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NebulousSupportPostcard · 18/07/2026 15:39

TheywontletmehavethenameIwant · 18/07/2026 13:25

That makes no sense, any site that isn't in the UK can't be bound by the UK laws, that's the very problem Ofcom have got at the moment, it's trying to levy fines on USA company's and they're telling it to get lost.

The same must be said for those inside the UK as well surely, we don't have our own laws in Wales, but I'm not going to be bound by Scottish Law, they've got some stupid ones up there.

Among regular posters, it will probably be considered courteous to avoid discussions that could inadvertently stray into contempt for some of us. I'm not in Scotland either but consider it an "us" situation because there is so much solidarity between us on similar issues.

Mumsnet will almost certainly make any decisions that are need to protect the site, and the rest of us get to choose our own behaviour.

PrettyDamnCosmic · 18/07/2026 15:42

ElizaSchuyler · 18/07/2026 15:38

They take action against Mumsnet initially

They take action against Mumsnet initially

Where?

When & how will they take action against me?

murasaki · 18/07/2026 15:52

NebulousSupportPostcard · 18/07/2026 15:39

Among regular posters, it will probably be considered courteous to avoid discussions that could inadvertently stray into contempt for some of us. I'm not in Scotland either but consider it an "us" situation because there is so much solidarity between us on similar issues.

Mumsnet will almost certainly make any decisions that are need to protect the site, and the rest of us get to choose our own behaviour.

Makes sense. I feel it's ok to comment on the polycule and the weirdness in general, e.g. posts on the kidney crowdfunder are fair game, but best to stay away from the charges and any motivation for that.

murasaki · 18/07/2026 15:55

PrettyDamnCosmic · 18/07/2026 15:42

They take action against Mumsnet initially

Where?

When & how will they take action against me?

They may be asked for IP addresses and log in details etc. They've said no in the past but if it's prejudicial to a court case I suspect they'd comply, and that would be fair to protect the site as a whole.

murasaki · 18/07/2026 15:56

Also they've gone through a world of shit allowing us this space when there was really no other space that would allow such discussions, so maybe let's not put them in the firing line on this one.

selffellatingouroborosofhate · 18/07/2026 16:05

GreenwichPips · 17/07/2026 00:35

Is this the same man who was dilating in a disabled loo at Gatwick?

“'Dilation, day two, let's play. Where in an airport can I locate a clean, dry, private place I can lie down, take my knickers off and spread my legs?“

Bloke clearly has a fetish 🤢🤮

https://www.dailymail.com/news/article-12535827/amp/Transgender-ex-Labour-MSP-Heather-Herbert-disabled-toilet-Gatwick-Airport.html

He's not just taken his knickers off, he's taken his top off as well in that photo.

That photo wasn't to make a political point about dilation facilities, it was porn for a very specific demographic.

selffellatingouroborosofhate · 18/07/2026 16:22

SabrinaThwaite · 18/07/2026 08:29

Herbert has confirmed on BlueHair that he’s had all of his electronic equipment seized by the police.

I think we should assemble and dispatch a care package of brain bleach and tasty edibles for the forensic IT examiners. They are going to need it.

selffellatingouroborosofhate · 18/07/2026 16:25

SabrinaThwaite · 18/07/2026 08:54

Not sure - the video was posted on Sparkles BlueHair with Herbert saying he’ll do a video to thank people for his kidney crowdfunder when he gets his electronic equipment back, so somebody still has a phone at least.

If the police confiscated your devices, in order to keep existing in 2026 you'd have to rush out and buy another phone.

selffellatingouroborosofhate · 18/07/2026 16:33

GreenFootstool · 18/07/2026 09:07

Interesting @SabrinaThwaite . He obviously doesn't realise those devices aren't coming back anytime soon.... Literally years are to be expected even if nothing is found.

Also, why can't he reset his password for the fundraiser if he can't remember it? I wonder whether he has bail conditions about use of technology....

If he uses "passkeys", which are a kind of cryptographic key or certificate on his computer, to secure his accounts, he mighy have forgotten his password. If he uses a password manager that is protected by a passkey, he might not know his passwords (because the password manager generated and stored them without him even seeing them) and be unable to get into the password manager to retrieve them.

And he can't get into his email to use the reset links, because his email password is in the password manager.

Always print out the recovery codes to paper and keep copies outside the home, peeps.

Lalgarh · 18/07/2026 16:37

Anyone know if Herbert (lol) used the Cookd and Bombd Chris Morris fan site? It's just been mentioned as a source of Edge lords and Widdecombe death ghouls plus TRAs on another thread.

PrettyDamnCosmic · 18/07/2026 16:38

murasaki · 18/07/2026 15:55

They may be asked for IP addresses and log in details etc. They've said no in the past but if it's prejudicial to a court case I suspect they'd comply, and that would be fair to protect the site as a whole.

They may be asked for IP addresses and log in details etc.

Assuming MN gave up my IP address & login details what happens next? Remember that I'm sitting in France typing this.

Lins77 · 18/07/2026 16:44

selffellatingouroborosofhate · 18/07/2026 16:33

If he uses "passkeys", which are a kind of cryptographic key or certificate on his computer, to secure his accounts, he mighy have forgotten his password. If he uses a password manager that is protected by a passkey, he might not know his passwords (because the password manager generated and stored them without him even seeing them) and be unable to get into the password manager to retrieve them.

And he can't get into his email to use the reset links, because his email password is in the password manager.

Always print out the recovery codes to paper and keep copies outside the home, peeps.

He works (worked??) in IT so I expect he'd manage.

SabrinaThwaite · 18/07/2026 16:46

selffellatingouroborosofhate · 18/07/2026 16:33

If he uses "passkeys", which are a kind of cryptographic key or certificate on his computer, to secure his accounts, he mighy have forgotten his password. If he uses a password manager that is protected by a passkey, he might not know his passwords (because the password manager generated and stored them without him even seeing them) and be unable to get into the password manager to retrieve them.

And he can't get into his email to use the reset links, because his email password is in the password manager.

Always print out the recovery codes to paper and keep copies outside the home, peeps.

I’m not sure there’s been any issues about passwords for the crowdfunder, which was set up by Sparkles, although it’s good advice to store hard copies of things outwith your home.

murasaki · 18/07/2026 16:46

PrettyDamnCosmic · 18/07/2026 16:38

They may be asked for IP addresses and log in details etc.

Assuming MN gave up my IP address & login details what happens next? Remember that I'm sitting in France typing this.

No idea. But why risk the site?

PrettyDamnCosmic · 18/07/2026 16:54

murasaki · 18/07/2026 16:46

No idea. But why risk the site?

No idea. But why risk the site?

I have no intention of risking the site but am intrigued about the situation. Is MN responsible for what we write? I think the fact that discussions are moderated means that MN are taking responsibility for the content. I'm pretty sure that if there were contentious content that MN would remove it on request as MNHQ are very definitely not free speech absolutists.

WarriorN · 18/07/2026 16:54

Lalgarh · 18/07/2026 16:37

Anyone know if Herbert (lol) used the Cookd and Bombd Chris Morris fan site? It's just been mentioned as a source of Edge lords and Widdecombe death ghouls plus TRAs on another thread.

honestly, I don’t know what any of the above means but this tra shit seems to be becoming more and more mainstream/ visible. The gen public are going to have to start to confront this shit

murasaki · 18/07/2026 17:05

PrettyDamnCosmic · 18/07/2026 16:54

No idea. But why risk the site?

I have no intention of risking the site but am intrigued about the situation. Is MN responsible for what we write? I think the fact that discussions are moderated means that MN are taking responsibility for the content. I'm pretty sure that if there were contentious content that MN would remove it on request as MNHQ are very definitely not free speech absolutists.

It's an interesting one. But given they own the content to the extent that they can choose to put it on Facebook, or allow to newspapers etc, they'd have to own it if it came to court cases. Once you type it out It's theirs, as I understand it. So they could be in the shit. And moderation seems to act on report, I.e. retroactive not proactive, so things might not be deleted because they don't see them if they're not reported.

Could be wrong, mind.

BiologicalRobot · 18/07/2026 17:09

PrettyDamnCosmic · 18/07/2026 16:38

They may be asked for IP addresses and log in details etc.

Assuming MN gave up my IP address & login details what happens next? Remember that I'm sitting in France typing this.

MN would delete this thread. And then delete any subsequent thread. Nobody would be able to discuss any aspect of HH, not just this alleged court case. And that would piss off a lot of FWR members. Is that your intention?

RoyalCorgi · 18/07/2026 17:11

I think (and I hope this isn't straying too much into speculation) that it's significant the police haven't told us what HH has been charged with, and I think it's been premature of all the free speech warriors to leap in and defend him. No doubt we'll know more in the next week or so.

SabrinaThwaite · 18/07/2026 17:31

The charges aren’t made public because it’s up to the PF how to proceed - if it’s a fine or warning or the PF does not proceed then they stay confidential. If it goes to court then the charges become part of the public record.

murasaki · 18/07/2026 17:35

SabrinaThwaite · 18/07/2026 17:31

The charges aren’t made public because it’s up to the PF how to proceed - if it’s a fine or warning or the PF does not proceed then they stay confidential. If it goes to court then the charges become part of the public record.

Thanks. Is it normal to know the charge exists? As if it were to be NFAd, we'd still know it happened in this case, which is what's done the reputational damage to the University of Aberdeen. Do charges normally only become known if it goes to court? Genuinely interested in the system!

Ereshkigalangcleg · 18/07/2026 17:46

WarriorN · 18/07/2026 16:54

honestly, I don’t know what any of the above means but this tra shit seems to be becoming more and more mainstream/ visible. The gen public are going to have to start to confront this shit

It’s a load of mostly middle aged men, with a few women. They have a long running thread about how much they hate Glinner. Some are actively TRAs, I’d class the rest as zealot allies.

SabrinaThwaite · 18/07/2026 18:24

murasaki · 18/07/2026 17:35

Thanks. Is it normal to know the charge exists? As if it were to be NFAd, we'd still know it happened in this case, which is what's done the reputational damage to the University of Aberdeen. Do charges normally only become known if it goes to court? Genuinely interested in the system!

AFAIK it’s normal for the police to say someone has been charged and a report made to the PF.

Charges are only made public if it proceeds to court.

UtopiaPlanitia · 18/07/2026 18:57

SabrinaThwaite · 18/07/2026 12:36

It's just the conditions that the angel delight was being prepared in were best described as unsanitary. If anyone is desperate to see it I can add it as 'sensitive content'.

Yup, I came across the pic unawares and it turned my stomach 🤢🤢

ElenOfTheWays · 19/07/2026 01:58

SabrinaThwaite · 18/07/2026 12:36

It's just the conditions that the angel delight was being prepared in were best described as unsanitary. If anyone is desperate to see it I can add it as 'sensitive content'.

Also it was butterscotch flavour which is disgusting.

I mean there's just no depths these men won't stoop to.