis, this is the language of the TRAs, stick to just the biological reality.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 20/10/2026 08:19

Ereshkigalangcleg · 19/10/2026 22:22

Yes, I think the person making the claim should provide the screenshot, not the person saying they haven’t. Opposite world.

My “defending”

Canadanian · 20/10/2026 08:20

Ereshkigalangcleg · 20/10/2026 08:18

Please stop lying about what I said. At no point did I defend any comment about the man in question’s appearance.

You absolutely waded in to defend @Alucard55. I told you what she’s said. I told you that you were defending someone who had said something absolutely deplorable but you didn’t care.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 20/10/2026 08:21

Ereshkigalangcleg · 19/10/2026 22:31

I don’t know what they posted, mate. Just pointing out that the claimant is the one who provides the evidence, normally.

And the other post about it. Not really “defending”, is it?

Ereshkigalangcleg · 20/10/2026 08:22

Canadanian · 20/10/2026 08:20

You absolutely waded in to defend @Alucard55. I told you what she’s said. I told you that you were defending someone who had said something absolutely deplorable but you didn’t care.

But she didn’t say what you said, according to her and at least one other poster.

BezMark · 20/10/2026 08:23

Unless someone explicitly tells you they have a special gender, it's vair rude to assume.

it's a bit like being vegan or doing cold-water swimming, they'll tell you

Ereshkigalangcleg · 20/10/2026 08:23

You can’t say that I defended her right to make a comment when all I actually said was that the onus was on you to back up your accusations.

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