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‘Woman’ missing in Southampton

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HannahinHampshire · 14/10/2026 00:34

Now I hope that this person is found safe and well - but this is not a woman! Why is Samantha being described as a woman? This helps no one, neither the person who is missing nor those searching for him.
https://www.dailyecho.co.uk/news/26633982.urgent-search-missing-woman-last-seen-southampton/

Urgent police search for missing woman last seen in Southampton

Officers are appealing for help to find a missing 38-year-old woman who was last seen in Southampton.

https://www.dailyecho.co.uk/news/26633982.urgent-search-missing-woman-last-seen-southampton/

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Alucard55 · 19/10/2026 22:57

Canadanian · 19/10/2026 22:55

You seem a bit too ashamed to repeat it?

Again, I do not care my real name is not Dracula backwards.

Alucard55 · 19/10/2026 22:58

Myalternate · 19/10/2026 22:56

Canadanian….

You’re being very childish. Shut your phone off and get to bed.

Good idea. 😴

Canadanian · 19/10/2026 22:58

Alucard55 · 19/10/2026 22:57

Again, I do not care my real name is not Dracula backwards.

You seem to care

Canadanian · 19/10/2026 23:01

Myalternate · 19/10/2026 22:56

Canadanian….

You’re being very childish. Shut your phone off and get to bed.

I hope to be so relentlessly childish @mumsnet does the right thing and deletes the whole horrible thread.

MyLifeHasChanged · 19/10/2026 23:03

HannahinHampshire · 14/10/2026 00:34

Now I hope that this person is found safe and well - but this is not a woman! Why is Samantha being described as a woman? This helps no one, neither the person who is missing nor those searching for him.
https://www.dailyecho.co.uk/news/26633982.urgent-search-missing-woman-last-seen-southampton/

🤣🤣 I genuinely thought this was a woman missing post and then I saw the picture 😆

Alucard55 · 19/10/2026 23:06

MyLifeHasChanged · 19/10/2026 23:03

🤣🤣 I genuinely thought this was a woman missing post and then I saw the picture 😆

Wait for it!

MyLifeHasChanged · 19/10/2026 23:08

alcovecupboards · 14/10/2026 12:42

There's a picture - it won't hamper it at all. And calling her a 'bloke in a dress' is being judgmental. If you wish to that awful - just own it.

But he is a man in a dress?

Manyanamanyana · 19/10/2026 23:10

alcovecupboards · 14/10/2026 17:42

It must be awful to go through life in a way that leads you to think like this.

You mean like facing reality? Yeah, can be hard, reality can be brutal, especially for women. But as they say... "the truth will set you free (but first it will miss you off)"

DrBlackbird · 19/10/2026 23:10

I know that it’s possible to ‘hide’ threads. I wish that it was possible to hide selected posters. That would greatly facilitate the readability and flow of certain threads. Perhaps MN could work on that? 🤔

MyLifeHasChanged · 19/10/2026 23:15

Alucard55 · 19/10/2026 22:51

So we are clear I did not ask if Samantha had tuberous breasts now?

Wtf are tuberous breasts?! 🤣🤣 it's all im seeing on the thread and im literally lost 😆 anyway, sam'antha' is a man in crisis we must all agree on that 😊

lcakethereforeIam · 19/10/2026 23:18

Obviously the nitty gritty of this thread is not concern about the safety of a missing man. Nope. It's the opportunity to use it to cast aspersions on other users of this board.

I, for one, do not care what anyone's breasts might smell like. It's really not that important.

maudelovesharold · 19/10/2026 23:25

alcovecupboards · 14/10/2026 12:41

This is a missing person. She is described as a woman - and there's a picture. It doesn't matter for crying out loud. This is as bad as those who decided to harass an account for featuring a trans woman who had been murdered because she 'wasn't a woman'. Only she wasn't trans - she just didn't perform femininity enough for the rabid transphobes. The only thing that matters here is that this trans woman is found - not you lot policing language to hamper that.

The only thing that matters here is that this trans woman is found - not you lot policing language to hamper that.

The inaccurate use of language will be hampering the search, if anything is. A six foot burly person with stubble is not who people will be looking for, if the descriptor is ‘woman’.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 19/10/2026 23:42

maudelovesharold · 19/10/2026 23:25

The only thing that matters here is that this trans woman is found - not you lot policing language to hamper that.

The inaccurate use of language will be hampering the search, if anything is. A six foot burly person with stubble is not who people will be looking for, if the descriptor is ‘woman’.

Comments on Facebook etc are feral and obviously people were going to royally rip the piss out of the police about it.

StealthTroublemaker · 20/10/2026 05:22

MyLifeHasChanged · 19/10/2026 23:15

Wtf are tuberous breasts?! 🤣🤣 it's all im seeing on the thread and im literally lost 😆 anyway, sam'antha' is a man in crisis we must all agree on that 😊

It is breasts that TIM grow on hormones. Because they are artificially grown, grow rapidly in a lot of cases and makes don’t have the muscle and skin structure to support them, they do not grow in the same shape as women’s breasts but are usually rather longer and flatter.

TheywontletmehavethenameIwant · 20/10/2026 06:07

A thread full of perpetual aggrieved kidolts, how nice for us all.
Has the bloke been found yet?

Canadanian · 20/10/2026 07:45

TheywontletmehavethenameIwant · 20/10/2026 06:07

A thread full of perpetual aggrieved kidolts, how nice for us all.
Has the bloke been found yet?

Why are you calling a missing woman a bloke?

Canadanian · 20/10/2026 07:45

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StealthTroublemaker · 20/10/2026 07:46

Canadanian · 20/10/2026 07:45

Why are you calling a missing woman a bloke?

Because it is a man. A colloquialism for a mn in the UK is bloke….

Canadanian · 20/10/2026 07:47

StealthTroublemaker · 20/10/2026 07:46

Because it is a man. A colloquialism for a mn in the UK is bloke….

So big and clever. You’re a bully. She’s a MISSING woman.

Glisteningfields · 20/10/2026 07:48

I hope Samantha is found safe and well very soon. After that, it would be good to understand from the Police’s point of view why their notices were as they were. They must think their notices are as clear and correct as they can be to achieve their objective of finding Samantha. I hope they will provide more insight as the reaction their notices has elicited is awful.

Surely clarity, accuracy, and language matter, and anyone who is worried about a missing person would expect no less than this to give as much chance of safely finding the missing person as possible.

Theeyeballsinthesky · 20/10/2026 07:51

Canadanian · 20/10/2026 07:47

So big and clever. You’re a bully. She’s a MISSING woman.

keep going deep cover TERF double agent!!!

we admire your commitment to the TERF cause.

obviously absolutely no one not even you really thinks that's a woman so we have to assume that your constant repetitious comments of "she's a woman" and "you're all bullies" are purely there to highlight the absurdity of it all

StealthTroublemaker · 20/10/2026 07:51

Canadanian · 20/10/2026 07:47

So big and clever. You’re a bully. She’s a MISSING woman.

Oh nooooo. A random on the Internet disapproves of me telling the truth! How shall I cope?

Canadanian · 20/10/2026 07:53

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StealthTroublemaker · 20/10/2026 07:56

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I am actually very happy in my life. Thankyou for your concern. I lobe my life, and working for women’s rights is just the cherry on top of a very delicious cake. 😘😘

Canadanian · 20/10/2026 07:56

DrBlackbird · 19/10/2026 23:10

I know that it’s possible to ‘hide’ threads. I wish that it was possible to hide selected posters. That would greatly facilitate the readability and flow of certain threads. Perhaps MN could work on that? 🤔

Oh I’m sorry you’re not having a better reading experience of all the anti-trans hatred you could be enjoying.