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The Bluestocking Women's Pub: Where the Bluebird Sings to the Lemonade Springs

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AngleofRepose · 12/07/2026 21:31

Croeso/Welcome to the Bluestocking Women's Pub, with our lovely gerbil staff, the icy Mojito foot-bath for those of you fed up with the heat, a Quilting/Craft Nook, lots of yummy food and drink with zero calories, gluten, or allergens, the Gerbil World Cup, and a brand new magic pool that becomes a babbling brook whenever you want it to!

Come on in! All women welcome! (Men welcome at The Staunch Ally pub down the road aways)

(security provided by the capybaras, lovely folk, but try not to get in their way)

(oh, and don't mention triangles, please. Gubbins gets very overexcited)

(did we mention the Gerbil World Cup?)

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SDTGisAnEvilWolefGenius · Yesterday 12:04

Poor Hunter, @Thehorticulturalhussie - hugs for you both.

Thehorticulturalhussie · Yesterday 13:03

SDTGisAnEvilWolefGenius · Yesterday 12:04

Poor Hunter, @Thehorticulturalhussie - hugs for you both.

Thank you so much. I’m very grateful to everyone for all of the support. Of all of the (few) dogs that we have had he’s my Velcro soul dog. I loved the others fiercely but there’s just something different about Hunter.

ErrolTheDragon · Yesterday 13:33

RumNotRun · Yesterday 09:53

Are there any ponies in the Bluestocking? I met this one in the New Forest and thought she would fit in nicely.

Yes, and donkeys - out in the paddock. They’ve been here nearly as long as the goats who iirc were the first four-legged BS friends - even longer than Colin.

ErrolTheDragon · Yesterday 13:36

Thehorticulturalhussie · Yesterday 13:03

Thank you so much. I’m very grateful to everyone for all of the support. Of all of the (few) dogs that we have had he’s my Velcro soul dog. I loved the others fiercely but there’s just something different about Hunter.

Flowers Hopefully he will be on the mend soon. I didn’t know that metacam could have such bad reactions, my last dog had loads of it with no ill effects.
Poor Hunter.

MyrtleLion · Yesterday 14:10

Tunnel vs. Scotland
Quarter Final III…

The Tunnel team arrived overground, in a straight line, on foot, looking faintly betrayed by the sky.

“It’s very bright up here,” said their captain, shielding her eyes and glaring at Griselda as though the sun itself had been part of the ruling.

“Take it up with Soo,” said Griselda, not looking up from her clipboard.

It was, everyone agreed, a strange sight — the Tunnel team lined up in ordinary formation, on ordinary grass, with nowhere to disappear to. Gwendoline’s pre-match bulletin had gone through eleven drafts trying to capture the mood and settled, finally, on: THEY HAVE NOTHING TO HIDE BEHIND (LITERALLY) (WE’RE WORRIED FOR THEM).

Scotland came out with the specific, controlled fury of a team that had spent a very long close-season replaying seventy seconds over and over in their heads. Nobody mentioned Morocco. Everybody was thinking about Morocco. Their captain had written it, in tiny letters, on the inside of her captain’s armband, where only she would ever see it.

Minute 6: Scotland surged forward with the pent-up energy of a grudge several months in the making, and their winger arrowed a shot against the post so hard the woodwork rang like a bell. The whole Tunnel bench flinched, purely on principle, at anything moving that fast toward a goal.

Minute 19: GOAL, Scotland. A scrappy corner, a scramble, and the ball squeezed over the line off someone’s ear — nobody was entirely sure whose. Scotland celebrated as though this, finally, was the universe correcting an old and specific injustice. 1-0.

Minute 31: The Tunnel team, forced for the first time in their history to build an attack the ordinary way, discovered they were — quietly, unexpectedly — rather good at it. A slow, patient passing move worked its way through midfield with nobody surfacing from anywhere, and finished with a cool finish low into the corner. GOAL, Tunnel team. 1-1. Griselda wrote “no ruling required” in her notes, with something suspiciously close to satisfaction.

Half-time: The mood in the Tunnel dressing room was best described as curiosity, where the captain stood in front of a whiteboard, chalk in paw, and drew — for the first time in living memory — an actual diagram.

Minute 58: Scotland, still playing like a team settling several scores at once, went back ahead through a driven free kick that left the keeper with no chance whatsoever. 2-1. Their bench became, briefly, a single organism made entirely of relief.

Minute 70: GOAL, Tunnel team — a scrappy equaliser of their own this time, won by simple, dogged, overground running that would have been unthinkable from them a month ago. 2-2. Gwendoline’s bulletin read, disbelieving: THEY’RE JUST… PLAYING FOOTBALL???

Minute 84: Scotland threw everything forward, chasing the win with the specific desperation of a team that has decided, privately, that this is the match where the Morocco thing finally stops meaning anything — and got caught horribly short at the back for it. The Tunnel team broke at pace, three passes, clean finish. 3-2, Tunnel team.

90+3: Scotland won a corner with the last kick of the game, launched everyone forward including the keeper, and headed narrowly over the bar. The final whistle went before the ball had even landed.

Scotland’s captain stood perfectly still for a moment afterward, armband turned inward, saying nothing. Then she shook every Tunnel paw in turn, told her team it wasn’t seventy seconds this time, and meant it as something like comfort.

Greta’s line was already under the glass:
The tunnels stayed shut. The team did not.

The Tunnel team advance to the semi-finals, where they’ll meet Discworld or Bagpuss’s mice

https://myrtlelion.substack.com/p/tunnel-vs-scotland

The Bluestocking Women's Pub:  Where the Bluebird Sings to the Lemonade Springs
AngleofRepose · Yesterday 14:17

Yes! TUNNEL!!!!

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Chickadeeinme · Yesterday 14:28

You and your AI are doing such a brilliant job of these stories @MyrtleLion!

@Thehorticulturalhussiefingers crossed for Hunter’s progress.

@PastaAllaNorma - ten years ago when I started on Medicare I was having a lot of issues with arthritis in one knee - probably because that leg is half an inch shorter than the other one in consequence of a badly set femur break in my teens - not enough to make me limp but enough to cause extra stress on that joint. I had an X ray done and you could see the arthritis damage on it.

I started taking a liquid glucosamine called Synflex plus two capsules a day of resveratrol and two of turmeric. It took about five weeks to have an effect but honestly the only time I’ve had it flare up since is when I couldn’t take my Synflex with me when I went on holiday for two weeks (flying with just a carry-on so I couldn’t take the liquid and it’s not prescription) . By the end of the holiday it was acting up again, but fine within a week of restarting the Synflex. This stuff works on animals with arthritis too (they make a version for pets). It’s quite expensive but one bottle lasts a month and I lash out and buy a dozen bottles from their website a year because it gets me a decent discount and I take it every day. I can honestly say that even doing the increased number of steps a day I’ve been doing since March, plus one or two workout classes a week, hasn’t caused me any problems with the knee.

Chickadeeinme · Yesterday 14:30

Just remembered - nowadays I buy it from Amazon, not the Synflex website. If I buy it on the subscription option it’s the same price as I was paying for bulk discount from the Synflex website and I only have to pay once a month.

I do think the combination of that with the Resveratrol and turmeric is having a generally anti inflammatory effect.

Thehorticulturalhussie · Yesterday 14:53

@Chickadeeinme that's brilliant, I am delighted for you. I'm going to need to do some research.

AngleofRepose · Yesterday 14:54

Thehorticulturalhussie · Yesterday 11:02

Thank you for asking, emergency trip to the vet first thing because he hadn't eaten for 3 days and the internal bleeding wasn't stopping so he has had an anti nausea injection and I have a paste to force into him to line his gut. I was up with him most of the night again and by the time we got to the practice I was a pathetic, snivelling wreck because I thought he was going to die. The lovely vet said that there are various other meds we can try if necessary. And handed me a box of tissues.
So I am cautiously optimistic now.

Reminds me of caring for my sick cat 😑I'm glad you're there for Hunter. 🌺

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Thehorticulturalhussie · Yesterday 14:55

ErrolTheDragon · Yesterday 13:36

Flowers Hopefully he will be on the mend soon. I didn’t know that metacam could have such bad reactions, my last dog had loads of it with no ill effects.
Poor Hunter.

Yes, our last 2 dogs did too but it's been a bit catastrophic for Hunter, who is now sleeping peacefully under a big beech tree in the garden, he's exhausted.

PastaAllaNorma · Yesterday 15:03

Chickadee, when I googled Synflex I found it as a brand name for Naproxen, a NSAID I don't find does much to help.

Is this a different thing to yours?

Waitwhat23 · Yesterday 15:05

Give Hunter a right good scratch behind the ears from us.

Our dog takes a weird reaction to a commonly used anaesthetic which meant her first procedure was dramatic to say the least.

DeanElderberry · Yesterday 15:38

I looked up resveratrol after reading that and one of the things it's in is cocoa powder. My medicinal mid-morning cocoa, turmeric and black pepper does seem to have helped my knee - it's a size and bit smaller than it was 18 months ago, and the rest of me hasn't shrunk.

EmpressaurusKitty · Yesterday 15:43

Lots of love to Hunter from us, Horti.

EmpressaurusKitty · Yesterday 15:44

Boiledbeetle · Yesterday 00:45

You now have two usernames on one thread. That is not supposed to to happen now. Have you time travelled to 2022? I think you need to let mnhq know.

Is anyone else wondering whether the Tunnel could be somehow responsible? Have you been down there, Hedgehog?

FuzzyPuffling · Yesterday 15:50

I take turmeric, ginger and black pepper tablets and cheapo glucosamine too. My rheumatologist thought this was a good idea ( lupus)- couldn't tell you if it works, but as my old dad used to say, "Might be dead without it!"

MyrtleLion · Yesterday 15:51

EmpressaurusKitty · Yesterday 15:44

Is anyone else wondering whether the Tunnel could be somehow responsible? Have you been down there, Hedgehog?

I don’t think you should report it. I think you should work out how it happened and tell us how we can do it. As long as we promise not to be two people at once in the Bluestocking.

Thehorticulturalhussie · Yesterday 16:34

Waitwhat23 · Yesterday 15:05

Give Hunter a right good scratch behind the ears from us.

Our dog takes a weird reaction to a commonly used anaesthetic which meant her first procedure was dramatic to say the least.

Thank you. And oh dear 😐 I'm guessing that thankfully she survived though.

Thehorticulturalhussie · Yesterday 16:36

Thank you again to everyone, he's definitely looking a bit happier but not sufficiently well to hurl himself after the cat that wandered across the top the garden. I'm amazed that it came back after last time.

Hedgehogsrightsarehumanrights · Yesterday 17:11

MyrtleLion · Yesterday 15:51

I don’t think you should report it. I think you should work out how it happened and tell us how we can do it. As long as we promise not to be two people at once in the Bluestocking.

Well at least my username is similar, and nobody tried to marry me off to me. 😁

debating wether to tell on myself to MHQ

if you recall lemon knew how to do it

I got put on the norty step many moons ago.

I re entered through a different portal and it let me set myself up as if new.

and bingo

I must have re entered on that norty portal this time o

but then I seem to have two accounts that sometimes merge. My phone is showing my latest username.

it is. Confusing

AngleofRepose · Yesterday 17:42

Hedgehogsrightsarehumanrights · Yesterday 17:11

Well at least my username is similar, and nobody tried to marry me off to me. 😁

debating wether to tell on myself to MHQ

if you recall lemon knew how to do it

I got put on the norty step many moons ago.

I re entered through a different portal and it let me set myself up as if new.

and bingo

I must have re entered on that norty portal this time o

but then I seem to have two accounts that sometimes merge. My phone is showing my latest username.

it is. Confusing

Hedgie, sending you a PM.

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Magpiecomplex · Yesterday 17:42

Done! This is me getting a head start on some high level vegetating.

The Bluestocking Women's Pub:  Where the Bluebird Sings to the Lemonade Springs
AngleofRepose · Yesterday 19:27

Magpiecomplex · Yesterday 17:42

Done! This is me getting a head start on some high level vegetating.

Yay! Congratulations, Magpie, you made it! 🏝🏖

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MyrtleLion · Yesterday 19:42

Discworld vs. Bagpuss’s Mice
Quarter Final IV. Saggy old cloth cat…

The mice arrived in careful single file, each one carrying something small and useful — a needle, a spool of thread, a spare button, just in case — and set their kit down with the tidy precision of a team that had never once lost anything down the back of a sofa.

Bagpuss herself was carried out last, fast asleep, and laid gently on a cushion beside the touchline. Griselda eyed her with mild professional concern. “Will she be joining us,” she asked, “at any point?”

“When she’s ready,” said Charlotte Mouse, with total confidence, and went to warm up.

Discworld arrived the way Discworld always arrived, which is to say gradually and then all at once — Weatherwax first, saying nothing, which somehow took up more space than shouting would have; Nanny Ogg last, humming something that made Gwendoline blush and then correct her own bulletin twice.

The whistle went. The mice played the way they mended things — small, exact, patient touches, nobody rushing, everybody covering for everybody else. Within ten minutes it was clear this was going to be a much closer game than anyone at Gerbil HQ had drafted a headline for.

Minute 12: Nanny Ogg won a corner that nobody quite remembers the ball going out for. The elephant shrew referee checked her notes, found nothing wrong on paper, and allowed it with the specific unease of someone who suspects paper isn’t the whole story.

Minute 17: GOAL, Discworld. The corner came in, and somewhere in the resulting scramble the ball ended up in the net by a route nobody present could fully reconstruct afterwards. Griselda wrote “unclear” in her notes and underlined it twice. 1-0.

Minute 24: The mice, entirely unbothered, mended the gap that had let the goal through — literally, several of them conferring at the back like a sewing circle assessing a tear — and simply stopped conceding through it again for the rest of the match.

Minute 33: Death, playing an unhurried holding role, made a tackle so calm and so perfectly timed that the mouse in possession simply found the ball gone, without quite experiencing the moment it left. Nobody could call it a foul. Nobody could quite call it fair, either.

Minute 40: From the resulting move, GOAL, Discworld, scored by Errol with the sort of finish that involved slightly more fire than regulations technically allowed, though nobody wanted to be the one to raise it with a dragon. 2-0.

Half-time — and Bagpuss woke up.

She did it slowly, the way she does everything, opening one eye and then the other and giving an enormous, unhurried yawn that seemed to take the whole pitch with it — and the moment she was properly, fully awake, the mouse organ struck up on the touchline, playing something so sweet and so wonky and so entirely uninterested in being impressive that half of Discworld’s bench stopped what they were doing just to listen. Nanny Ogg was seen, briefly, wiping her eye.

Minute 51: Whatever Bagpuss’s waking did, the mice came out transformed — not faster, not harder, just surer, every pass finding its mark with the quiet certainty of a job done properly. GOAL, Bagpuss’s Mice, worked the length of the pitch with nine short, careful passes and finished low into the corner. 2-1. The whole team celebrated by tidying up the goal net where the ball had disturbed it.

Minute 66: The mice drew level — a header, unlikely, from a mouse barely half the size of the ball she’d just directed, met with total astonishment from her own side and something close to pride from the touchline. 2-2. Gwendoline’s bulletin simply read: THEY MENDED IT.

Minute 78: Nanny Ogg, sensing the game slipping away from her side entirely, produced something from her pocket that nobody got a clear look at, waved it near the corner flag, and the resulting set piece bent in a way that set pieces do not, strictly, bend. GOAL, Discworld. 3-2. Griselda’s notes on this one simply said “no.”

90+4: The mice threw everything forward one last time, working a final patient move through a Discworld defence that was starting, visibly, to tire of being patient back at — and were denied, right at the very end, by Weatherwax simply standing in the one place the ball needed not to go, arms folded, entirely unmoved, the way she is in most situations.

Final whistle. 3-2, Discworld.

The mice shook every paw, thanked the referee, and began, without being asked, tidying the pitch on their way off — folding the corner flags rather than leaving them, coiling a stray bit of netting that had come loose. Nanny Ogg watched them go with an expression Gwendoline’s bulletin described, for the only time all season, as sheepish.

Greta’s line was waiting under the glass:
They didn’t win. But everything they touched was better mended than they found it.

https://myrtlelion.substack.com/p/discworld-vs-bagpusss-mice

The Bluestocking Women's Pub:  Where the Bluebird Sings to the Lemonade Springs