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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Is being trans a 'disease'/mental health issue?

430 replies

SolveMyPrombles · 26/06/2026 20:05

I'm asking on this board for deliberate considered responses so please do share your thoughts.

A lady on a local group has described being trans as a mental illness that should be treated with compassion not pandered to because it's a disease.

Looking into it more deeply I believe she's wrong and there is no current diagnostic manual that agrees with her take.

What do you think?

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SueKeeper · 26/06/2026 23:15

I think I'm young people it's usially a trauma response, often from the smaller consistent trauma of feeling you don't fit in (feminine boys) or because you suddenly stand out (girls going through puberty). "I can't get anything right," can easy shift to "there's something wrong with me." It's manifestation of the desire for a fresh start or do over and should be treated kindly in the vulnerable teens. However, kindness is not playing along, any more than you do with an anorexic person.

There are the fetishists, as well, who are full on exploiting the vulnerable ones, don't feel much kindness there.

Seethlaw · 26/06/2026 23:17

stripesandspotsanddots · 26/06/2026 23:10

Anorexia is a potentially fatal disorder, you can’t compare it to transitioning, which in most cases improves people’s mental health.

Sure I can. Just because being trans is not an inherently potentially fatal disorder, doesn't mean it doesn't share obvious traits with anorexia, such as a blatantly wrong mental image of one's body.

transitioning, which in most cases improves people’s mental health.

Do you have sources for that?

MagicMarkers · 26/06/2026 23:19

I think it's a fetish and the "dysphoria" comes from the fantasy not matching reality.

KnickerlessParsons · 26/06/2026 23:25

I think it’s analogous to anorexia and we treat people who stop eating because they don’t like their body. Trans people don’t like their bodies but they are indulged.

Baileyonice · 26/06/2026 23:26

parachutegirl · 26/06/2026 23:13

She only felt differently because she didn’t feel that she fit in with society’s expectations of her. I felt exactly the same but if we didn’t have gender stereotyping it wouldn’t be a thing.

Typical (common) behaviours are not the same as stereotypical behaviours (expectations). Trans people are simply acknowledging the commonality in inclinations/behaviours with the general population.

Common behaviours are unlikely to change since these are consequences of both biological ( genes/hormones) & environmental influences.

Shedmistress · 26/06/2026 23:27

stripesandspotsanddots · 26/06/2026 23:10

Anorexia is a potentially fatal disorder, you can’t compare it to transitioning, which in most cases improves people’s mental health.

Which research are your using for your claim here?

Seethlaw · 26/06/2026 23:27

Baileyonice · 26/06/2026 23:26

Typical (common) behaviours are not the same as stereotypical behaviours (expectations). Trans people are simply acknowledging the commonality in inclinations/behaviours with the general population.

Common behaviours are unlikely to change since these are consequences of both biological ( genes/hormones) & environmental influences.

Typical (common) behaviours are not the same as stereotypical behaviours (expectations).

I don't quite see the difference. Do you have examples?

Baileyonice · 26/06/2026 23:30

Seethlaw · 26/06/2026 23:27

Typical (common) behaviours are not the same as stereotypical behaviours (expectations).

I don't quite see the difference. Do you have examples?

Substantial differences between males & females observed in consumerist, employment, special interest & life choices.

You can look them up if they aren't obvious to you.

Baileyonice · 26/06/2026 23:34

KnickerlessParsons · 26/06/2026 23:25

I think it’s analogous to anorexia and we treat people who stop eating because they don’t like their body. Trans people don’t like their bodies but they are indulged.

Transgender individuals generally have a clear, accurate perception of what their body looks like. The distress comes from the fact that their body does not match their internal identity. Anorexia is marked by a distorted perception of reality. Even when an individual is dangerously thin, looking in the mirror leads them to perceive themselves as overweight.

spstchmu · 26/06/2026 23:36

Really seems like this rhetoric is trying to lead society back to the times when being gay was deemed an illness, illegal, conversion abuse etc. Im not going to bait you, I know better than to visit the feminist boards sadly (this is on my active and its hard to ignore).
Just please think, is trying to rationalise other people and speculate on why they are different to you more important than how any trans and likely lgbtqia+ person reading the title of the thread will feel. It hurt my heart...
#notinmyname

nevernotmaybe · 26/06/2026 23:37

BunnyBunbunbun · 26/06/2026 20:27

Being gay means you are exclusively attracted to your own sex. What exactly are you just if you say you're trans? The opposite sex? Born in the wrong body? A male person with a female soul. Your DH's nephew will always be female and will never be male.

The reality is that trans people are not what they believe they are - they are not the opposite sex and never can be. They are the sex they were born as and always will be. The question then is why do they reject their body and believe it should be something else?

I think it's a mental health issue and one that is externally caused (i.e. it's not an "innate sense" but is externally caused). Reasons can be trauma caused by abuse, confusion about sexuality, not feeling comfortable with expected gender stereotypes, autism, the general struggles of adolescents, low self-esteem, family dynamics, and the suchlike.

The genetic makeup of men, can without question express effectively all female elements. This is a hard fact, there is a syndrome where you can be entirely female with xy, the only thing missing are eggs due to the stage it happens at, but they can also give birth if an egg is implanted.

Once we have figured out this, you then need to demonstrate why and how you think it is impossible for a female brain alone to be expressed genetically from a male genetic makeup. Because clearly that would then be a female person (what makes somebody a person), trapped in a male biological body.

I am not taking a side, I am just curious where this fanatical absolute certainty that it can't happen comes from.

Seethlaw · 26/06/2026 23:37

Baileyonice · 26/06/2026 23:30

Substantial differences between males & females observed in consumerist, employment, special interest & life choices.

You can look them up if they aren't obvious to you.

You'd think if they'd be obvious to anyone, it would be me...

Seethlaw · 26/06/2026 23:39

Baileyonice · 26/06/2026 23:34

Transgender individuals generally have a clear, accurate perception of what their body looks like. The distress comes from the fact that their body does not match their internal identity. Anorexia is marked by a distorted perception of reality. Even when an individual is dangerously thin, looking in the mirror leads them to perceive themselves as overweight.

There's no such thing as an "internal identity".

Seethlaw · 26/06/2026 23:46

nevernotmaybe · 26/06/2026 23:37

The genetic makeup of men, can without question express effectively all female elements. This is a hard fact, there is a syndrome where you can be entirely female with xy, the only thing missing are eggs due to the stage it happens at, but they can also give birth if an egg is implanted.

Once we have figured out this, you then need to demonstrate why and how you think it is impossible for a female brain alone to be expressed genetically from a male genetic makeup. Because clearly that would then be a female person (what makes somebody a person), trapped in a male biological body.

I am not taking a side, I am just curious where this fanatical absolute certainty that it can't happen comes from.

This is a hard fact, there is a syndrome where you can be entirely female with xy, the only thing missing are eggs due to the stage it happens at, but they can also give birth if an egg is implanted.

I don't suppose you would know the name of that syndrome? Because if you're thinking of androgen insensitivity syndrome, I'm going to ask where exactly that egg is supposed to be implanted...

you then need to demonstrate why and how you think it is impossible for a female brain alone to be expressed genetically from a male genetic makeup.

You're the one making the extraordinary claim, so it's up to you to demonstrate how it would even work.

And again: the brain is an integral part of the body. You can't have a female brain and a male body; that makes no sense.

Hedgehogforshort · 26/06/2026 23:46

@Baileyonice “distorted perception of reality” sounds like a good fit for the concept of “trans” IMHO.

@SolveMyPrombles for a more clinically qualified perspective there is a book by Dr. Az Hakeem, a psychiatrist who worked with trans at the Portland for many years, called “Detrans”. It all about the various conditions that are part of trans identities.

Baileyonice · 26/06/2026 23:47

Internal identity is how the perception of personality of an individual fits in to social categories. Humans decide internal identity through a dynamic of process of cognitive reflection, social interaction, and personal evaluation. Our minds integrate memories, values, and experiences into a coherent narrative of self. This process helps us define who we are and informs how we navigate the world.

murasaki · 26/06/2026 23:48

Baileyonice · 26/06/2026 23:47

Internal identity is how the perception of personality of an individual fits in to social categories. Humans decide internal identity through a dynamic of process of cognitive reflection, social interaction, and personal evaluation. Our minds integrate memories, values, and experiences into a coherent narrative of self. This process helps us define who we are and informs how we navigate the world.

But as it's internal, no one else should be forced to buy into it, and nor should the law.

Seethlaw · 26/06/2026 23:50

Baileyonice · 26/06/2026 23:47

Internal identity is how the perception of personality of an individual fits in to social categories. Humans decide internal identity through a dynamic of process of cognitive reflection, social interaction, and personal evaluation. Our minds integrate memories, values, and experiences into a coherent narrative of self. This process helps us define who we are and informs how we navigate the world.

But when your body is one thing, and society agrees that your body is that thing, then clearly there's something wrong with either your cognitive reflection or your personal evaluation if you end up deciding that nope, your body is not that thing.

Baileyonice · 26/06/2026 23:55

murasaki · 26/06/2026 23:48

But as it's internal, no one else should be forced to buy into it, and nor should the law.

Beliefs like religion are internal & are respected with both social & legal legitimacy.

nevernotmaybe · 26/06/2026 23:55

Seethlaw · 26/06/2026 23:46

This is a hard fact, there is a syndrome where you can be entirely female with xy, the only thing missing are eggs due to the stage it happens at, but they can also give birth if an egg is implanted.

I don't suppose you would know the name of that syndrome? Because if you're thinking of androgen insensitivity syndrome, I'm going to ask where exactly that egg is supposed to be implanted...

you then need to demonstrate why and how you think it is impossible for a female brain alone to be expressed genetically from a male genetic makeup.

You're the one making the extraordinary claim, so it's up to you to demonstrate how it would even work.

And again: the brain is an integral part of the body. You can't have a female brain and a male body; that makes no sense.

All elements can be expressed independently with the right genetic issue or trigger, you stating it can't with no basis doesn't change this.

It's a combination of syndromes, between Swyer Syndrome and CAIS, that covers most things. Not just the one you chose because you don't like the idea that they could give birth, so didn't bother checking to avoid facing that.

I have already demonstrated enough for the burden to be entirely on others to point in the right direction at a bare minimum. The suggesting no part of the brain can be expressed genetically on it's own is an extraordinary claim, even if true you would have to be many years more advanced than the rest of us to be sure with your knowledge of that - and at that point I can't help but feel you need to be doing something more worthwhile with that knowledge.

murasaki · 26/06/2026 23:56

Baileyonice · 26/06/2026 23:55

Beliefs like religion are internal & are respected with both social & legal legitimacy.

True to a certain extent. But no one religious is expecting me to also believe in their religion.

Baileyonice · 26/06/2026 23:56

Seethlaw · 26/06/2026 23:50

But when your body is one thing, and society agrees that your body is that thing, then clearly there's something wrong with either your cognitive reflection or your personal evaluation if you end up deciding that nope, your body is not that thing.

The context is gender not sex as well as internal perceptions as opposed to societal ones.

murasaki · 26/06/2026 23:58

Baileyonice · 26/06/2026 23:56

The context is gender not sex as well as internal perceptions as opposed to societal ones.

But some, not all, but some trans people do claim to have changed sex. And use the phrase her penis. So it's not just about gender.

Baileyonice · 26/06/2026 23:58

murasaki · 26/06/2026 23:56

True to a certain extent. But no one religious is expecting me to also believe in their religion.

Respecting or agreeing with a choice are two different things.

murasaki · Yesterday 00:00

Baileyonice · 26/06/2026 23:58

Respecting or agreeing with a choice are two different things.

Again, I agree, but religious people have no impact on my life, whereas men in female single sex spaces do, so I don't think it's fair to compare the two belief systems.