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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Heartstopper Forever film TRA propaganda: "People don't want me using public bathrooms", "Government is taking away my rights"

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HelenaRavenclaw · 18/07/2026 06:42

The final instalment of Netflix's Heartstopper is here, and it's a film. The TRA propaganda is hardly unsurprising given that it's written by Alice Oseman the arch-TRA...but it's disgusting how these people are using a teen film to twist the truth and sensationalize things to get pity from the masses. "People don't want [trans people] to use public bathrooms": how convenient indeed to leave out the "intended for the opposite sex"! (Like saying "People don't want me to use money", leaving out the "stolen from others" part.) "Government is taking away my rights": what rights don't trans people have? (Does being poor give someone the right to simply grab other people's money without their consent? Doesn't the fact that laws exist and are enforced in society mean that the government is taking away rights from everyone, such as the right to break into one's neighbour's house, or the right to take home things from a store without paying?)

I hope that every sane adult whose children watch this film (and previous seasons of the show) will sit down with the kids and explain how deliberately deceptive and illogical the TRA propaganda is.

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Okiedokie123 · 19/07/2026 15:42

@OneUniquePearlFish “Asexuality faces systemic erasure, medical pathologization, and corrective violence”
Golly! Examples please…….

OneUniquePearlFish · 19/07/2026 15:53

Okiedokie123 · 19/07/2026 15:42

@OneUniquePearlFish “Asexuality faces systemic erasure, medical pathologization, and corrective violence”
Golly! Examples please…….

Gladly. And no, none of this comes from Tumblr.

  • Medical pathologization: Take a look at the World Health Organization's International Classification of Diseases (ICD) and NHS practices. For years, asexuality was treated as a medical disorder under diagnoses like Hypoactive Sexual Desire Disorder. Although the ICD-11, which came into effect in 2022, now makes it clear that asexuality is a sexual orientation rather than a medical condition, clinical practice hasn't fully caught up. The Stonewall Ace in the UK report found that many asexual people still have their identity questioned by NHS professionals, who often assume it's a mental health issue or the result of trauma.

  • Systemic erasure: The UK Government's National LGBT Survey (2018) found that asexual respondents reported the lowest average life satisfaction of any LGBT group (5.9 out of 10), and 89% said they avoided being open about their identity because they feared negative reactions. On top of that, the Equality Act 2010 doesn't explicitly include asexuality as a protected sexual orientation, since its definition is based on attraction to a particular sex. That leaves asexual people without clear statutory protection against discrimination based specifically on their orientation.

  • Corrective violence: Research from King's College London, published in 2025 in collaboration with activist Yasmin Benoit, found that 31% of the public believe asexuality is something that can be "cured" through therapy. The widespread belief that asexual people are "broken" or just "haven't met the right person yet" contributes to experiences such as conversion efforts, corrective abuse, and sexual violence intended to "fix" them.

As for your "Golly! Examples please" comment, it illustrates exactly the kind of dismissive attitude I'm talking about. Instead of engaging with the evidence, you're mocking the idea that these experiences exist because they don't fit your view of what discrimination looks like. It's ironic to see people argue that they're deeply concerned with marginalization while simultaneously dismissing or gatekeeping someone else's experiences. That kind of reaction only reinforces the point that this has become an echo chamber where some identities are treated as legitimate and others
aren't.

ElenOfTheWays · 19/07/2026 22:14

Whisperingwaters · 18/07/2026 06:50

Deceptive & illogical propaganda is indeed.

It's not illegal yet for trans people to use their preferred toilet. It's only possibly illegal for service providers to allow them which won't even be known for certain until case law clarifies this. If you have a single-sex space a trans person can still go into that single-sex space, but if someone complains, they can bring out a sex discrimination claim or the organisation can exclude that person, but that doesn’t happen automatically. Even if you do have a single-sex space, the exclusion must be proportionate, which means that the rights of whoever wants to be in a single-sex space, if they’re complaining, have to be counterbalanced against the rights of a trans person. Those rights still exist. The law hasn’t changed on that.

Do you think if you post this pish on enough threads eventually no one will bother to call it out?

Never gonna happen. Wink

ElenOfTheWays · 19/07/2026 22:16

Igmum · 18/07/2026 08:41

Thank you Monster and FFS Heartstopper. No wonder it’s bad if it just spews out propaganda. I honestly think that the first creative team to tell the story of what really happens with children and young people - the grooming online (cracking an egg), the conversion of LGB, the pressure on young lesbians to have sex with men to validate those men, the lies doctors tell about pause buttons and suicide risk, the many side effects, the cult, the breakdowns caused by so forcibly pushing lies, the detransitioning and the desistance - will have a blockbuster on their hands. There are so many harrowing and dramatic stories here (real people I know). Instead the fourth raters simply repeat the same storyline (I’m sad, I became myself, someone bullied me, my friends stepped in, I’m happy).

I'd watch it. The movie/documentary about the reality of it I mean obviously.

MarieDeGournay · 19/07/2026 23:11

OneUniquePearlFish
Corrective violence: Research from King's College London, published in 2025 in collaboration with activist Yasmin Benoit, found that 31% of the public believe asexuality is something that can be "cured" through therapy...

Have you any evidence of 'corrective violence'?
There's sadly plenty of evidence of 'corrective violence' in the form of rape and murder of lesbians around the world - South Africa in particular, but it happens in many other countries.

Can you give examples of 'corrective violence' such as rape and murder experienced by asexual people who were targeted specifically because of their asexuality, as lesbians are targeted specifically because of theirs?

Your other two examples are less than convincing: in the first case, asexuality is not treated as a medical disorder, so it's not pathologized, so that's OK; in the second, I don't see how you have proven 'systemic erasure' - low life satisfaction and being afraid of how people will react does not constitute 'systemic erasure'

Not being covered by EA2010 is shared by many many other identities, so asexuality is not being systemically erased any more than the rest.

Thank you for responding to the request for examples of persecution of asexual people, but I'm sorry, as examples of persecution or discrimination, they just aren't very convincing.
The 'corrective violence' one in particular seems weak in comparison with the established problem of 'corrective violence' - the rape/murder kind of violence - perpetrated against lesbians.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 19/07/2026 23:30

Are we supposed to be impressed by the involvement of Yasmin Benoit? From what I’ve seen she’s an attention seeking influencer.

NotBadConsidering · 20/07/2026 06:42

My DD was watching this so I decided to watch the rest from about half way through.

Oh. My. God. It was bloody awful. Is this considered top notch tv these days? It’s was so cringy, cheesy, terrible dialogue and cliched. I don’t remember any of the nonsense trans activism because I was too busy rolling my eyes at the “drama” of it all.

OneUniquePearlFish · 20/07/2026 08:38

NotBadConsidering · 20/07/2026 06:42

My DD was watching this so I decided to watch the rest from about half way through.

Oh. My. God. It was bloody awful. Is this considered top notch tv these days? It’s was so cringy, cheesy, terrible dialogue and cliched. I don’t remember any of the nonsense trans activism because I was too busy rolling my eyes at the “drama” of it all.

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Ah so a program that calls you out you and your disgusting views is "cringy". It's called a teen program and is exactly the representation we need in society.

GreyskySexRealistsky · 20/07/2026 08:41

OneUniquePearlFish · 20/07/2026 08:38

Ah so a program that calls you out you and your disgusting views is "cringy". It's called a teen program and is exactly the representation we need in society.

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Who is it "calling out"?

WrongKindOfFeminist · 20/07/2026 08:43

OneUniquePearlFish · 20/07/2026 08:38

Ah so a program that calls you out you and your disgusting views is "cringy". It's called a teen program and is exactly the representation we need in society.

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Representation of whom?

OneUniquePearlFish · 20/07/2026 08:49

GreyskySexRealistsky · 20/07/2026 08:41

Who is it "calling out"?

It calls out people who look at a show about LGBT+ youth simply trying to exist and reduce it to 'nonsense trans activism.' It's a teen drama, but the representation matters, and dismissing it like that speaks volumes.

puyr · 20/07/2026 08:50

it encourages professional lifelong victimhood.
And a lifelong hatred of women.

puyr · 20/07/2026 08:55

OneUniquePearlFish · 20/07/2026 08:49

It calls out people who look at a show about LGBT+ youth simply trying to exist and reduce it to 'nonsense trans activism.' It's a teen drama, but the representation matters, and dismissing it like that speaks volumes.

“trying to exist”
Jeez, trotting out the same hackneyed cliches on cue…..
Professional victim mentality.
Nobody wants to erase, kill or genocide anyone. That’s all in your head.

OneUniquePearlFish · 20/07/2026 09:10

puyr · 20/07/2026 08:55

“trying to exist”
Jeez, trotting out the same hackneyed cliches on cue…..
Professional victim mentality.
Nobody wants to erase, kill or genocide anyone. That’s all in your head.

Imagine looking at a lighthearted teen romance, crying 'trans propaganda,' and then accusing others of having a victim mentality. Nobody is oppressed by Heartstopper. If a fictional teenager's story makes you this defensive, you might want to ask yourself why. Sorry to disappoint you, but you're not the victim here, you're just the villain.

OneUniquePearlFish · 20/07/2026 09:13

WrongKindOfFeminist · 20/07/2026 08:43

Representation of whom?

Representation of LGBT+ youth. It shows them experiencing the exact same high school milestones as any other kids. This shouldn't be a controversial concept, yet clearly still is.

OneUniquePearlFish · 20/07/2026 09:19

puyr · 20/07/2026 08:50

it encourages professional lifelong victimhood.
And a lifelong hatred of women.

How does a young person wanting to live their life securely translate to a 'hatred of women'? It doesn't. That is a completely manufactured narrative designed to turn a basic human rights issue into a battleground. Trans people are not the issue, nor are they a danger to anyone, they are just trying to live their lives in peace. Compassion isn't a finite resource; you can advocate for women's rights and safety while simultaneously wanting trans youth to grow up free from bullying and harassment. The two are not mutually exclusive.

puyr · 20/07/2026 09:35

OneUniquePearlFish · 20/07/2026 09:19

How does a young person wanting to live their life securely translate to a 'hatred of women'? It doesn't. That is a completely manufactured narrative designed to turn a basic human rights issue into a battleground. Trans people are not the issue, nor are they a danger to anyone, they are just trying to live their lives in peace. Compassion isn't a finite resource; you can advocate for women's rights and safety while simultaneously wanting trans youth to grow up free from bullying and harassment. The two are not mutually exclusive.

clearly you’ve not been paying attention to the men in frocks with decapitate terf banners, who’ve actually assaulted women. Trans women are male obviously and carry out criminal acts at a rate higher than natal men. Check the statistics. Is it just men you care about, their right to live securely and fuck biological women?
There’s a visceral, deep seated hatred of women in trans ideology and if you haven’t noticed it,
you've been asleep.

puyr · 20/07/2026 09:36

OneUniquePearlFish · 20/07/2026 09:10

Imagine looking at a lighthearted teen romance, crying 'trans propaganda,' and then accusing others of having a victim mentality. Nobody is oppressed by Heartstopper. If a fictional teenager's story makes you this defensive, you might want to ask yourself why. Sorry to disappoint you, but you're not the victim here, you're just the villain.

that gave me a much needed laugh. Thank you.

Grammarnut · 20/07/2026 09:54

Whisperingwaters · 18/07/2026 06:50

Deceptive & illogical propaganda is indeed.

It's not illegal yet for trans people to use their preferred toilet. It's only possibly illegal for service providers to allow them which won't even be known for certain until case law clarifies this. If you have a single-sex space a trans person can still go into that single-sex space, but if someone complains, they can bring out a sex discrimination claim or the organisation can exclude that person, but that doesn’t happen automatically. Even if you do have a single-sex space, the exclusion must be proportionate, which means that the rights of whoever wants to be in a single-sex space, if they’re complaining, have to be counterbalanced against the rights of a trans person. Those rights still exist. The law hasn’t changed on that.

You are incorrect here. The SC ruling specifically made clear that 'case by case' proportionality was not what the law allows. The proportionality refers to having a single (biological) sex space. Certainly, trans people are not prevented going into single sex spaces, but those spaces must align with their sex not their gender id which does not entitle entry to single sex spaces of the opposite sex to the trans person. So a trans woman (a man) can use the men's single sex spaces. The position of trans men (women) is more nuanced since their masculine appearance must be taken into consideration in that they may cause alarm or fear in other women in the single sex space.

OneUniquePearlFish · 20/07/2026 09:56

puyr · 20/07/2026 09:35

clearly you’ve not been paying attention to the men in frocks with decapitate terf banners, who’ve actually assaulted women. Trans women are male obviously and carry out criminal acts at a rate higher than natal men. Check the statistics. Is it just men you care about, their right to live securely and fuck biological women?
There’s a visceral, deep seated hatred of women in trans ideology and if you haven’t noticed it,
you've been asleep.

Focusing on a few extreme protest signs and using them to judge an entire group is a textbook example of prejudice. Most trans people are just ordinary people trying to live their lives, working, spending time with family and friends, and dealing with the same everyday challenges as everyone else. They're not a single, monolithic group, and there's no good evidence that trans people as a whole pose a threat to women.

In fact, the evidence points in the opposite direction. Study after study has found that transgender people are far more likely than cisgender people to experience violence, harassment, and other forms of victimization. One nationally representative analysis of the U.S. National Crime Victimization Survey found that transgender people were victims of violent crime at about four times the rate of cisgender people. The UK's Office for National Statistics has also reported higher rates of crime victimization among transgender respondents, while noting that its gender identity data has only been collected since 2019 and is still relatively limited.

Claims that trans people are inherently more criminal often rely on a misunderstanding of a 2011 Swedish study. The study's lead author has repeatedly said her work has been misrepresented. She has explained that the research looked at a historical group of people living under very different social and legal conditions, and that it should not be used to argue that trans people are naturally more criminal or to draw conclusions about transgender people today.

There's nothing wrong with criticising violent or hateful rhetoric at protests. But judging an entire group by the words or actions of a small minority is neither fair nor supported by the evidence.

OneUniquePearlFish · 20/07/2026 09:58

puyr · 20/07/2026 09:36

that gave me a much needed laugh. Thank you.

Glad I could cheer you up. It's definitely easier to laugh it off than to actually self-reflect on why a teen show triggers you so much. But then again, laughter is a classic defense mechanism when you've been called out.

puyr · 20/07/2026 10:01

OneUniquePearlFish · 20/07/2026 09:56

Focusing on a few extreme protest signs and using them to judge an entire group is a textbook example of prejudice. Most trans people are just ordinary people trying to live their lives, working, spending time with family and friends, and dealing with the same everyday challenges as everyone else. They're not a single, monolithic group, and there's no good evidence that trans people as a whole pose a threat to women.

In fact, the evidence points in the opposite direction. Study after study has found that transgender people are far more likely than cisgender people to experience violence, harassment, and other forms of victimization. One nationally representative analysis of the U.S. National Crime Victimization Survey found that transgender people were victims of violent crime at about four times the rate of cisgender people. The UK's Office for National Statistics has also reported higher rates of crime victimization among transgender respondents, while noting that its gender identity data has only been collected since 2019 and is still relatively limited.

Claims that trans people are inherently more criminal often rely on a misunderstanding of a 2011 Swedish study. The study's lead author has repeatedly said her work has been misrepresented. She has explained that the research looked at a historical group of people living under very different social and legal conditions, and that it should not be used to argue that trans people are naturally more criminal or to draw conclusions about transgender people today.

There's nothing wrong with criticising violent or hateful rhetoric at protests. But judging an entire group by the words or actions of a small minority is neither fair nor supported by the evidence.

so you’re just going to ignore all the evidence and the fact that trans women have and continue to be a threat when in female
spaces? Have you heard of Isla Bryson? Or is it that you simply don’t care?

OneUniquePearlFish · 20/07/2026 10:43

puyr · 20/07/2026 10:01

so you’re just going to ignore all the evidence and the fact that trans women have and continue to be a threat when in female
spaces? Have you heard of Isla Bryson? Or is it that you simply don’t care?

Isla Bryson is a convicted criminal who was rightfully imprisoned. Do you honestly believe that all trans people are rapists? Focusing entirely on one bad person to paint an entire population as a threat is incredibly dishonest. Every demographic contains bad actors, but weaponising the actions of one terrible person to justify a blanket hostility toward an entire group is textbook prejudice.

BaronessEllarawrosaurus · 20/07/2026 11:00

Unfortunately the transgender population has many bad actors as proved by current prison population statistics rather than a Swedish study.

I am happy for transgender people to live their lives free from discrimination and harassment however that does not extend to interfering with my right to single sex spaces free from people with the opposite sexed bodies. If they do not wish to use sss for their biological sex then they will need to use individual mixed sex facilities.

OneUniquePearlFish · 20/07/2026 11:05

BaronessEllarawrosaurus · 20/07/2026 11:00

Unfortunately the transgender population has many bad actors as proved by current prison population statistics rather than a Swedish study.

I am happy for transgender people to live their lives free from discrimination and harassment however that does not extend to interfering with my right to single sex spaces free from people with the opposite sexed bodies. If they do not wish to use sss for their biological sex then they will need to use individual mixed sex facilities.

The actual prison statistics show that trans people make up less than 0.2% of the prison estate, so using that tiny number to imply the population is full of 'bad actors' is a massive reach.

As for toilets and spaces, trans people have been using the facilities that match their lived gender for decades without a single issue. The reality is that the vast majority of women in the real world don't care, aren't checking people's birth certificates at the door, and just want to wash their hands in peace. This is an online obsession, not a real-world problem.

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