Nobody is 100% typical of anything; let alone gender stereotypes. We are all a mixture of characteristics and preferences...that is what makes us individuals.
'Conforming' to certain sex based stereotypes, but not to others.
The correct term is individuals are mosaics. But when it comes to relating/identifying/associating more to one group than the other it's an individual on balance determination that's based on personal beliefs & values. Just like for political party affiliations, not all individuals are identical in the policies that appeal to them but they determine on balance which party is more aligned with their beliefs.
What you seem to be describing as 'gender' is a caricature; a particular small set of stereotypes that are repetitively performed; which is why many trans identified people seem to inhabit a role for which they have to learn the lines, the movements, the inflections and so on.
If you want to play the stereotype game, beware because GC ideology does too:
"The Female Eunuch author then said it “wasn’t fair” that “a man who has lived for 40 years as a man and had children with a woman and enjoyed the services – the unpaid services of a wife, which most women will never know ... then decides that the whole time he’s been a woman.”
-Germaine Greer
Greer implies here that men can't be women because they can never be part of natal women's shared experiences. But the facts are not all women have the same experiences so by GC logic she is suggesting a 'stereotype' of experiences.
GC's can't have it both ways.
which is why many trans identified people seem to inhabit a role for which they have to learn the lines, the movements, the inflections and so on.
This completely disregards the fact that males & females share gendered personality traits that are biologically influenced so to assert they can only be 'acting' is absurd.
But no matter how much you perform gender - it does not change your sex. It is also not what makes your sex. Women can perform gender too...but that is not what makes them women. 'Woman' is the word we give to an adult human female.
No one is suggesting gender changes gametal/chromosomal sex. And women just like trans women aren't 'acting' but are at the mercy of biological influences that result in gendered biological inclinations & expressions.
https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC3149680/