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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Is being trans a 'disease'/mental health issue?

430 replies

SolveMyPrombles · 26/06/2026 20:05

I'm asking on this board for deliberate considered responses so please do share your thoughts.

A lady on a local group has described being trans as a mental illness that should be treated with compassion not pandered to because it's a disease.

Looking into it more deeply I believe she's wrong and there is no current diagnostic manual that agrees with her take.

What do you think?

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SolveMyPrombles · 26/06/2026 22:32

Helleofabore · 26/06/2026 21:03

Any male person who demands (as in expects or asks) any other person to act as if they believe that male person is in any way female, even just using female language as a reference to their identity, is not just shrinking into themselves and just ‘living their lives’ though.

Well except they are. I've met wonderful transwomen who just live their lives as women with no drama.

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user1471538275 · 26/06/2026 22:35

You can't live your life as a woman unless you are, in fact a woman.

You can just pretend and other people can go along with the the pretense.

I just won't pretend or as I see it, be forced to lie.

Shedmistress · 26/06/2026 22:38

The Transes went bananas when it was suggested that a diagnosis could be made with a brain scan, mainly because they didn't want the diagnosis to be 'transness not found on scan'.

Also, no you can't just 'Google it' these days, so instead of telling people this, simply post your references if you aren't making it up.

Baileyonice · 26/06/2026 22:38

SolveMyPrombles · 26/06/2026 20:05

I'm asking on this board for deliberate considered responses so please do share your thoughts.

A lady on a local group has described being trans as a mental illness that should be treated with compassion not pandered to because it's a disease.

Looking into it more deeply I believe she's wrong and there is no current diagnostic manual that agrees with her take.

What do you think?

It's just another way of saying 'I have more in common with the opposite gender I was born as & therefore want to be treated as such' so that's hardly mental illness territory.

Mindtheagp · 26/06/2026 22:40

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Sandysandybeaches · 26/06/2026 22:44

It’s so many different things imo there’s a world of difference between really wanting to be the opposite sex and adopting those stereotypes and believing that you actually are the opposite sex or that your body repulses you. Both are difficult paths but only one is delusional thinking. Other dysmorphias are considered to be mental illnesses.And in teenage girls there is social contagion idk if that’s a mental illness.

UnintentionalArcher · 26/06/2026 22:45

BunnyBunbunbun · 26/06/2026 20:27

Being gay means you are exclusively attracted to your own sex. What exactly are you just if you say you're trans? The opposite sex? Born in the wrong body? A male person with a female soul. Your DH's nephew will always be female and will never be male.

The reality is that trans people are not what they believe they are - they are not the opposite sex and never can be. They are the sex they were born as and always will be. The question then is why do they reject their body and believe it should be something else?

I think it's a mental health issue and one that is externally caused (i.e. it's not an "innate sense" but is externally caused). Reasons can be trauma caused by abuse, confusion about sexuality, not feeling comfortable with expected gender stereotypes, autism, the general struggles of adolescents, low self-esteem, family dynamics, and the suchlike.

Being trans means that you experience your gender as different to your biological sex.

’The reality is that trans people are not what they believe they are - they are not the opposite sex and never can be.’

You’re conflating sex and gender. You’re right that biological sex cannot be changed but gender is a more ephemeral construct that is, as far as I understand it, not yet that well understood. It’s reductive to say that trans people aren’t what they believe they are, however, as it suggests that all trans people believe they can alter their biological sex. The reality that most will be aware this isn’t possible, yet still experience gender as distinct from this.

I’m interested in what @Zoonosis says, as I believe that our understanding of this will evolve significantly in coming decades and much current discourse will be looked upon as narrow and even discriminatory.

A male person with a female soul is an interesting symbolic way of thinking about it.

Shedmistress · 26/06/2026 22:48

UnintentionalArcher · 26/06/2026 22:45

Being trans means that you experience your gender as different to your biological sex.

’The reality is that trans people are not what they believe they are - they are not the opposite sex and never can be.’

You’re conflating sex and gender. You’re right that biological sex cannot be changed but gender is a more ephemeral construct that is, as far as I understand it, not yet that well understood. It’s reductive to say that trans people aren’t what they believe they are, however, as it suggests that all trans people believe they can alter their biological sex. The reality that most will be aware this isn’t possible, yet still experience gender as distinct from this.

I’m interested in what @Zoonosis says, as I believe that our understanding of this will evolve significantly in coming decades and much current discourse will be looked upon as narrow and even discriminatory.

A male person with a female soul is an interesting symbolic way of thinking about it.

What is a female soul?

ALovelyPinkUnicorn · 26/06/2026 22:49

@UnintentionalArcher so if my soul is a billionaire… should I expect people to accept my imaginary wealth re providing services?

PurpleLovecats · 26/06/2026 22:49

I don’t think it’s a MH issue. But I have trans friends and family members whose mental Health is significantly improved now they’ve transitioned. I’m just so pleased to see them living happier lives.

noblegiraffe · 26/06/2026 22:49

UnintentionalArcher · 26/06/2026 22:45

Being trans means that you experience your gender as different to your biological sex.

’The reality is that trans people are not what they believe they are - they are not the opposite sex and never can be.’

You’re conflating sex and gender. You’re right that biological sex cannot be changed but gender is a more ephemeral construct that is, as far as I understand it, not yet that well understood. It’s reductive to say that trans people aren’t what they believe they are, however, as it suggests that all trans people believe they can alter their biological sex. The reality that most will be aware this isn’t possible, yet still experience gender as distinct from this.

I’m interested in what @Zoonosis says, as I believe that our understanding of this will evolve significantly in coming decades and much current discourse will be looked upon as narrow and even discriminatory.

A male person with a female soul is an interesting symbolic way of thinking about it.

Any secondary school teacher can tell you what the trans kids they have taught have in common with each other, and it is absolutely not 'a differently sexed soul'.

FrippEnos · 26/06/2026 22:50

Shedmistress · 26/06/2026 22:48

What is a female soul?

Probably something that is so undescribable that it just is. and if someone says that they have it we must believe them.

ALovelyPinkUnicorn · 26/06/2026 22:50

PurpleLovecats · 26/06/2026 22:49

I don’t think it’s a MH issue. But I have trans friends and family members whose mental Health is significantly improved now they’ve transitioned. I’m just so pleased to see them living happier lives.

So yay! They’re happier forcing their male bodies and self onto women? How wonderful

Seethlaw · 26/06/2026 22:50

@UnintentionalArcher

I've never seen any evidence that there is such a thing as gender. Can you provide any?

ThatZanyFatball · 26/06/2026 22:52

Octavia64 · 26/06/2026 20:10

Hmm.

i was in an accident which resulted in some problems with my foot. This caused my brain to decide my foot wasn’t part of me.

it was a distinctly odd feeling but generally this sort of thing is not considered a mental health issue as such.

see also phantom limb syndrome where even after a limb has been cut off/amputated/lost in an accident the brain still thinks it is there and will generate sensations from it.

in the same way if someone genuinely believes they really are one sex when their body is actually the other I’d be reluctant to classify it as a mental health issue.

I'm sorry r u trying to claim that your brain believing your foot is not actually there when it is... Is not a mental health problem?

user1471538275 · 26/06/2026 22:54

@PurpleLovecats So your family members and friends are happier now that everyone agrees with whatever they say and presumably complies with their demands to be viewed as the wrong sex.

Strange that.

ThatZanyFatball · 26/06/2026 22:54

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PurpleLovecats · 26/06/2026 22:55

ALovelyPinkUnicorn · 26/06/2026 22:50

So yay! They’re happier forcing their male bodies and self onto women? How wonderful

You’re assuming they’re all mtf trans.

Baileyonice · 26/06/2026 22:57

FrippEnos · 26/06/2026 22:50

Probably something that is so undescribable that it just is. and if someone says that they have it we must believe them.

So something is only 'real' if it has a physical presence? Like a mental illness?

You can't have it both ways given both are mental & not physical states.

PurpleLovecats · 26/06/2026 22:57

user1471538275 · 26/06/2026 22:54

@PurpleLovecats So your family members and friends are happier now that everyone agrees with whatever they say and presumably complies with their demands to be viewed as the wrong sex.

Strange that.

Where did I say that? Read this thread and it is clear that none of my friends and family are accepted by all. However, yes they are happier.

ThatZanyFatball · 26/06/2026 22:57

UnintentionalArcher · 26/06/2026 22:45

Being trans means that you experience your gender as different to your biological sex.

’The reality is that trans people are not what they believe they are - they are not the opposite sex and never can be.’

You’re conflating sex and gender. You’re right that biological sex cannot be changed but gender is a more ephemeral construct that is, as far as I understand it, not yet that well understood. It’s reductive to say that trans people aren’t what they believe they are, however, as it suggests that all trans people believe they can alter their biological sex. The reality that most will be aware this isn’t possible, yet still experience gender as distinct from this.

I’m interested in what @Zoonosis says, as I believe that our understanding of this will evolve significantly in coming decades and much current discourse will be looked upon as narrow and even discriminatory.

A male person with a female soul is an interesting symbolic way of thinking about it.

This is all gobbled gook nonsense and you're either a troll, a bot, or a cultist. Looking forward to the charlatans who pushed this nonsense on the world being dragged in front of a court and having to defend this nonsense under oath.

Viviennemary · 26/06/2026 22:58

My opinion is this. Being gay is not the same mentally as being trans. If you are gay you know you are a man or woman and you are attracted to the same sexas yourself. Being trans is not accepting who you are man or woman which can't change. But on the other hand Chas Bono (Cher's child - born female) seems to have transitioned to male and living a happy life as a man. It's a difficult one.

Seethlaw · 26/06/2026 23:05

Just wanted to point out that happiness post-transition doesn't mean that being trans cannot be some kind of mental disorder. Anorexic people are happiest when losing weight - even when they are already dangerously underweight.

stripesandspotsanddots · 26/06/2026 23:10

Seethlaw · 26/06/2026 23:05

Just wanted to point out that happiness post-transition doesn't mean that being trans cannot be some kind of mental disorder. Anorexic people are happiest when losing weight - even when they are already dangerously underweight.

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Anorexia is a potentially fatal disorder, you can’t compare it to transitioning, which in most cases improves people’s mental health.

parachutegirl · 26/06/2026 23:13

hahabahbag · 26/06/2026 20:11

I think it’s like being gay, you just are, my dh’s nephew knew he felt differently as a little girl, didn’t know what it was then, long before the current “trend” and transitioned 15 years ago

She only felt differently because she didn’t feel that she fit in with society’s expectations of her. I felt exactly the same but if we didn’t have gender stereotyping it wouldn’t be a thing.