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Who gets ovarian cancer?

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JellySaurus · 19/08/2026 11:15

A 19 yo woman goes to the doctor with classic symptoms of ovarian cysts or cancer and is fobbed off with classic medical misogyny of periods are painful and her symptoms are due to anxiety. Result: life-changing consequences that only a woman can experience.

Enlli Thompson seems to have amazing positivity,despite what has happened to her, and I hope she goes on to live a fulfilling and healthy life.

Then the interview with a Gp who claims to always pay attention to these symptoms. This attentive GP refers only to 'people' with ovarian cancer, as does Cancer Research UK.

49% of PEOPLE are at no risk whatsoever of ovarian cancer. 49% of PEOPLE are never going to have their possible cancer symptoms dismissed as period pains.

WOMEN. Only women get ovarian cancer. Only women have their symptoms dismissed as 'normal' period pains. Only women have severly or increasingly painful periods dismissed as 'normal'. Only women get thrown into menopause by medical treatment. Only women have to live with the extreme consequences of premature aging as a result.

Not just medical misogyny but also medical dishonesty.

BBC News - Ovarian cancer and menopause at 19 mean I can't have kids, but it's changed me for the better
https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/cy9wn7w4982o

Enlli Thompson posing for a selfie in a mirror. She is pouting and looking at the camera, with her phone in her right hand. She has a shaven head and is wearing a black dress with a white floral pattern.

Caernarfon teen's ovarian cancer put her in menopause overnight

Enlli Thompson's symptoms were dismissed until a scan revealed a cyst in her pelvis.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/cy9wn7w4982o

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JellySaurus · 21/08/2026 15:10

On this thread a male doctor does not consider dismissing symptoms as ‘periods’ or ‘anxiety’ to be medical misogyny. Sure, ovarian cover is incredibly rare in young women - but that’s not the point. The point is that her symptoms were dismissed as just something that happens to women, not worthy of further investigation.

A TRA points out that a trans-identifying female patient was treated with dignity regardless of her gender identity. How does that translate to all women should be erased because some prefer not to be referred to as women?

Then, when the female patient is treated with the same fertility preservation protocol (or women’s health preservation protocol) as other women, the TRA claims that this is transphobia.

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BackToLurk · 21/08/2026 15:19

JellySaurus · 21/08/2026 15:10

On this thread a male doctor does not consider dismissing symptoms as ‘periods’ or ‘anxiety’ to be medical misogyny. Sure, ovarian cover is incredibly rare in young women - but that’s not the point. The point is that her symptoms were dismissed as just something that happens to women, not worthy of further investigation.

A TRA points out that a trans-identifying female patient was treated with dignity regardless of her gender identity. How does that translate to all women should be erased because some prefer not to be referred to as women?

Then, when the female patient is treated with the same fertility preservation protocol (or women’s health preservation protocol) as other women, the TRA claims that this is transphobia.

Then, when the female patient is treated with the same fertility preservation protocol (or women’s health preservation protocol) as other women, the TRA claims that this is transphobia.

A glaring example of 'everything is transphobia' . That poster initially said "He was also subjected to medical misogyny in how his [sic] fertility was considered more important than making sure all the cancer was gone" but then added "Its really obvious they refused to do the hysterectomy because he [sic] was trans and they decided he [he] wanted it for gender care reasons."

As you say, the original conclusion that this was medical misogyny in the sense of possibly being prepared to risk recovery in an attempt to preserve female fertility may well be valid, but this is nothing to do with trans status. Indeed, there are many women who will be able to tell of their, or friends', experience of being refused elective sterilisation in their twenties or thirties (too young) by the same medical establishment that seems much more cavalier about limiting or eliminating the fertility of patients who claim a trans identity.

MrPrettyDamnCosmic · 21/08/2026 15:36

JellySaurus · 21/08/2026 15:10

On this thread a male doctor does not consider dismissing symptoms as ‘periods’ or ‘anxiety’ to be medical misogyny. Sure, ovarian cover is incredibly rare in young women - but that’s not the point. The point is that her symptoms were dismissed as just something that happens to women, not worthy of further investigation.

A TRA points out that a trans-identifying female patient was treated with dignity regardless of her gender identity. How does that translate to all women should be erased because some prefer not to be referred to as women?

Then, when the female patient is treated with the same fertility preservation protocol (or women’s health preservation protocol) as other women, the TRA claims that this is transphobia.

On this thread a male doctor does not consider dismissing symptoms as ‘periods’ or ‘anxiety’ to be medical misogyny. Sure, ovarian cover is incredibly rare in young women - but that’s not the point. The point is that her symptoms were dismissed as just something that happens to women, not worthy of further investigation.

As the male doctor you are referring to I think that you are misrepresenting what I wrote & what happened in this particular case.

Ovarian cancer is incredibly rare in a 19 year old. The old saw in medicine is that common things are commonest. You need to rule out all the common diseases that fit with symptoms before thinking of less common diseases. Medical students are notorious for blurting out obscure diagnosis because they have just read about it in a textbook.

The patient in this case was correctly managed. She had the appropriate investigations that came to the correct diagnosis followed by the correct treatment. Immediately sending every 19 year old female with abdominal pain for a scan is not a suitable use of resources. It's unfortunate that the cancer wasn't picked up until it had spread locally but unless infinite resources are poured into the NHS we will never be able to practise perfect medicine.

borntobequiet · 21/08/2026 16:06

Babyboomtastic · 20/08/2026 18:16

Did anyone else notice this from @TransParentlyAnnoyed

"Men who have no sexual attraction to women are misogynists."

I thought TransP simply made a mistake there, and meant to write:

“Men who have no sexual attraction to women can be misogynists." as a counter to the controlling reproduction argument. Not that it’s a particularly good one.

MildlyMoist · 21/08/2026 16:12

TransParentlyAnnoyed · 20/08/2026 03:33

This hostility to trans men and nb people is exactly why some don't access critical gynae services when they need to.

It's why they ignore the pain and hope for the best, fearing how they will be treated by HCPs.

Inclusive language on healthcare messaging is critical for encouraging them to attend screening, get early symptoms checked out and avoid the worst outcomes.

I am related to a trans man who had ovarian cancer (not my son, who is also trans). The cancer was massive, had spread, and he nearly died. He was a teenager at the time, and not one HCP cared how he identified. They treated him with dignity and respect - as should be the due of every person who needs help.

He was also subjected to medical misogyny in how his fertility was considered more important than making sure all the cancer was gone. They were wrong, and had to reopen his (huge) scar only a few months later to do a the full hysterectomy they had refused him the first time.

Its really obvious they refused to do the hysterectomy because he was trans and they decided he wanted it for gender care reasons. They took the decision his fertility mattered more, despite his (correct) fear that the partial procedure they decided on put him at high risk of cancer recurrence.

It is medical misogny which we need to be fighting. The idea that our fertility is more important than our pain is something so many women have experienced. And guess what, trans guys do too.

That is our enemy. That is what we need to fight.

I am not a trans man and I was refused a hysterectomy at 45 because I might still want children, despite my never having them and being absolutely clear I didn’t want them.

This is medical misogyny and applies to all women however they identify. The refusal of the procedure for a young woman was no different from their refusal of mine - the trans element is irrelevant.

ZoeyBartlett · 21/08/2026 16:22

the UK charities also talk about “people” with ovarian cancer. Drives me mad but I’m too busy having ovarian cancer to do much about it.

TransParentlyAnnoyed · 22/08/2026 00:38

MildlyMoist · 21/08/2026 16:12

I am not a trans man and I was refused a hysterectomy at 45 because I might still want children, despite my never having them and being absolutely clear I didn’t want them.

This is medical misogyny and applies to all women however they identify. The refusal of the procedure for a young woman was no different from their refusal of mine - the trans element is irrelevant.

Edited

Yes, that's my point.

Fertility is prized above our wishes, and that applied to everyone born with a womb. He made it clear he didn't want children, so did you, and you were both dismissed as not knowing your own minds.

I'm so sorry that happened to you. No HCP should have had that power, it must have been profoundly traumatising.

BackToLurk · 22/08/2026 08:33

TransParentlyAnnoyed · 22/08/2026 00:38

Yes, that's my point.

Fertility is prized above our wishes, and that applied to everyone born with a womb. He made it clear he didn't want children, so did you, and you were both dismissed as not knowing your own minds.

I'm so sorry that happened to you. No HCP should have had that power, it must have been profoundly traumatising.

Because ‘he’ is a woman not because ‘he’ is trans. As mentioned before, the medical establishment seems to have historically been far less concerned about damaging the fertility of women and girls if they claim a trans identity.

6ate9 · 22/08/2026 08:46

@TransParentlyAnnoyed “everyone born with a womb”

ONLY girls are born with a womb. They, in turn, grew inside their mother’s womb.

JellySaurus · 22/08/2026 09:00

ZoeyBartlett · 21/08/2026 16:22

the UK charities also talk about “people” with ovarian cancer. Drives me mad but I’m too busy having ovarian cancer to do much about it.

💐
As we so often say on this forum, women are not service humans. It’s not your job to sort out this idiocy.

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JellySaurus · 22/08/2026 09:03

borntobequiet · 21/08/2026 16:06

I thought TransP simply made a mistake there, and meant to write:

“Men who have no sexual attraction to women can be misogynists." as a counter to the controlling reproduction argument. Not that it’s a particularly good one.

Have they attempted to clarify?

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BunkBedsArePeopleShelves · 22/08/2026 09:07

Misogyny unites all of us... especially the men

Fuck me,how hard do you have to work to convince yourself of this bullshit? The cognitive dissonance must cause constant headaches

chirrupybird · 22/08/2026 09:11

Women are people, I don't see anything wrong in calling women people or calling men people. Do we have to get worked up about such trivial things?

6ate9 · 22/08/2026 09:21

chirrupybird · 22/08/2026 09:11

Women are people, I don't see anything wrong in calling women people or calling men people. Do we have to get worked up about such trivial things?

Only WOMEN get ovarian cancer.

Only WOMEN menstruate

Only WOMEN get pregnant and give birth

NOT people!!

JellySaurus · 22/08/2026 09:35

chirrupybird · 22/08/2026 09:11

Women are people, I don't see anything wrong in calling women people or calling men people. Do we have to get worked up about such trivial things?

Language matters. If you’re referring to something that affects everybody, regardless of sex, then it’s fine to use ‘people’. But for sex-specific issues it is important to specify the sex: women or men.

A few years ago dh showed me a BBC article about prostate cancer. He was concerned for me, as I had several of the symptoms. Dh is a highly intelligent man with a PhD in a science subject. But he did not know that the prostate is a sex-specific organ, that only men can have a prostate, that the article was about him, not me. The article did not mention ‘men’ or ‘male’ anywhere.

Language matters.

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borntobequiet · 22/08/2026 09:37

JellySaurus · 22/08/2026 09:03

Have they attempted to clarify?

No, I was just giving my interpretation. I normally have no time for their nonsense, but this was so daft I thought it a mistake.

Babyboomtastic · 22/08/2026 10:16

borntobequiet · 22/08/2026 09:37

No, I was just giving my interpretation. I normally have no time for their nonsense, but this was so daft I thought it a mistake.

I think given that it's been picked up on and they've been back to respond to other stuff but not that, I suspect we've already got the answer to this.

Plenty of opportunity to correct it, not taken.

Minasama · 22/08/2026 10:19

TransParentlyAnnoyed · 20/08/2026 03:33

This hostility to trans men and nb people is exactly why some don't access critical gynae services when they need to.

It's why they ignore the pain and hope for the best, fearing how they will be treated by HCPs.

Inclusive language on healthcare messaging is critical for encouraging them to attend screening, get early symptoms checked out and avoid the worst outcomes.

I am related to a trans man who had ovarian cancer (not my son, who is also trans). The cancer was massive, had spread, and he nearly died. He was a teenager at the time, and not one HCP cared how he identified. They treated him with dignity and respect - as should be the due of every person who needs help.

He was also subjected to medical misogyny in how his fertility was considered more important than making sure all the cancer was gone. They were wrong, and had to reopen his (huge) scar only a few months later to do a the full hysterectomy they had refused him the first time.

Its really obvious they refused to do the hysterectomy because he was trans and they decided he wanted it for gender care reasons. They took the decision his fertility mattered more, despite his (correct) fear that the partial procedure they decided on put him at high risk of cancer recurrence.

It is medical misogny which we need to be fighting. The idea that our fertility is more important than our pain is something so many women have experienced. And guess what, trans guys do too.

That is our enemy. That is what we need to fight.

I am sorry to hear of this.
Please can you tell us how this worked - is this a trans person who was born with both sets of genitalia or someone born a woman who was transitioning to a man? Forgive my ignorance, this is a genuine question.

hahabahbag · 22/08/2026 10:20

The bbc article mentions 120 young women a year - it was the quoted dr who used people

SignsAbove · 22/08/2026 10:56

MrPrettyDamnCosmic · 21/08/2026 15:36

On this thread a male doctor does not consider dismissing symptoms as ‘periods’ or ‘anxiety’ to be medical misogyny. Sure, ovarian cover is incredibly rare in young women - but that’s not the point. The point is that her symptoms were dismissed as just something that happens to women, not worthy of further investigation.

As the male doctor you are referring to I think that you are misrepresenting what I wrote & what happened in this particular case.

Ovarian cancer is incredibly rare in a 19 year old. The old saw in medicine is that common things are commonest. You need to rule out all the common diseases that fit with symptoms before thinking of less common diseases. Medical students are notorious for blurting out obscure diagnosis because they have just read about it in a textbook.

The patient in this case was correctly managed. She had the appropriate investigations that came to the correct diagnosis followed by the correct treatment. Immediately sending every 19 year old female with abdominal pain for a scan is not a suitable use of resources. It's unfortunate that the cancer wasn't picked up until it had spread locally but unless infinite resources are poured into the NHS we will never be able to practise perfect medicine.

Immediately sending every 19 year old female with abdominal pain for a scan is not a suitable use of resources. It's unfortunate that the cancer wasn't picked up until it had spread locally but unless infinite resources are poured into the NHS we will never be able to practise perfect medicine.

You are totally missing the point. Nobody on here is saying this 19 year old female was not appropriately managed. Ovarian cancer is rare in this age group in women - agreed. It is also a damn site rarer in any age group of males. You make this point yourself by referring to females with abdo pain.

ButlerianJihadNow · 22/08/2026 11:52

TransParentlyAnnoyed · 20/08/2026 06:37

I'd say it was a matter of context and language (people are pregnant rather than have a prostate). And as I pointed out, inclusive language is used for trans women & nb people who have a prostate (e.g. "anyone who has a prostate" is often used).

But if you're determined to be nasty about my kid there's probably no point. Trans men exist, and language evolving to accommodate their increasing visibility is an just inevitable.

I'm sure you've encountered the argument before that inclusive language in general healthcare messaging risks excluding several categories of vulnerable people including non-native English speakers and people with cognitive disabilities. Do you disagree? How do you square it with the NHS's own emphasis on the importance of plain language in healthcare?

https://www.theguardian.com/australia-news/2026/mar/19/gia-lam-died-chilbirth-uti-hospital-preventable-death

Doctors missed Gia’s UTI after childbirth. The Vietnamese Australian woman’s death was preventable, coroner finds

Gia Lam should have been offered interpreter by medical team at Fairfield hospital, coroner’s court finds

https://www.theguardian.com/australia-news/2026/mar/19/gia-lam-died-chilbirth-uti-hospital-preventable-death

ButlerianJihadNow · 22/08/2026 12:07

hahabahbag · 22/08/2026 10:20

The bbc article mentions 120 young women a year - it was the quoted dr who used people

How does that work out as a) a % of the general population and b) a % of the share of the population with ovaries? If the % risk to one group is double, shouldn't we be targeting that group with health messaging tailored to their needs?

MrPrettyDamnCosmic · 22/08/2026 16:04

SignsAbove · 22/08/2026 10:56

Immediately sending every 19 year old female with abdominal pain for a scan is not a suitable use of resources. It's unfortunate that the cancer wasn't picked up until it had spread locally but unless infinite resources are poured into the NHS we will never be able to practise perfect medicine.

You are totally missing the point. Nobody on here is saying this 19 year old female was not appropriately managed. Ovarian cancer is rare in this age group in women - agreed. It is also a damn site rarer in any age group of males. You make this point yourself by referring to females with abdo pain.

You are missing the point. The OP literally claims this poor girl was badly managed. Here are the first two sentences.

A 19 yo woman goes to the doctor with classic symptoms of ovarian cysts or cancer and is fobbed off with classic medical misogyny of periods are painful and her symptoms are due to anxiety. Result: life-changing consequences that only a woman can experience.

The patient herself doesn't claim she was badly managed. This is an uplifting story of a young woman correctly diagnosed & treated for a fantastically rare cancer doing well.

MrPrettyDamnCosmic · 22/08/2026 16:09

ButlerianJihadNow · 22/08/2026 12:07

How does that work out as a) a % of the general population and b) a % of the share of the population with ovaries? If the % risk to one group is double, shouldn't we be targeting that group with health messaging tailored to their needs?

Of the 3.85 million young women aged 15 to 24 in the UK about 120 will be diagnosed with ovarian cancer every year.

ButlerianJihadNow · 22/08/2026 16:41

Twice the chance of the equivalent population of people of the same age.