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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

What the fuck is wrong with men!

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Ihateboris · Yesterday 11:28

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Senior paramedic among 13 charged with husband accused of raping drugged wife

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Ihateboris · Yesterday 11:34

Honestly, I despair. You never hear of women carrying out such disgusting things. 🫣

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MrsTomRipley · Yesterday 11:34

You are right - What the fuck

Ihateboris · Yesterday 11:37

MrsTomRipley · Yesterday 11:34

You are right - What the fuck

I wonder how long before the "it's not all men" apologists come along. I know it's not ALL men, but it's ALWAYS men

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SilenceInside · Yesterday 11:37

It's the scale and the sheer number and variety of men involved that's terrifying. Not that one or two wouldn't be equally as sickening.

wantmorenow · Yesterday 11:38

WTF! Some (many) just don't see women as independent, feeling, humans at all. Where is the empathy and humanity?

Ihateboris · Yesterday 11:38

SilenceInside · Yesterday 11:37

It's the scale and the sheer number and variety of men involved that's terrifying. Not that one or two wouldn't be equally as sickening.

Exactly. It's truly sickening, but sadly not shocking 😔

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SilenceInside · Yesterday 11:39

It might not be all men, but it's far too many of them, and not just the kind of men that immediately appear to be unpleasant types. These are men with responsible jobs, apparently able to function as typical members of society, on the surface.

Ihateboris · Yesterday 11:42

Having had three bloody awful relationships (where the last one ended as he was using prostitutes), I can honestly say I'm glad to be single and never want to be in a relationship ever again.

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SwirlyGates · Yesterday 11:43

SilenceInside · Yesterday 11:37

It's the scale and the sheer number and variety of men involved that's terrifying. Not that one or two wouldn't be equally as sickening.

"The identities of 13 other men, aged between 28 and 73, who face charges relating to the same alleged victim can be reported for the first time"

How on earth does the main perpetrator find these other men? Friends, random strangers? "Hey mate, do you want to rape my drugged wife?" Online, I suppose - the internet has a lot to answer for. But however it comes about, that's a lot of men conspiring to rape, and in just one case. There are so many others.

WTF is wrong with men, indeed.

PauliesWalnuts · Yesterday 11:43

I’m so glad they’ve named and shamed these.

Ihateboris · Yesterday 11:47

And I'm sure many of the perpetrators would have been described by their wives/girlfriends/mothers etc as "a lovely guy " "the perfect husband " "great father " blah blah blah. 🙄

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DialSquare · Yesterday 11:47

I really believe that we will never know the depth of depravity that many men will go if they think they will not be caught. That poor woman.

napody · Yesterday 11:47

PauliesWalnuts · Yesterday 11:43

I’m so glad they’ve named and shamed these.

Agree. Such a shame the husband can't be named- protected by his wife's understandable need for anonymity.

This is why Gisele Pelicot's 'shame must switch sides' was so revelatory. And 'me too' before it. Feels like small consolation but it does seem as if we are edging towards a situation where every perv and pig is named and shamed as routine.

Ihateboris · Yesterday 11:48

DialSquare · Yesterday 11:47

I really believe that we will never know the depth of depravity that many men will go if they think they will not be caught. That poor woman.

Spot on. I truly believe that the majority of men would participate if they thought they'd never get caught.

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Phoenix1Arisen · Yesterday 11:49

PauliesWalnuts · Yesterday 11:43

I’m so glad they’ve named and shamed these.

I'm not. At this point, they have only been charged. I'll cheer once they have had their day in court and been found guilty.

Ihateboris · Yesterday 11:50

napody · Yesterday 11:47

Agree. Such a shame the husband can't be named- protected by his wife's understandable need for anonymity.

This is why Gisele Pelicot's 'shame must switch sides' was so revelatory. And 'me too' before it. Feels like small consolation but it does seem as if we are edging towards a situation where every perv and pig is named and shamed as routine.

''Every perv and pig" made me chuckle.

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Ihateboris · Yesterday 11:52

Phoenix1Arisen · Yesterday 11:49

I'm not. At this point, they have only been charged. I'll cheer once they have had their day in court and been found guilty.

I think you'll be cheering then.

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babschicken · Yesterday 11:52

I am so very sick and tired of this shit. I'm glad we are at the very least moving towards a name and shame culture. Disgusting pigs.

ThonsDesperate · Yesterday 13:10

Another rogues’ gallery of abhorrent men. There are no words. That poor woman. I hope she gets some sort of justice, but it’s small recompense really.

JoyousOpalLemur · Yesterday 13:15

And this gang is just a one-off compared to the thousands of grooming gangs.

It's sickening.

BackToLurk · Yesterday 13:32

JoyousOpalLemur · Yesterday 13:15

And this gang is just a one-off compared to the thousands of grooming gangs.

It's sickening.

You’re more confident than i am that this is a ‘one-off’

ginasevern · Yesterday 14:31

Ihateboris · Yesterday 11:48

Spot on. I truly believe that the majority of men would participate if they thought they'd never get caught.

I'm in my late sixties now and having worked with men of all age groups, from very different demographics and in five different countries, I can honestly say that I agree with you 100%.

Shortshriftandlethal · Yesterday 14:32

wantmorenow · Yesterday 11:38

WTF! Some (many) just don't see women as independent, feeling, humans at all. Where is the empathy and humanity?

Not when they are addicted to pornography or led by their dicks.

Shortshriftandlethal · Yesterday 14:34

JoyousOpalLemur · Yesterday 13:15

And this gang is just a one-off compared to the thousands of grooming gangs.

It's sickening.

I suspect not! Theer have been a number of reported cases recently.

Ihateboris · Yesterday 14:48

BackToLurk · Yesterday 13:32

You’re more confident than i am that this is a ‘one-off’

This is definitely not an outlier unfortunately

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