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What the fuck is wrong with men!

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Ihateboris · Yesterday 11:28

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Senior paramedic among 13 charged with husband accused of raping drugged wife

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Ihateboris · Today 09:27

I can't believe how many men were involved and the ages..from mid 20s to 70s...!!..that poor woman x

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PrizedPickledPopcorn · Today 09:37

Ihateboris · Yesterday 11:47

And I'm sure many of the perpetrators would have been described by their wives/girlfriends/mothers etc as "a lovely guy " "the perfect husband " "great father " blah blah blah. 🙄

I expect their wives and girlfriends are wracking their brains for strange experiences themselves- nights they were surprisingly tired, mornings they were groggy, unexpected UTIs.

Presumably is a small step from raping a drugged woman to drugging your own partner.

Ihateboris · Today 09:40

PrizedPickledPopcorn · Today 09:37

I expect their wives and girlfriends are wracking their brains for strange experiences themselves- nights they were surprisingly tired, mornings they were groggy, unexpected UTIs.

Presumably is a small step from raping a drugged woman to drugging your own partner.

Yes, and if they attend a GP appointment for whatever issues they're experiencing, it will no doubt be put down to "women's " problems. We are so fucking fucked. I wouldn't be surprised if a doctor was involved in this particular case.

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JuliettaCaeser · Today 09:45

The name and shame is good. That should be an effective deterrent.

faithfultoGeorgeMichael · Today 09:46

Endeyecheck

Google it. This is not a 1 off. 6 million men accessed the website that TEACHES men how to do this and co ordinates the rapes. 6 MILLION.

PrizedPickledPopcorn · Today 10:26

How in hell are they denying it? What can they feel is their excuse?
There are several ‘pathologies’ if you like.

The man drugged his wife. Raped her. Wanted to let other men rape her.

The one who admitted it is presumably the supplier of the drug.

Ihateboris · Today 10:30

faithfultoGeorgeMichael · Today 09:47

What the actual???? Unbelievable.

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Ihateboris · Today 10:34

JuliettaCaeser · Today 09:45

The name and shame is good. That should be an effective deterrent.

I agree that it's great that the monsters are being named and shamed, but sadly I fear it won't be a deterrent. Doesn't help that the punishments are so damn lenient.

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guinnessguzzler · Today 10:58

It is shocking. And I think it becomes a wider problem when so many 'ordinary' men, with partners, children, jobs etc, are doing this. It means the bar for male behaviour becomes so low ... 'well, at least he's never drugged me'. I've noticed on a few threads recently when someone criticises men more generally there are some posters who come on and say 'men are responsible for almost all historic scientific achievements etc'. Well, yes, but only because they blocked women from being involved. Who knows how different things would be if science had been led by women from the start? But also, I do sometimes wonder how on earth did men achieve all these great things when so many of them now really are total duds? Have men lost their way? I'm sure the proliferation of porn via the internet doesn't help. But honestly when I look around in my life it is women keeping things going in every sphere. It even starts at school where pretty much the only thing the boys do is football while the girls are on committees, getting involved, getting awards. Obviously there are some boys too, just as with the men, but it feels like in almost every area in society now women are outshining men. Is it because we had to learn to beat men on their own terms to be allowed to do stuff? I know men have always been violent including against women but these groups of men working together to carry out extreme abuse, is it just it is more reported? Or is there more of it? Is it because they don't take on the responsibilities women do ie childcare, caring, volunteering etc so they have all this free time to fill and can't figure out what else to do with it? Are they really that limited? And how can any if these men think what they've done is acceptable? It involved lengthy planning and collaboration, major premeditation with plenty of time to realise it was wrong.

Ihateboris · Today 12:50

guinnessguzzler · Today 10:58

It is shocking. And I think it becomes a wider problem when so many 'ordinary' men, with partners, children, jobs etc, are doing this. It means the bar for male behaviour becomes so low ... 'well, at least he's never drugged me'. I've noticed on a few threads recently when someone criticises men more generally there are some posters who come on and say 'men are responsible for almost all historic scientific achievements etc'. Well, yes, but only because they blocked women from being involved. Who knows how different things would be if science had been led by women from the start? But also, I do sometimes wonder how on earth did men achieve all these great things when so many of them now really are total duds? Have men lost their way? I'm sure the proliferation of porn via the internet doesn't help. But honestly when I look around in my life it is women keeping things going in every sphere. It even starts at school where pretty much the only thing the boys do is football while the girls are on committees, getting involved, getting awards. Obviously there are some boys too, just as with the men, but it feels like in almost every area in society now women are outshining men. Is it because we had to learn to beat men on their own terms to be allowed to do stuff? I know men have always been violent including against women but these groups of men working together to carry out extreme abuse, is it just it is more reported? Or is there more of it? Is it because they don't take on the responsibilities women do ie childcare, caring, volunteering etc so they have all this free time to fill and can't figure out what else to do with it? Are they really that limited? And how can any if these men think what they've done is acceptable? It involved lengthy planning and collaboration, major premeditation with plenty of time to realise it was wrong.

What a brilliant post and I have to agree with everything...in particular the porn. I think they do these awful things because, quite simply, they're ruled by their dicks and not their brains.

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NorthFaceofthelaundrypile · Today 13:04

Looking at the faces of those men arriving in court, there seems to be no look of shame about them.

Ihateboris · Today 13:42

NorthFaceofthelaundrypile · Today 13:04

Looking at the faces of those men arriving in court, there seems to be no look of shame about them.

That is exactly what I thought. They certainly don't look remorseful.

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